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do u wonder who are the ones here who seem calm and rational, who may very well appear on tomorrow's news dead? The ones who make a lot of noise get saved, those suffering quietly fall thru the cracks and then one day you don't see them on the forums anymore.

When I played computer games online, I often ran into gamers that liked to insult their opponents, especially when they were getting the shit beat out of them.



There were also 2 others who were assholes whether they were winning or not. Win, they'd call others noobs. Lose, they call others ...

WOW by chance? I get those too, usually from Kids I suspect.



River

No. Space Marine. Some of his choice (attempts at) insults:

"You have penis envy" <- lol if only he knew...

"women shouldn't talk so much" <- sad sexism, if only he wasn't constantly getting his ass kicked

"shut up, you ...

Oh hello. What a strange coincidence, some random Russian dude hurled insults at me for no reason while we were playing a game.

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Thanks for the warning, punkypink. Some people might not agree I'm thinking with the right head about all of this, but bums to them. I'm a considerate and intelligent chap, I think things through and discuss them with my partner, and I'm not going to do anything that'll get me in trouble. For me ...

Were I live: Rape is unwanted or forced SEX (any form of)

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Which is where? Common English law is pretty clear about what constitutes rape legally, it'd be interesting to know whic
h countries have since then updated their codes.

Should women w

ho force sex on men likewise be charged ...

Anyone who isn't just coming here for dirty relief, I can welcome with wide open arms. This site needs more people who're thinking with the right head frankly. Oh and avoid the chatrooms, 95% of people in there are definately thinking with the other head.

The term rape is a huge one, men get the blame of most rapes but these days it is equal for men and woman to be raped by the same or opposite sex, the penis is just a tool that is used to rape some one it in itself is not the rapier.



I believe if you check the legal code of most countries ...

In response to one of the posts above that I feel might be misleading and was possibly posted from a narrow point of view from the poster's own personal experience, I don't know about some people, but I don't think I can have sex with a man, ever. Whatever chemicals are pumping through my system, no ...

As the legal definition of rape in many legal systems define rape as the forceful insertion of the penis into the vagina, I think that there is some view that penis = rape due to the social validation provided by legislation.

Personally, I strongly disagree that penis = rape, or even that penis ...

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I admit that I was considering the body only, not the personality. Those whom claim to be a woman trapped in a man's body or vice versa have a valid point there. The writers of the Upanishads in ancient India knew that the person is not the body.

Those who deride as "the ghost in the ...

Fact is there are eunuchs which are identified as female from the time of birth, most as male, and so many of us as in between in a sort of separate all inclusive category, sort of a third gender construct which in this society other than India are told that they are male.

And yes biology has ...

By definition from dictionary, men who have had theirs testicles removed or rendered non functional are eunuchs. needless to tag those men with the word eunuch but they are no less eunuch. If a man is not a shame to be balless why should he be a shame to be called eunuch, unless they them self ...

smoothie36 (imported) wrote: Thu Mar 01, 2012 9:45 pm Take the old definition of a duck, and put in human attributes and you have your answer!

I can think of a lot of real life examples that would definitively disprove this claim.

Well a bull is a bull and a beef is a beef, when a man lose the use of his testicles he can no longer do what a man has got to do, reproduce himself, If a castrated man is still a man what's an eunuch then?



Judging a book by its cover is inapplicable when one is talking about a sentient ...

What difference does it make once you enter a private stall and close the door? Having a common area with sinks and mirrors for washing hands and fixing hair, etc should not present a privacy or gender related problem.



I agree with this actually. Same for fitting rooms and the like. I don't ...

I played the part of a man in society and that did not make me a man. So I would keep the definition simple. You are whatever you believe yourself to be. You have no control; however, if others believe you to be something else. In the end, what you believe about yourself is your reality ...

Punkypink has persuaded me in her many posts that gender is an identity, not an anatomy. If you feel like a man, and have played a man's part in society, then you are a man. That said, a man who didn't know you might think that opting for castration signified your rejection of masculinity, or at ...

I have no idea, Emily. I imagine that I'd find another place to go potty in the case where a genetic female appeared as a guy. There's an old saying, "If it looks like a duck and quack's like a duck...." But this is all theoretical. I've never had it actually happen. Sometimes I react differently ...

Thank you for the insight. I don't think I'd be upset having you in the restroom. My point was, rather, that a man who clearly looks, acts, dresses, and sounds like a man may call himself a woman, but that doesn't mean I necessarily buy it. I have empathy for transpeople, but it wasn't transpeople ...

As a woman who had a hysterectomy shortly after marrying my hubby over 20 years ago, maybe I can address that. I suppose the main reasons are that (1) there's no way for anyone to tell from external appearances, even when I'm nude, and (2) it doesn't render having sex impossible. In short, nobody ...

Why is it that when a man looses or has removed his balls is not considered a man but becomes a eunich, yet a woman who looses or has removed her reproductive parts is still called a woman with no discrimination?



Because this is a patriarchal society. The "pinnacle" of social standing is still ...

Mac (imported) wrote: Wed Feb 15, 2012 3:02 am Is a MTF person a woman?

Is a FTM person a man?

When do they achieve those designations?

Frankly, when they were born.

Ok maybe not. It would have been girl and boy respectively till they reached whatever the legal age for adulthood is in whatever country they're in.

While I agree intellectually that it's what's between the ears that counts rather than what's between the legs in determining gender, still, if a "woman" comes into the ladies' room wearing jeans and a teeshirt, obviously having facial hair, a deep voice and no boobs, and "she" stands in a stall ...