A question for the elective eunuchs

[Robby (imported)]

Hi!

This is my first post to the EA.

I am 29 yrs, straight male. I want to get castrated for high libido only.

No HRT for me!

Can anyone tell me what kind of things to expect? I have read SJC's info. and while I'm sure some of it occurs, the same does not happen to all elective eunuchs. I understand that those are SJC's personal experiences -mostly.

I am looking for info. from young eunuch guys who have been down this road, who have been castrated and yet present as normal males. Who work, earn and succeed in their career, and play some sports just like other guys!

Only, they don't have an insatiable libido.

Do all eunuchs become weaker than intact males?

Do all eunuchs lose their energy?

I would like to get good, honest answers from all eunuchs in the same situation as myself.

Personal emails ([email protected]) welcome or post at the EA.

Thanks for reading and I look forwards to hearing some replies!

Ricardo

Interesting post you have going here. You are quite direct in your approach. You aak for good, honest answers.

I will give you all the honest answers to your questions if you do one little thing. Fill in your profile. Answer those questions honestly and see how many people respond to your question.

Hoping to see input on your profile...

[Andrew (imported)]

I would like to get good, honest answers from all eunuchs in the same situation as myself.

Personal emails ([email protected]) welcome or post at the EA.

Every Eunuch will have different effects from his castration. Some of this may depend on whether he is an "elective" Eunuch or not. YMWV = Your Mileage Will vary. Some side effects of castration are:

Infertility, in all cases.

Many (but not all) elective eunuchs develop "The Eunuch Calm", with reduced or eliminated thoughts of sex, aggression, and ambition. In the words of Dr. Spector, "either case of TS or eunuch, a deep, calm serenity develops which, from then on, makes life far more worthwhile." This has happened to me, but again, YMWV. This is less likely to happen to non-elective eunuchs.

Reduced libido, erections, and nocturnal emissions, sometimes to the point of total asexuality.

Weight gain, including subcutaneous body fat. This thin layer of fat causes the skin to become softer and smoother.

Loss or thinning of body hair, but male pattern baldness slows down or stops. Reduced body odor.

Loss of lean muscle mass (hence muscle weakness, increased fatigue, and loss of stamina). Your shoulders will become narrower and you will lose muscle definition in your upper torso without a VIGOROUS exercise program.

Little to mild breast development, and mild fat redistribution around the hips and thighs.

The penis may shrink.

Hot flushes and night sweats in some cases, lasting up to 5 years.

POSSIBLE moodiness and tearfulness. Do not be surprised if you start crying far more frequently over what may seem to be trivial matters.

There MIGHT be cognitive losses, mostly in spatial orientation and short term memory

Post-surgical depression is common. Possible chronic depression SHOULD be a major concern, and may require professional therapy. This is far more likely to happen to non-elective eunuchs.

The WORST side effect is osteoporosis. You should take at least 1,500 MG of calcium and 400 IU of Vitamin D daily. Shortly before or after castration, you should have a bone density scan, and after that a scan every two years. A proper diet and exercise program will help in the battle against osteoporosis.

Most Physicians have no experience in caring for a hypogonadal man. Consider finding a Physician who has a thorough working knowledge on the problems and treatments of menopausal and post-menopausal women. Whilst the biology of a Eunuch and a post-menopausal woman are not identical, there is some overlap.

[underboy (imported)]

