Why do women crave sex ?

[Tom Cat Fool (imported)]

I have seen it written many times here that some men have neutered themselves because they do not want to be bothered with sexual thoughts and cravings. Many Eunuchs claim that they do not have fantasies of sex and do not miss it. The last time I looked women do not have balls. Shouldn't women have the Eunuch calm with no desire for sex ? Why then do some women crave sex ? And why, like men, will they ruin their lives over sex ? It is pretty easy to see why men will ruin their lives for sex, but why do women do it ? We can't blame it all on the balls, now can we ?

[kristoff]

I have seen it written many times here that some men have neutered themselves because they do not want to be bothered with sexual thoughts and cravings. Many Eunuchs claim that they do not have fantasies of sex and do not miss it. The last time I looked women do not have balls. Shouldn't women have the Eunuch calm with no desire for sex ? Why then do some women crave sex ? And why, like men, will they ruin their lives over sex ? It is pretty easy to see why men will ruin their lives for sex, but why do women do it ? We can't blame it all on the balls, now can we ?

Because women also have testosterone in their bodies which energizes sex drive, the same as men. (By the way, men also have estrogen in their systems.)

[Tom Cat Fool (imported)]

Because women also have testosterone in their bodies which energizes sex drive, the same as men. (By the way, men also have estrogen in their systems.)

But where is the testosterone being produced in a women ? and if a man lops off his love puppies is he still going to produce testosterone and if so from where ?

[kristoff]

But where is the testosterone being produced in a women ? and if a man lops off his love puppies is he still going to produce testosterone and if so from where ?

Adrenal glands (for both) as well as, if I remember correctly, the ovaries. Would have to look that one up again.

[Paolo]

The brain also produces tiny amounts, I've read, in either sex.

[talula]

In your case that is because your brain is small P. Heheheh. I know. Shut up.

Runs fast from approaching brick

[Paolo]

[Riverwind (imported)]

I love this smiley, saved a copy I did, going to use it on Moi.

River

[Paolo]

yeah just type in the colon ":" then "brick" then another colon

[C&TL2745 (imported)]

Why do women like sex? Well...

1) It feels good, especially if the guy lasts long enough to give her an orgasm;

2) She can give her man pleasure, which makes her feel good;

3) Intimacy, closeness, bonding, which feels good;

4) For some, the thought of becoming a mom is a motivator (though for others it's a deterrent);

5) Mostly, though, it just feels good.

Of course, there are also less laudable motivations: prostitution, blackmail, "accidentally" getting pregnant on purpose in an effort to get a boyfriend to propose, etc., but those aren't so much a matter of wanting sex as using sex to achieve other ends.

Sandi

[knightbird111 (imported)]

do eunuchs satisfy a woman the most being they can last very long? Or are women dissatisfied by a eunuchs dry orgasm?

I think its all mental as to why women crave sex

[JustLurking (imported)]

The following quotes should answer most of the questions in this topic.

"It has been found that when testosterone and endorphins in ejaculated semen meet the cervical wall after sexual intercourse, females receive a spike in testosterone, endorphin, and oxytocin levels, and males after orgasm during copulation experience an increase in endorphins and a marked increase in oxytocin levels."

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Testosterone

"This cycle has been associated with changes in a woman's testosterone levels during the menstrual cycle. According to Gabrielle Lichterman, testosterone levels have a direct impact on a woman's interest in sex. According to her, testosterone levels rise gradually from about the 24th day of a woman's menstrual cycle until ovulation on about the 14th day of the next cycle, and during this period the woman's desire for sex increase consistently. The 13th day is generally the day with the highest testosterone levels. In the week following ovulation, the testosterone level is the lowest and as a result women will experience less interest in sex"

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Libido

[loveableleopardy (imported)]

Okay, so this is the complicated thread I was thinking of.

When I argued with family and stuff a couple of years ago about wanting to remove my sex drive, and fully believing that it was purely a negative to me, it had a lot to do with a feeling that men needed to want sex whereas women didn't, or some such thing. So I would argue that women just didn't generally have anything like the sex drive of a man. But now I think that's pretty false. The sex drive quantity isn't necessarily hugely different. It's just that wanting sex is in the forefront of the male mind, not in the female mind. Anyhoo, my blog post titled Adidas sums it up pretty well I think. There is more to come from me, but I'll leave it for another time.

[Tom Cat Fool (imported)]

I guess I needed to bring it up because there are many here that blame just about everything on their testicles. I guess that would be normal in a forum such as this. I had a little problem that I brought up in my introduction about crushes on other women besides my wife. Some mentioned that it may help if I lowered my T levels or just lopped off my junk altogether After thinking about it I don't think my problem is really rooted in testosterone. I think it is largely psychological but I did ponder this question: If I had my love puppies removed would I still get crushes ? So then I got to thinking .... women and especially younger girls get very bad crushes as well. As stated earlier, we can't blame everything on our testicles.

[C&TL2745 (imported)]

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As stated earlier, we can't blame everything on our testicles.

The largest sex organ in either sex is the brain.

Sandi

[loveableleopardy (imported)]

I don't think that women ruin their lives over sex, at least not in the way that men do. And for a lot of men, our behaviour and desires have a LOT to do with our testosterone. If you have a strong relationship with your wife then you shouldn't get all these little female 'crushes'. Sexual desires yes, if you have your sex drive. We are men after all. But maybe the issue is that you've fallen out of love with your wife? As for desires and so forth, when on androcur I still did some masturbating, but I became much more 'female' like in my attitude towards sex. I wasn't tempted to flirt and stuff. Though I am in love, so maybe that removes other 'crushes' from possibly happening. Without androcur sex is a very powerful thing, and it takes other factors to stop stupid actions from happening. I am very much open minded to the sexually active, sexually not, alternatives. After my holiday I should know what to do next.

[Tom Cat Fool (imported)]

Women have the most to lose from having sex. A women can be left alone caring for a child and the man is nowhere to be found. Yet, still many women will risk all for sex.

I also think You can love more than one woman at a time. We are not by nature monogamous creatures. Unfortunately, our society frowns on having more than one wife. Maybe, I will have to move to UTAH