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You know, it seems like this message board is not growing too fast. I mean, there are a few new posters but not nearly as many as I would have expected from the traffic on the story archive.

I wonder if people are afraid to post here or if they just lurk to see what is being said.

I remember in the past that several posters claimed that they were looking for cutters, etc. but it seems that they leave here and go elsewhere.

It all makes me suspicious of new posters when they come in and claim to be...

1. Minor females who carry a secret desire to castrate a

boy.

(Although it has been my life experience that

some of them RICHLY deserve to be castrated

because of the way that they treat women.)

2. Heterosexuals with relationships who are looking for

a "Leather Daddy". I mean, "Oh my Gawd, won't she

tie you up or what?!!!"

3. People with a "urgent" need for castration/penectomy

who must get cut right away or their lives will become

untenable.

4. Doms with a need to castrate any willing subject.

5. Any other illegitimate sounding front that somebody is

likely to dream up to try to convince somebody into

doing something illegal or something that could cause

problems for the E.A.

I may be too suspicious, but sometimes nobody is really what they seem to be. I do not trust anyone who hasn't been posting here a while. So, new posters, let's make our stories either downright outrageous, so that we all can have a good laugh, or let's be serious. None of this "trolling for trouble" stuff. O.K.?

In the past I have made reference to a board called "Pleades" which was a board for women which was shut down for pandering to minors. I watch this place pretty closely for those who would like to cause trouble, but lately it seems that we haven't had too many people who in my judgement meant harm.

On the other hand, posts have seemed to become less and less frequent, except from the regulars.

With that being said I would like to encourage anybody who reads this to start to post here. We would enjoy having new "voices" around. Pull our legs if you want, but pulling other things will probably not yield your intended results. But, beware, insincerity "hangs out" around here and it could result in an...

"INSINCERECTOMY"

A-1

Getting people to post has always been a problem.

Maybe we're too scarey, I don't know.

...most probably the real problem is that not too many people have the "BALLS" to post on a Eunuch board. Especially the homophobic or the ones who tend to look at a rejection of things sexual as being "Freaky".

You are right, though. Those who are not outraged are probably intimidated. I don't see that too many here are worried about anything. We have a lot of people here interested in hormone therapy.

Before I discovered this place I thought that the only difference between a hormone and an enzyme was that you couldn't hear an enzyme...

A-1;)

I haunted this site for well over a year before I made my first post. When I first found this most excellent place, I was looking for information on my condition and still had some testicular mass. At first I thought that to be a member one must have been castrated. I wasn't sure that you let non surgical eunuchs post or be members. Many months back, I joined under another name but with the change to this format it seems to have vanished. So I finally reached down and grabbed what is left of my balls and jumped in again. I am glad that I did. There are some great people on here. I don't feel so a lone. Dealing with my disappearing nuts and TRT has made the last 15 months very tough. Almost lost my wife on the early TRT injections.

Thanks for letting me vent.

Jim

Hello to everyone,

You asked for lurkers to post, and I've posted only once or twice before, so I guess I count as a lurker.

I'm 31, married with two kids. I became interested in castration when my wife started losing all interest in sex over the last few years. Both of us talked extensively and figured castration might be a good option someday to match sex drives and provide added birth control measures. Finally went over the family doc's head to go see an endocrinologist who did determine that she has started menopause, has low testosterone and that birth control pills aren't helping. She's been given a couple injections and her drive has come back some. As such, castration has been put on hold for now, but we've decided not to completely forget about that option.

So there's my story, I'm never a prolific poster, but will listen and watch and pipe up when I feel I might be able to add something to the conversation.

Rich

Thank you for the invitation to post. I am not an eunuch, though I live and have lived a celibate life for almost ten years (in April). In early childhood, my favorite sexual fantasy concerned emasculation.

I was married 21 years to a brilliant woman who celebrated her adventurous sexuality and our making love. She also enjoyed bondage.

Since May 30, 1989, I have taken medication for depression. Depression and side effects of medications for it contributed to our divorce.

When my began my life of celibacy, I was still a fairly youthful 49 years old. Now, I have aged enough that I no longer get many hits. About three years ago, I began masturbating again. I changed medications to regain libido but I can no longer take the new medicaitons. Sometimes, I feel as if I had been castrated, though I can still obtain erection and enjoy orgasm.

