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cutnbulls2ox (imported) wrote: Tue Feb 20, 2018 3:08 pm Rogerwpbfl,

I m guessing most men can t explain what turns us on sexually and why. Men are proud to be tits or ass or pussy loving men as their special turn ons. But few could explain why. Your turn on is a harmless fantasy that I bet more men share than would ever admit to it. You are simply extra brave, honest, and open about what turns you on as a fantasy. Its healthy and pretty normal as long as it stays a fantasy or stays play acting with an appreciative lover helping you with it.

I m guessing your extra big penis size and the fear and bravery of risking such a big prized, envied, admired, and desired penis plays a big part in your attraction and enjoyment of this fantasy. Like risking a treasure for a sexual thrill.

It certainly has something to do with thrill and adrenalin for me. I wish we knew more about that though. For instance, the rest of my interest in life are a lot like that as well. If I enjoy it there is always an element of risk, and as I like to call it "a major wow factor." So are the rest of you like that too?

A big reason a lot of men are reading posts and fiction stories here on EA seems to be trying to find out why emasculations are such a big turn on for them ?

And also to see if the other men so into it are normal men or not ?

Every one of us wonder how normal or abnormal the sexual stimulation around these ideas is ?

The more posts and stories I read on EA and the more eunuchs and men I talk to online or in person, the more normal men with these ideas and fetishes seem to be. I m not finding any lunatics on here so far lol. Just normal but extra high sex driven males in most cases and lots of medical necessity eunuchs.

In my case, the only thing that is saving my useless and unwanted testicles is work, especially if I have to travel out of town and need an extra week off to ensure a easier recovery (I have always been a slow healer).

When I had my research done and decided I was ready I went for it then made the payments to pay it off and no regrets!

rogerwpbfl (imported) wrote: Tue Feb 20, 2018 7:00 am I don't want to lose my balls. I just want the option to use my member as either a huge paperweight or a conversation starter when girls come over.

Sensible. When my shoulder was removed I asked that the bones be autoclaved and turned over to me. Electrified and with a small light bulb, they make keen night light in my bathroom.

Cutnbulls I hope I am pretty normal at least nobody I know treats me like a nutcase.

TeachMyWife:

Teachmywife (imported) wrote: Wed Feb 21, 2018 11:30 am It certainly has something to do with thrill and adrenalin for me. I wish we knew more about that though. For instance, the rest of my interest in life are a lot like that as well. If I enjoy it there is always an element of risk, and as I like to call it "a major wow factor." So are the rest of you like that too?

The WOW factor has no doubt played a roll in all of our interest and research even if it was due to a medical challenge. That WOW factor for me was in the line of wow, I cannot believe what women and men do to each other and how they treat each other. Let's face it, in this modern society men and women treat each other like dirt. Have any doubt just read through the latest news headlines. For me it was "WOW, I want nothing to do with either if it can't be both in one. Hence I became neither and both at the same time. I suspect for many being eunuch doesn't infer any sex drive. I have more sex drive than I perhaps should and it get satisfied by relationships with both sexes. So if that becomes the WOW factor so be it. Don't consider myself lunatic or out there. Just being me. Haven't found any activity that was lost after surgery. Enjoy all the same activities of an active lifestyle. Sailing, hunting, working with all my favorite projects, have built several homes and a few businesses since. Built my retirement and overall enjoy my life, good food, great sunsets, lots of people and many cultures. So if saving your testicles is the topic it ain't the money. It's definitely something else in the mix other than money because we spend so much money on the most unimportant things in life. Just that 700 buck I-phone would go a long way towards removing testicles if that was the important thing in ones life.

the title of the topic screams the answer "SAVING OUR TESTICLES" If that is what is on ones mind that is their answer.

sparkey49 (imported) wrote: Thu Feb 22, 2018 9:37 am Cutnbulls I hope I am pretty normal

You seem pretty well grounded to me.

