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Blimey, you poor man. I feel so sorry for you.

1) 50

2) not castrate

3) Male

4) n/a

5) 48

6) 48

7) because this was my age when my wife lost her libido and sexual function to cancer, leaving us at opposite ends of the sexual desire spectrum I.e her zero out of ten, me eight or nine out of ten. This has caused huge strains on our ...

Thank you for doing that, I took a look though I didn't leave you feedback yet sorry.

I would be extremely interested in your blog. I'm considering chemical castration and the experience of someone like yourself would be invaluable as part of my research. Where would your blog be found?

Yes pure hell. I've been looking into chemical castration too but don't know how to even start or where to get right drugs. I know the doctor would be a waste of time and self harm is too scary. The hair loss drug finasteride could be an option but its only 1mg and expensive. I'll keep looking ...

Yes I feel tortured by my libido and it gets worse and worse as each week passes. I would never be unfaithful to my wife so my only options are either suffering or castration



I know exactly what you mean, my wife suggested i have an affair (now retracted) but i don't want to do that, lies ...

I sympathize with your predicament. It's also good to hear that I'm not alone



No you're not. I've wondered how many men are sitting around with wives who are now sexless through no fault of their own leaving the men sitting there with libidos that torture them all day everyday but have to just ...

Hi, I'm in the UK too and as I get older I hate my sex drive more and more, I detest having those things between my legs and want them gone. I've been in a sexless marriage for a number of years, the last time I had sex must be nearly 10 years ago. Not really sure how to achieve my ultimate goal ...

Really, I'll try to find it . Thanks

I think I've done it now. The pm / dm messaging became possible a short while after my 5th post.

Hmmm I must be missing something. I've done 5 now but can't see how to dm.

I will put this up so that I've done 5. Hopefully that's right.

Thanks for response, yes that sounds like me. These past years since my wife and I stopped being intimate have been a constant battle with my libido and trying to pretend it's fine! I'm just at the start of gathering info to see if chemical castration will reduce it and whether it's the way to go ...

Thanks for letting me know about both. And responding.

Hi there, I sent an email as I couldn't see a pm button anywhere here. Hope that's okay

Hi there, I'm looking for advice. I want to reduce my sex drive either by chemical castration or physical castration. My background is I'm 50 years old so kids are out of the way. My wife suffered aggressive womb cancer 5 years ago that rendered her unable to participate in sex and also destroyed ...