My current fetish of choice concerns shaving women's heads. I do have a girl friend, who lives near New York, who shares my passion for female headshaving. She is a conservative Christian who does not have intercourse at this time, though she is pretty randy. I am quite fond of her. As far as I know, she does not know about my emasculation fantasies. And they are fantasies.

I have a lot of fantasies about women who have endured FGM. I am more than a bit ashamed of this fantasy interest, but I have it. I would never want to have my balls removed, but I do have intense fantasies about having my penis removed. I like the idea of having an intense sex drive and no penis. In an odd way, I do have an intense erotic drive but an impaired means to get off.

I am somewhat dominant in sexual play, but fairly liberal in terms of the rights of women. I notice that most of the stories posted here are not as well written as the stories posted on the Haircut Story Archive.

I lived in New Orleans for twelve years and I spent time in San Francisco. I have postive regard for gay folks, but I have never played with that team. Somehow the smells of men don't do it for me. I like, however, the mixture of straight and gay postings here. It enriches all of us.

For many years, I lifted weights and, for many years, I was in great shape. Allergies and medications have caused me to gain weight. Combined with aging, I am not quite happy with the results. Still, it is great to be alive and to enjoy sexual fantasies.

I read the posts regularly, but I rarely post a reply. I am not "lurking" nor am I "homophobic". Many times while reading a thread I find that the subject has been well-covered and my own opinion or position has already been stated by others. Therefore, I see no need for redundancy. At other times, the subject may be an area in which I have no knowledge of or have no opinion about. For example, the subject of hormone treatment is one that I have little or no knowledge of so I have nothing to contribute. Having said all that, I will attempt to be more outspoken in the future.

You are not too frightening, though some of the posts one of you recently mentioned are simply too outrageous. Now, today, I understand that that at least some of the people posting here understand some of my recent experiences. You also understand some of the fantasy that structures an important part of my sexual fantasy life. I appreciate this.

...for posting these thoughts. We probably should have said it sooner. We want EVERY EA user to feel welcome to post his/her/its thoughts. Please don't ever feel that you have anything to worry about in posting, and if you have problems, let one of us know.

Now, a tip.

If you wish to use the features like color, keep in mind that all of the codes in the brakcets like the word color, font, b, i, u, whatever must come first. Then you type your message. When you're done, you type the brackets again with a /. For example, if you begin a post with a bracketed color=red, then you must end your post with the same, only have the /. It would be like this without the spaces - you cannot have spaces in the code :

[ color = red ] type message here [ / color ]

Hiye Gals, Guys and whatever

Just for the statistics and to let A-1 know I'm still here, alive and lurking.

The Eunuch Archive message board is the most unique and interesting place to hang around, lurk or participate in.

Dear Sexless,

Of course we understand you and not only the structures of your sexual fantasies.

You can relate and use the archive as a valve when letting out these thoughts or just sit and wonder in astonishment that your not alone and of the diversity of people that participate here.

Dear Paolo and A-1,

Maybe you could explain the third segment I found when reading the rules about membership registration.

I was also astonished to discover that the legal age is know 13. My daughter is 13 but I will surely wait a few years until I gide her into the ritual of female dominance over you

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your antonia

I'm a daily visitor but I find that I don't have much to add to the conversations here. I don't mean to be aloof, just don't want to post for the sake of posting. I'm not averse to posting on a castration/eunuch oriented site though. It quite anonymous, after all.

Antonia,

We noticed this in the VBulletin software, too. It was a good laugh, if nothing else, since the software designers set it up as such! You're the first person to point it out, however! So far, no minors have come forward though ... and there's really no way to tell. In fact, I don't want to know! I wonder if programs like Net Nanny come from the factory with the word "eunuch" as a trigger? I doubt it.

I also don't post very often, because usally what I want to say has already been said and I don't want to clutter up the boards with duplicates

Mandrake (imported) wrote: Sun Mar 03, 2002 11:18 pm I'm not averse to posting on a castration/eunuch oriented site though. It quite anonymous, after all.

at one time i was concerned about potentially being "seen" in the eunuchs sites by someone i knew. but like you figured the sites were anonymous. but now i don't care if i am discovered here with my real name. i figure anyone who is at this site likely has the same interest as i. i wouldn't be uncomfortable in talking with him.