Teachmywife (imported) wrote: Sun Feb 18, 2018 12:12 pm Ok, I just figured something out! I have been trying to figure out why there is not a rash of castration clinics throughout the nation, just begging to castrate any man who feels he needs it even according to the way he thinks it should happen. Look, there are healthcare professionals who do a lot worse and have no sense of guilt as long as the money is good, I've seen it. I was appalled by it but I've seen it. It has to be that we are either unwilling or unable to pay for it! Just a question. If you could be castrated exactly the way you always dreamed of and it was 100% legal, how much would you be willing to pay for it? I think this comes down to a monetary problem. What do you think?

I can think of a few reasons why there aren't. For starters, most people are freaked out by the idea of castration, unless it's their pet. As several studies have shown, there are a lot of castrated men out there due to testicular or prostate cancer. They just don't discuss it. Face it, we're a "niche market" here! Next would be the cost of running a clinic: utilities, property taxes, paying the help, cost of supplies, etc. Then throw in the "do no harm" thing, and the flocks of lawyers that are always circling like vultures looking for a claim of a sore butt after hemorrhoid surgery, etc. Then you have to factor in the time explaining it, and the side effects, to all those that would figure that castration is a good idea. Not really feasible in a world that only seems to care about money.

sparkey49 (imported) wrote: Thu Feb 22, 2018 9:37 am Cutnbulls I hope I am pretty normal at least nobody I know treats me like a nutcase.

Everyone on this site seems normal, intelligent, and free thinking. I think people on here just have a greater degree of interest or pleasure in these topics that lots of normal men and women have a smaller degree of interest and pleasure in. Most people are interested in EA topics to some degree. But most won t admit it or admit how much.

I snicker at cutnballs2ox, your calling people on this site normal, have you been in chat lately? guys there want their balls savagely taken, one guy keeps wanting me to be his daddy and order him to be castrated, others just want a bdsm scene. lets talk about the fiction archive, its almost all based on violence and deceit, doesn't anybody want something nice, its a change in some guys life equal to a girls first period, it should be celebrated and well wishes from all with the hopes that he made the right choice, not violence, everybody should be celebrating. having seen all of us I wonder sometimes how normal we are, yes I include me.

Freddyjack As some psychiatrists say, "We are all normal apart from this particular fantasy".

so it seams that so few of us are here for a nonfetish, nonviolent, nontrans simple castration that brings me the question of what is normal?

Freddyjack,

I ve never used the chat on here. So, I guess I m missing out on all that fun lol !

But I still say its fairly normal male sexual behavior. Here s why. We all know that as teens anything and everything got us excited and hard dicked. But with lots of sex and time and our bodies aging, it takes more excitement to get us so turned on. Men naturally seek out wilder and newer sex to get that extreme sexual high that came so easy to all of us when sex and our new sexual abilities were on overdrive. The more sex you have, the more new and novel sex experiences and ideas you crave and seek out to keep seeking higher excitement and more intense orgasms. Men are just built to seek new and more stimulating sex acts as the basics of sex get old and boring to us.

Same with castration fantasies. The beginners get off on simple castrations at first. Then they seek and crave wilder and more complicated fantasy versions to keep their fantasies giving them higher and higher excitement and novelty. That s very male and normal behavior for highly sex driven males as they live out every kind of tamer sex in reality. Extra high sex drive men seek that next mountain to climb and that next intense orgasm. Its how extra horny men are wired to behave.

I call that a normal sexual graduation into new and wilder sex acts and ideas. We are ruled by our dicks and balls !

Thank God I m not so low sex drive that beginner sex is all I ever get to crave or experience in a lifetime. Embrace your high sex drive and your quest for wilder and wilder sex as you go through life !

Some of the best EA fiction stories are where the men willingly or eagerly give in to their own wish to be emasculated and cooperate in it happening, even when they can easily stop it or avoid it. Giving in to their own fetishes.

One of the best and most truthful quotes I ve ever heard is

Everyone is normal until you get to know them.

