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i've been wearing a band during sex for the last 6 times, my boyfriend wanted me to as his last boyfriend did. The first time after 45mins. it hurt real bad and had to cut it off but by the last time i has it on for 2 hours and by balls were really cold when i cut it off. I really want to know how long you can wear a band before you have gone to long because he keeps telling me to leave it on longer and longer

It may be fun and exciting now but what your doing is very dangerous

And buy now causing permanent damage

Continuing on this path way will eventually lead to castration

And or other health problems

Banding for long periods of time and cutting off the band your releasing

Many blood clots in to your system which could loge in a lung and kill you

If you want to be castrated go to a doctor and get done safely

I'm new to play myself, but from what I've heard around the forum, 2 hours is already exceeding safety limits (by around 1 hour) and you're putting yourself in danger of blood clots, death, or at the very least irreversible damage to your manhood. Unless you're ready to experience life without a sex drive I'd suggest you throttle your banding sessions back to 45 mins at the longest. And take low dose aspirin tablets once a day to reduce the chance of developing blood clots. They make aspirin now that is meant to be taken once a day to reduce the chance of heart attacks... And I'd talk to your boyfriend about it. It sounds like he's trying to permanently neuter you by pushing you to go longer and longer. Maybe he should try having a band on for 2 hours before he makes you suffer anything worse.

I have purchased elastrator, but have never used it because it is unsafe. I get it out and play with it which gets me hard, but would never put the band on. It is more fantasy than anything.

Please play safely with this and be careful.

Yes using the bands during sex is awesome..!!!! and no you do not have to or should you leave the bands on for a long time...

I agree with Chris1115 take the aspirin, but I would also suggest you do the following.

Take a multi-vitamin- This will make your body more resistant to damage and help it heal. Also on a side note, multi- vitamins have all the vitamins you need for a day but your body cannot store some so cut it in half take one half in the morning and the other half at night.

Omega 6- Cut down your omega 6 intake, you can do this by avoiding, soy, corn oil, other warm weather vegetable oils or products made with those or grain fed animal meat. High intake of Omega 6 has been linked to inflammation and a higher chance to become dependent on anti-inflammatory medications.

Omega 3- Up your intake, you can do this by eating fish, cooking with olive oil, avocado and macadamia nut oil, or taking fish oil supplements, I suggest you do all three. Omega 3 has been linked to not only helping cholesterol and anti-inflammation properties but also having benefits for the brain and nerves system.

Take fiber pills- By supplementing the fiber your not getting in your diet, you lower you cholesterol and lower your chance of developing colon cancer. Oh if your wondering how the fiber works it binds with the bile and gets rid of it unused bile is converted to cholesterol.

Fast- Studies have shown Muslims who fast during Ramadan have higher good cholesterol and lowers inflammation of the blood vessels. Remember stay hydrated

Some of you may be thinking I have gone way off topic I have not. By doing these things cast1988 your body will become resilient to disease, your chance of developing a clot is lowered (its not gone) and your risk of dying from one goes down as well (the risk is not totally gone either).

Oh and by the way nope never had sex with an elastrator band closest I have come to it is using a large rubber band sometimes while I masturbate. I would suggest you talk with your BF about the elastrator band and see why he wants you to wear it because its very dangerous.

I have used an elastrator many, many times. Have had all of the different banding machines and devices used. The newest one out there now is the tri-bander. Does not cost much and it opens the band wider than the little green band ones. Much easier to get your balls through.

I have pushed 30 minutes to about 40 before. By then the pain it getting extreme and balls turning cold. Time to remove the thing.

One device this forum has turned me on to is the ring cutter. Nice safe way to remove most bands.

I have had sex with a band on and have masturbated also, it seems I cum much more banded and without.

cast1988 (imported) wrote: Fri Sep 05, 2008 9:55 am i've been wearing a band during sex for the last 6 times, my boyfriend wanted me to as his last boyfriend did. The first time after 45mins. it hurt real bad and had to cut it off but by the last time i has it on for 2 hours and by balls were really cold when i cut it off. I really want to know how long you can wear a band before you have gone to long because he keeps telling me to leave it on longer and longer

I think he's literally pulling his own chain. Unless he filled out his profile incorrectly, because he says he's straight in there.

Just be careful how far you go...

unless you want results like this. (http://www.charonboat.com/cgi-bin/ItemView.cgi?id=186)

Losethem (imported) wrote: Tue Sep 09, 2008 10:57 am I think he's literally pulling his own chain. Unless he filled out his profile incorrectly, because he says he's straight in there.

Good point, LT.

I am married and love to put the elastrator band on for sex. The thought of loosing my balls really makes me hard and I have the motivation to not take more than an hour because I have to cum before I can take it off.

I have had some CBT sessions with other guys. I love it when they tie me up and put the elastrator band on me. I am totally helpless and can't get the band off unless they untie me. It is really hot but risky.

Mike

Prolonged use of elastrator/elastrator banding decreases sensitivity. The more you use it the less sensitive your testicles will become. The time may vary of course, depending on the person, but eventually, you may accidentally castrate yourself without realizing it. If your sac and balls become numb, that's the real danger point, because then you won't know how much longer you can leave the band on before your testicles are dead. It also seems apparent that your boyfriend wants you castrated. Castration is not a bad thing if that's what you want, but if not, I suggest you stop playing around with it.

Please note that the elastrator is intended for use on ANIMALS aged up to 7 days old. Take the advice of the wise ones here, stick to fantasy, or go and see your physician.

Yes I do band some of my sexual friends who want it - but never leave it on longer than 30 mins. Some have amazing orgasms others have the opposite effect - so up to the individual and his reasons to being banded I suppose as to their sexual reaction to being banded.

Always play safe, and if your bf wants it on that long were damage can occur I question his 'boyfriend' status

Hi, i wear bands when masterbating or having sex, with some of my male boy friends and my wife they put the bands on for me whilst on all fours as it is exciting and easy banding in this position, but only have it on for about 30 min, far to painfull after that, and hurts like shit when they cut the band of, have to say it would be fantastic if you could be castrated safetly with a castration ring , sadly it is to dangerouse, so be careful xx

I tried banding as a way to castrate myself. After two very painful attempts, I stopped banding. Not a good method as you risk blood clots.

I have used banding I lover the feeling of my nuts going num wile just the other day I had one on then I put some Molasses on my num nuts and let one of 3 jennys they are donkeys lick it off boy did I cum real hard then I took it off then later that same day I did it again this time the jenny almost bite my right nut clean off that put me in real pain but the band was only on for about 5 mins so the next time I do it I'll put it on at the very lest a 1 hr before I let the jenny bite it off.