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Hi I am close to you, the only differce is I feel neutrois as gender identity with a slight dysphoria: Sometimes I want to take the radical step tomorrow to have a body without any gender characteristics, sometimes it's OK for me to look like a man (and I'm scared of the surgery).

While we have asked a great many questions on the three surveys that have been posted on the Eunuch Archive so far, there are some questions we need to have answered to give us information that we need. P
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For me sex of other people is realy boring.

And doing sex is boring too. A bit relaxing, yes, but I think more importes things while doing this ... e. g. is the dish was done ...

That to me says that there are actually 4 possible genders. Male female, eunuch and neutrois.



This is exact my question: Are there?

You can distinguish:

Gender Expression

Biological Sex

Attraction

Gender Identity

You can say "eunuch" and "neutrois" may have the same gender identity ...

The historical view is intersting. But not helpful for finding out what a eunuchs gender identity may be. I am sure a lot of historical eunuchs had have absolutely and 100% male identity and were castrated by other reasons, even the voluntarily castrated. I have heard that eunuchs in old china ...

Thank you for your very profound answer. There first part may help me personally - I am afraid that Europe is a bit behind US in this questions but I think I just must be patient and try to find the right Doctor.

The second part ist interesting too ...


I think that it is probably the low repute ...

Yes ...

About 1% of people seems to be asexual scientists say but less want to be neutral.

The young man you describe is exactly me. And I do the non surgical part already.


In effect it is a kind of transexualism, [...] to a counselor who is undertstanding of



I did. He can not help. There ...

Yes. All items of biological sex. This may include voice and hair too but not female. My identity is neutral and I want my body as neutral as possible too.

About prostata I did not think so much until now because I don't see it but yes ... testicels, scrotum and penis definitivly yes. If I ever do ...

This is true for me but I don't feel "I am eunuch" - e.g. cutting of my testicels would not help. I want to be neutral not just castrated or inbetween.

Maybe this helps a bit: http://neutrois.com/what-is-neutrois/

Yes - not the castration is the disorder but the cure and this is what you found is true for you. The castration improved your life because your body and your soul did not fit before castration, now it dies. This is great.

The important point is: Sometging else, not male not female. You are ...

You say there is no gender identity eunuch. Without testicels you are an eunuch. This is right and wrong.

Right: Yes you are an eunuch then. This is your new sex.

Wrong: A medically castrated man have still the gender identity man even without nuts. This makes no difference for the identity.

Ther ...

Yes of course, this are the medical points and they are absolutly clear but -
what is the core of eunuch gender

identity people talking about some times? I only talk about volontarily castrated who claim to feel an eunuch identity. Not medical nessecery or by accident, not fetish reasons.

I try ...

I often read about eunuch gender here and wonder about the difference between "eunuch" and "neutrois" gender.

I am definitively asexual what means I don't feel any sexual attraction. And I have a discomfort with my body as male - I never want to be a woman but I don't feel as a male. I don't feel ...

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The decission was made - the only way to bring feeling and body in concidence is surgery. The question is: How. I want it save and legal.

The transistion to neutrois is much more, it includes other male sexual charcterstics too like beard. At the other hand I found not to look female by ...

I am in this forum for a several time now, now I think it is time to say something about me.

Obviosly I am not native english sepaker.

I am married. I have children I never want to miss. I am asexual.

I never had a real sex drive or joy on sex ... fortunatly my wife has low desiere too and I can ...

I don't remember exact ... must be the age of 6 or 7. It was not realy a castration idea but I dreamed of becoming or being a lizard child without any sexual parts. This part of the phantasy was very important.

Asexual ...

When I was 11 years old I had a fantasy about being castrated and as Atreyu69 says I never thought about asking to have my balls cut off. But I still wonder and fantasize how my life would have been when I was castrated at the age of 11.



With 11 I have seen myself "smooth" and tryed to realize ...

Ja, und mich interessiert das auch. Wobei ich ja eine totale Nullification anstrebe, das geht nicht ambulant.