Everyone has their own unique oddities in some way. I don t know who originated that quote, but its so true.

i never was looking for some exotic fantasy I just wanted my balls gone a simple castration it took a while but that is what I finally achieved and love it!

I suppose the idea of having a castration done anyway I desired would be a very tempting thought. Certainly many would want to extend the procedure as long as possible and perhaps even do it in stages over many days. I think I am glad such an option does not exist as I might give serious consideration to participate.

I'm fairly confident that if money were not an issue, I would be castrated by now. Sucks that so much of our lives are dictated by finances. But I have faith that it won't always be this like. Someday I will wake up in the body I know I belong in. I will be a eunuch. Somehow I will find a way and make it happen.

Romuluso,

Your profile on here says you lost one testicle as a kid. So you re half way there already. I m just wondering how most guys lacking one testicle usually would greatly value their sole remaining one even more than most males would. That doesn t seem to fit you.

Also, Drs claim one healthy testicle will grow bigger over time to do the work of 2 testicles after a man loses one. Did that happen for you ?

I was always ashamed of my uniball, never feeling like I was "one of the guys." I would only ever be half the man they were. Discovering the eunuch community, I finally found where I truly belong. I realized that losing my testicle was a blessing, because I now genuinely believe that I'm meant to be ball-less, and knowing that brings me peace in a way that nothing else ever has. Someday I will take my place among the neutered men I so admire, and my real life will finally begin.

From the reading I ve done, a single healthy testicle can grow to impressive size to do the work of 2 testicles. I d think your uniball would be an impressive size that most other males would envy and compliment you on it ?

Did other males even know you had one ball ? Most males are too scared of being accused of being gay to look closely at any other males dicks and balls in showers and locker rooms. Most likely all the boys and men who ever saw you just assumed you had one low hanger ball and one high hanger ball that was hidden tight up behind your penis base the whole time. Did anyone know you lost one testicle ? Did anyone ever say anything to you about it ? Only your friends would be likely to take a close look to know and ask you about it. Most other males would be too embarrassed to admit they were looking at your balls.

Both of my balls can retract way up out of my scrotum in cold. I ve showered and changed in locker rooms with my scrotum completely empty and shrunk up from extreme cold. Only young boys had the guts to ask me why I don t have any balls in my sack. Most adult and teen men never ask about it, even when its obvious. I just point to the bumps under my ab skin and say my balls are pulled way up here, inside of me, to get warm from being too cold. Boys and men look at me like my balls are strange, like their balls never do that. Most balls can t pull up that far. But its usually enough to answer most boys questions.

Most adult men won t ask any questions unless they know you enough to ask about it.

You took your missing ball and turned it into a desire to be castrated right at your sexual prime in life. The time and ages when most men are married and having kids and enjoying daily married sex with wives.

I ve known men who were proud to show off their uniballs proudly like battle scars of most men s greatest fears, and still being men after it.

I appreciate ur input cutnbulls, but it kind of sounds like ur trying to talk me out of getting castrated. But this isn't a phase for me. I've known for many years what kind of man I want to be. I want to be neutered. It's what feels right to me. And there are many others who feel the same way.

Yes, I am hoping you ll reconsider it. But you know yourself and what you want. You re old enough to know what you re doing. You had medical care after you lost your first testicle, I m assuming. So you already know what is involved in losing one testicle and the effects of losing your last one. So, I ll quit trying to get you to reconsider. Its up to you. Good luck and best wishes to you.

romuluso (imported) wrote: Sun Mar 04, 2018 3:21 am I appreciate ur input cutnbulls, but it kind of sounds like ur trying to talk me out of getting castrated. But this isn't a phase for me. I've known for many years what kind of man I want to be. I want to be neutered. It's what feels right to me. And there are many others who feel the same way.

Being totally serious, and a little bit of morbid curiosity, will your last one just go in an incinerator? Or, can something else be done with it? I know the stories about making them into jewelry are probably all just pure fiction and fantasy. But, maybe I'm wrong? And, good luck to you man!!