The reason the age is 13, is due to the Children's Online Privacy Protection Act of 1998 (http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/conline/pubs/buspubs/coppa.htm) AKA (COPPA)

All the vendors of web software like message boards or other software that collects personal information have included the COPPA compliancy statements and check to allow websites like Eunuch Archive to remain compliant to USA federal laws.

...good to hear from you again. You say that...

antonia (imported) wrote: Sun Mar 03, 2002 8:29 pm Dear Paolo and A-1,

Maybe you could explain the third segment I found when reading the rules about membership registration.

I was also astonished to discover that the legal age is know 13. My daughter is 13 but I will surely wait a few years until I gide her into the ritual of female dominance over you

I am curious as to if you are a custodial parent. If you want leave me a message if you don't mind talking about it. It is really none of my business, but I feel like I kind of know you.

RICH, you say that...

Rich (imported) wrote: Sun Mar 03, 2002 1:51 am Hello to everyone,

You asked for lurkers to post, and I've posted only once or twice before, so I guess I count as a lurker.

I'm 31, married with two kids. I became interested in castration when my wife started losing all interest in sex over the last few years. Both of us talked extensively and figured castration might be a good option someday to match sex drives and provide added birth control measures. Finally went over the family doc's head to go see an endocrinologist who did determine that she has started menopause, has low testosterone and that birth control pills aren't helping. She's been given a couple injections and her drive has come back some. As such, castration has been put on hold for now, but we've decided not to completely forget about that option.

So there's my story, I'm never a prolific poster, but will listen and watch and pipe up when I feel I might be able to add something to the conversation.

That is a SAD story, Rich. Lots of times loss of libido has a lot of psychologiocal aspects to it. Maybe you all should explore that possibility. Has she tried viagra? I hear that it works on women as well as men.

Vi complains a lot that I am nothing but a "horn puppy". I think that a lot of this is characteristic of women today, but I find that when my libido is satisfied that I would prefer to remain in that frame of mind. We joke about me "losing them" and it is usually stimulating sexually, but it doesn't sem to be too serious.

Probably because Vi still likes an occasional "romp" so she is not really crazy about either of us COMPLETELY losing our sexuality, at least not while we are still in our tender years at the young age of "in the 50's"

It is a thing that we all are coming upon, eventually. Libido is unusual at advanced age, but usually healthy people have some libido all of their lives unless they are eunuchs. But I understand that even Eunuchs retain some ability to function sexually, if they want to.

Still, I feel like you, the prospect of Eunuchdom is fascinating. I find that it is no big thing to most here that are indeed Eunuchs. It isn't a big fear, especially since there is life after libido is gone.

It is like a much more logical worry is that of dying. Hell, what is a little hormone deficiency compared to that?

I would like to hear from a Eunuch who is leading an active sex life, one who is getting fulfillment, not just a passive participant. Since we are not animals sex is just not a procreative act for us. That being the case, it is my opinion that sexual response can survive hormones crashing, if we are so inclined psychologically to let it.

FOR new posters...

I am happy that all of you are comfortable here. Please do not worry about redundant posts. We like to hear from EVERYONE, even if all you do is agree. It kind of keeps this place lively.

Well, I look forward to hearing from somebody regarding these issues.

A-1

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A-1 (imported) wrote: Mon Mar 04, 2002 10:25 am there is life after libido is gone.

It is like a much more logical worry is that of dying. Hell, what is a little hormone deficiency compared to that?

I like that, A-1. Yes, it helps to put things in perspective. My libido isn't gone but is much diminished and I find that it isn't the end of the world. 'Course I had a strong fantasy interest in castration long before that so I'm not a typical sample.

Mandrake, "I am not a statistical universe."

Hi again all,

Just wanted to reply real quick to A-1.

I understand a lot of what you mean about the loss of libido having the psychological aspect to it. That is something we have discussed in detail and had been a possibility we understood when we visited the endocrinologist. She was scared that the doc might not find a real problem, that she was having psychological problems with sex.

I don't know how many nights I comforted her crying as she wished she could have some interest in sex, that the drive would return. She loved sex when we would have it, the scratches down my back and the grin on her face after finishing were testimony to that. She and I are both skydivers, and she gets the same sort of enjoyment from that as she does sex. She cried many times while she tried to figure out why she didn't want sex like she wanted to go and jump.

