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Re: Surgery complete
Posted: Tue Jan 31, 2012 8:21 pm
by Hash (imported)
Thanks for all the great advice and suggestions. I'll keep ya'll posted, she didn't get back to me yesterday, but it's clearly not an emergency so I'll just wait and try to be patient.
Re: Surgery complete
Posted: Tue Jan 31, 2012 11:27 pm
by YodaNell (imported)
HASH!! My friend, I'm so glad you're ok and healing properly. Man, it seems (like in MY case as well) that Uro's arn't really very skilled surgeons. If you remember that I, too, had some bad skin flaps and ugly surgery done by my Uro. I absolutely threw a huge tantrem in the hospital that they were compelled to get a plastic surgeon fix where the uro screwed up. Fortunately, as mentioned before, he also does srs's so he knows how to perform excellent surgery.
Don't take nonsense from her. It's your body. You pay them so demand what you want or threaten her to take things further. It's usually at THIS point they give in.
Now, if I were YOU, I'll start destroying my penis. Your uro might think it is their work that did not work well, so you might get a complementary penectomy and scrotal removal as well. But...that's just me.
Anyway, congrats and I hope all works out for you soon!
Blessings
Re: Surgery complete
Posted: Wed Feb 01, 2012 7:00 pm
by nuderthannude (imported)
I believe it has less to do with "lack of skill" and more to do with being overly cautious!
Re: Surgery complete
Posted: Thu Feb 02, 2012 5:25 am
by Hash (imported)
Called again and the nurse consulted with another urologist because mine was unavailable. The urologist told the nurse that it was normal for some urine to escape and cause dribbling. I told her it was not dribbling, it was a direct flow, not as powerful as normal, but a direct flow of
My doctor is supposed to call me, I'm waiting.
Re: Surgery complete
Posted: Thu Feb 02, 2012 9:08 am
by moi621 (imported)
Good Luck to you.
Probably any revision or correction would be deferred to this surgery healing.
Just a guess.
Advise: Stay cool as you can. Speak matter of factly.
Emotion will not penetrate their denial or defensiveness.
Get emotional and they just accuse you of being emotional and say, "it will be okay"
A Urologist once punctured my dorsal urethra. I was pee-ing in my shank and scrotum.
It took a while to convince him he had to meet with me, NOW!
Hard to stay calm when my
is blown up like a warm water balloon. It absorbed in 20 min.
He did meet me after repeated occurrences.
Urologist are considered the least "handy" of the surgeons. Deservingly so.
Best Wishes.
Moi
Re: Surgery complete
Posted: Thu Feb 02, 2012 11:20 am
by Mac (imported)
YodaNell (imported) wrote: Tue Jan 31, 2012 11:27 pm
HASH!! My friend, I'm so glad you're ok and healing properly. Man, it seems (like in MY case as well) that Uro's arn't really very skilled surgeons. If you remember that I, too, had some bad skin flaps and ugly surgery done by my Uro. I absolutely threw a huge tantrem in the hospital that they were compelled to get a plastic surgeon fix where the uro screwed up. Fortunately, as mentioned before, he also does srs's so he knows how to perform excellent surgery.
Don't take nonsense from her. It's your body. You pay them so demand what you want or threaten her to take things further. It's usually at THIS point they give in.
Now, if I were YOU, I'll start destroying my penis. Your uro might think it is their work that did not work well, so you might get a complementary penectomy and scrotal removal as well. But...that's just me.
Anyway, congrats and I hope all works out for you soon!
Blessings
I would like to find a way to accomplish that.
Re: Surgery complete
Posted: Thu Feb 02, 2012 11:52 pm
by YodaNell (imported)
Mac (imported) wrote: Thu Feb 02, 2012 11:20 am
I would like to find a way to accomplish that.
Hi Mac! In all honestly, If you truly want it off, you'll find a way. Ask all those who've done it. One just get to a point where one says CHEERS!! There you go mr Willy!;)
Re: Surgery complete
Posted: Fri Feb 03, 2012 7:49 am
by Hash (imported)
I feel very unique right now, I can pee out of two places, not many people can say that! I'm continuing to pinch the glans tight so as
A-1 (imported) wrote: Mon Jan 30, 2012 11:20 am
to force the urine out of the new o
pening, seriously don't want that to close up. Still waiting for my urologist to call me, I talked to the nurse yesterday and she assured me that the urologist would call. Well, it's almost 6pm but I know she called me late once before so I'll wait a little while longer. Guess it's not an emergency.
Re: Surgery complete
Posted: Mon Feb 06, 2012 8:32 pm
by Hash (imported)
My female urologist called Friday while I was working and caught me off guard. After moving to where I could talk, I explained the situation but was not impressed with her answers. She said she was not surprised that some urine was still flowing out through my penis, even though she said, "I did make the urethostomy quite large." She then suggested that I take my hand and apply pressure while urinating, just below the remains of my scrotum to see if that would eventually stop the flow of urine. Stupidly I said I could try that and the conversation ended quite abruptly with her saying that she'd see me in a few weeks. I got off the phone and rethought what she suggested. How stupid I felt, I should have demanded that she fix the problem immediately and will try to call her back today (Monday) to request this fix. I don't want to go back under the knife, but if I have too I will.
Re: Surgery complete
Posted: Tue Feb 07, 2012 1:48 am
by jako9999 (imported)
I think most of these surgeons and doctors think they are always correct and dont think of us a person just another number.
Good luck