Ah, at long last I sense a kindred spirit. I lived a BDSM lifestyle for my entire adult life with a woman as my Mistress, well actually several women in succession, having been sold or given away several times. I look, walk, act and talk straight. If you saw me on the street you might think I was a retired NFL player. Until fairly recently I lived a double life, holding a professional occupation by day, bitching for my Mistress(es) by night, on weekends, holidays and vacations, of which I had plenty because I was the boss of my corporation. Although I was married twice to women the first thought I was just gay and didn't mind my sleeping with men, while the second was selected by Mistress because she thought a "trophy wife" would enhance my image as a hard-charging professional and enable me to look the role to make more money - a good portion of which went to My Mistress of course. In order to make sure that my marriage was conducted correctly she caused one of her friends to be with us during the courtship and on the honeymoon and he had her before I did and many times after, particularly when I was out of town on business. I made enough money to retire when I was thirty-two and was ordered to divorce the second wife and to live with and bitch for a "normal" bisexual man. Unfortunately by the time of the last order in the property settlement two years later I had to "un-retire" and go back to making money, although I still bitched for my Mistress and slept with any man she directed me to do. She also lent me out to some of her female friends from time to time, but this rearely involved sex. She kept getting adverse reports, first from the man I had bitched for for two years and later from various other partners that I was getting too turned on during the time that I was supposed to be pleasing them, so she decided to remove one of my testicles. She had castrated several boys and was well-versed in the technique. She made quite a party a party of removing my right testicle and took a long time doing it. Everyone there had a great time, especially me. This did not reduce my sex drive to any great degree and I continued to get into trouble for thinking about my own pleasure during sex instead of that my partners were experiencing. This went on for two years and my Mistress decided it was time to take the other one. She allowed one of her friends to do it while she supervised and guess what! Yesterday - September 1, was both the birthday of the woman who did the second one and the tenth anniversary of the occurrence. It took about three months for the male urges to go away, but I found myself driven by a more pleasing urge than my testosterone-induced libido ever had provided. That urge was to please my partners as sublimely and deeply as I could. I began to take pleasure in the pleasure I could provide. If you ask my gender it is neither gay, straight, bixexual nor transexual. It is pleasure giver, one not listed in the literature. I guess I have a bit of girl in me. I like to wear girls' undergarments and makeup sometimes while at home with my girlfriend, a biological female, whom I am only too glad to please and even gladder when she finds a nice man to give her what she needs in the form of a male organ, but there is nothing sexual about how I relate to her. I am genderless and glad of it. In effect I am just playing dress-up with my girlfriend whom I love to pieces. I like my penis; I always have. I think it is quite attractive though somewhat shrunken since my castration. My girlfriend likes it too. I hated my balls, even when I was horny male having sex with both men and women. I thought they were ugly and I now am delighted with the neat, thin scar that goes up the middle of the space below my penis. Many men like to put their organs between my thighs and pump me that way, a form of completely safe sex that provides both closeness and pleasure to my partner. Castration was the best thing that ever happened to me because it revealed my true gender: pleasure giver. I know most of the people on this site are biological males who want to become pysically as female as their true gender dictates. I am glad all of you are making progress toward it. In the meantime, though, if you hear of a Mistress who was born a biological female and is looking for a very well-trained bitch I hope you will mention to her to give me some consideration. I am very good at serving in many ways other than sexual and I make a very nice male escort for those special times when you need to step out of your role and see family or friends in public.

[Nopenis Magoo (imported)]

I am elective eunuch for many reasons. The main one being that I didn't want my genitals anymore. I had them for years and just got sick of them....Know what the best part of being a eunuch is?? Not having a penis. I couldn't stand that thing. Always needing constant attention...such a hassle. I once had an erection for 16 days. But I was afraid to touch it. Then when I finally did touch it, it didn't feel good at all. For 6 years all I did was play with it an I hated it. Finally, I couldn't take it anymore. After one more weekend of binge masturbating, I made an appointment to get my penis removed....unfortunately, it was a dentist appointment. So he didn't really know what to do. I was very insulted and told him I would do it myself. So I did. And here I am now, living the life. The penis-free life. I still watch porn all the time....but I don't like it. Anyways, just thought I'd share with you guys. I'm gonna go play with my stump. Peace out.

[Robby (imported)]

I am elective eunuch for many reasons. After one more weekend of binge masturbating, I made an appointment to get my penis removed....unfortunately, it was a dentist appointment. So he didn't really know what to do. I was very insulted and told him I would do it myself.

Hey... you should have told the dentist you needed a root canal and pointed out the proper location below the belt. http://www.eunuch.org/Public/Images/ea1/E9.gif http://www.eunuch.org/Public/Images/ea1/E9.gif http://www.eunuch.org/Public/Images/ea1/E9.gif