There was a lot of relief for her with what went on after visiting the endocrinologist. She was taken off birth control for a month--after three weeks, her drive started to return. Within a week of being back on the pill, it had disappeared again. She was given an injection of testosterone by the endocrinologist to try and jump start her drive again, and she has a few more injections ahead of her. Within two nights she was dragging me into bed.

The net result--we know where the problem is. She is from a line of women who historically hit menopause early and have serious hormonal shifts. She may be starting menopause at 31. We are exploring other methods of birth control for now, she would like to be off the pill to get her hormones in the right balance naturally. She will continue with the endocrinologist, she is very happy with the results. Finally, we have a new family doctor; the idiot who told her to deal with it because she's too young to be having problems like that is not fit to treat her or our children.

We had been discussing castration before--my drive was way off from hers and she wasn't thinking it might be a problem on her end. She felt my sex drive was too much, plus I hated feeling like I was forcing her into sex. Now that idea has been put on hold, the fantasy is still brought up from time to time as a sexual turn-on in bed or joking back and forth. At least we have got this problem solved for now, it's the main strain gone from what has been a VERY happy marriage.

The details of the story are now out. I hope it helps everyone understand, and I will continue to post as I find I have something worthwhile to add to the board. A-1, thank you for your concern. It is a rare one to find such attitudes these days, especially on the net.

Rich

Rich (imported) wrote: Mon Mar 04, 2002 5:50 pm The net result--we know where the problem is. She is from a line of women who historically hit menopause early and have serious hormonal shifts. She may be starting menopause at 31. We are exploring other methods of birth control for now, she would like to be off the pill to get her hormones in the right balance naturally. She will continue with the endocrinologist, she is very happy with the results. Finally, we have a new family doctor; the idiot who told her to deal with it because she's too young to be having problems like that is not fit to treat her or our children.

Rich

I can think of two comments. First, if you have access to the Internet newsgroups, your wife might want to consider joining

alt.support.menopause

where she will find a large group of women (and two men) who can give good adviceand support. I am one of the two men, as I needed their help in dealing with hot flashes.

Second, as regards birth control, if the two oif you feel you do not want any more children, ever, then you should consider a vasectomy. I had one back in 1973, best $100 I ever spent. (I think the cost has gone up in the last 28 years, of course.)

Of course I am A-1,

We have shared this information via Privat email.

She is not only geneticaly my child.

Of course medical science is not advanced enough that I could give birth...

So put two and two together makes me her daddy...

It is non of your business A-1, but please feel free and do not hesitate if you like to ask me something.

deine antonia

I guess you could call me a "lurker" as well. I originally started out just reading the stories. I have been following the story of "Tim's Last Orgasm". Definitely NOT a short story but with a lot of depth to it. Any way, I only recently began reading the message board and find it not only interesting but very informative. I have no real desire for being a Eunuch, however, I am a Fantasy/Role Playing guy who has had several recent experiences with guys wanting a medical scene with either/both castration and penectomies. I personally have had the fantasy of a penectomy only, since I've always enjoyed the feeling of withholding orgasm for weeks at a time. Thus, my enjoyment of Charlieje's story.

To sum this post up, I have not posted for the previousely stated reasons, however, being asked to has prompted my entry. As for fear of posting, that has never entered my mind.

Well, I know there is a lot of BS out there, but, frankly, it seems a little strange to feel that I need to "prove" myself before being taken seriously. I am mostly interested in Penectomy - I've given it years of thought, weighed pros and cons, come to decisions, and have tried various ways to find the help I would need. Someone suggested this place, and again, I find I'm faced with an uphill battle.

I'm not meaning to criticise. I do understand that it's a sensitive subject, for many reasons. But it is discouraging.

Ideally, I envision a pain and domination scene - and so it seems particularly out of place to have to make such a continued effort to get there. Couple all of that with being often genuinely busy, and I just haven't posted much....

I guess if I had found this place first, it might have seemed more natural to go through all the priliminaries. As it is, I find myself sighing and saying 'oh, all this again'...

When I first realised that this was actually possible - and was terrified and fascinated at the same time - I would never have guessed, that after the decision was made, it would be so difficult to get rid of the little guy..

Dan