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Hello good people. I am an American white heterosexual male, mid-20s, 6'5" and 235 pounds, who suffers from an out of control libido. I have kind of an odd request, I would like to eliminate, or at least drastically reduce my sex drive. The catch is that I don't want to lose any sexual FUNCTION at all, just DESIRE. Also, I do not want any feminizing effects, or loss of testosterone, since i am a bodybuilder and need it for my physique. So I guess that pretty much rules out any surgical options, and probably most of the drugs I've heard of. I've thought about the possibility of some kind of post-hypnotic suggestion that would re-direct my sex drive in other directions, but don't even know if that idea's realistic or not. Do any of you know of any methods that might achieve these goals? There is all kinds of info out there about BOOSTING sexual desire, but this is the only site I ever found that talks at alll about doing away with it.

Studley (imported) wrote: Mon May 27, 2002 5:43 am Do any of you know of any methods that might achieve these goals?

Aside from surgical or chemical castration (which is, after all, what this forum is really all about), I have NO idea what could help you with your goals.

Well from what I recall "SSRI" type drugs would probably be the closest thing for accomplishing what you want. I am no expert at all on SSRI drugs.

But you can perform a Search by typing SSRI and I found 7 threads that had SSRI drugs mentioned in them. You might also want to use Google (http://www.google.com/) to search for information on SSRI drugs.

SSRI Drugs will do exactly as you need.

I am taking Celexa and it changed my life within a couple days of taking it. Sexual obsession fadess away, but there is no problem performing. I ACTUALLY PERFORM BETTER BECAUSE I CAN LAST A LOT LONGER BEFORE ORGASM.

TO GET AN SSRI, SIMPLY TELL YOUR GENERAL PRACTICIONER THAT YOU HAVE A SEXUAL OBSESSION THAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO DISCUSS WITH A PSYCHIATRIST. PSYCHIATRISTS WILL PRESCRIBE SSRIS FOR ANY PARAPHILIA INCLUDING GENERAL SEX ADDICTION.

IT TOTALLY HELPED ME. I WISH I KNEW ABOUT IT BEFORE I EXPERIMENTED WITH CASTRATION.

will provide this effect. At least that is what happened to me on Prozac. It did not interfer with with function but just about destroyed desire. Now, I am on Paxil. It doesn't effect libido but destroys or, at least, reduces function.

They do warn about sexual side effects with that group of anti-depressants. I wonder if this is experienced by everyone taking them.

Studley (imported) wrote: Mon May 27, 2002 5:43 am The catch is that I don't want to lose any sexual FUNCTION at all, just DESIRE.

I know EXACTLY what you need.

You need to find some horny wench and have her FUCK YOU SILLY! After that, you will lose ALL DESIRE for a short time.

Then, every time that you start feeling randy, have her FUCK you silly for a while.

Or, if you prefer, you can masturbate!

But if you have money to spend and you are not much of a conversationalist, then maybe you should get you a lover who will NEVER turn you down.

Get her here!

http://www.realdoll.com/intro.html

HAPPY FUCKING!!!!

A-1

You say that...

Wellbutrin (aka Zyban) is not an SSRI but can have mimicing effects. More often, it will make one very horny, without the ability to get off.

Well, it didn't do that for me!

VI thinks that Welbutrin is the neatest thing since sliced bread! I'm not a jerk or a mopey, moody, nasty grouch.

Furthermore, I can squirt through the eye of a needle at 10 paces! Whenever I feel the need! (...or rather when Vi feels the need!)

Pardner!

A-1

A-1 said

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A-1 (imported) wrote: Wed May 29, 2002 2:53 pm You need to find some horny wench and have her FUCK YOU SILLY! After that, you will lose ALL DESIRE for a short time.

Then, every time that you start feeling randy, have her FUCK you silly for a while.

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Dammit, A-1! What a great idea! Why the heck didn't I think of it?

I'm ALREADY silly, though, most of the time.







And once again I say



Also, thanks to everyone for your information. I'll look into finding a qualified psychitraist to discuss the possibilities with. Thanks again.

You guys have to develop a greater degree of controll over your urges.

That's why I went to Dr. Spector. Nowadays, to echo The Good Sister...what urges?

You say that...

Andrew (imported) wrote: Sun Jun 02, 2002 2:10 pm You guys have to develop a greater degree of controll over your urges.

I tried that once and and it got me was an enlarged bladder and constipation, not to mention all of the missed fucking.

I vowed from that point forward if my body wanted something that it was going to get it. So, when I am hungry, I eat. When I need to take a dump, I take a dump. When I need to whiz, I whiz and when I am horny, I fuck if it is available. Otherwise, I have a session with Mrs. Thumb and her four daughters.

Also, when I need to say something, I say it unless it is not worth the trouble. Now, why the hell should I need to control anything if I ain't hurting anyone?

Furthermore, the first bastard that decides to try to control any of those things that I mentioned has a hell of a fight on their hands. It is a fight that they will not win unless they want to kill me, because that is the only way that things are going to change.

What's the crime with making sexual overtures to somebody that you are attracted to? That is, unless you are absolutely positive that doing so would offend them. You need to know how to 'read' people. Hell, girl, all they can do is to say "NO". Whenever somebody hits on me (which has never been too often) I do not always say yes but I DO always consider it a compliment.

Furthermore, if someone who is an adult makes a big issue about being approached for sex or having it made known to them that they are sexually attractive then it is them who has the problem!

:withstupi

Even in this fucked-up time of "political correctness" there is an acceptable way to approach things without being obnoxious and stupid. Life is too fucking short to be miserable just because somebody wants you to be or thinks that you have to be.

A-1

A-1:

"An it harm no one, do as thou wilt."

Nice philosophy, isn't it?

A-1 (imported) wrote: Mon Jun 03, 2002 12:32 pm You say that...



I tried that once and and it got me was an enlarged bladder and constipation, not to mention all of the missed fucking.

I vowed from that point forward if my body wanted something that it was going to get it. So, when I am hungry, I eat. When I need to take a dump, I take a dump. When I need to whiz, I whiz and when I am horny, I fuck if it is available. Otherwise, I have a session with Mrs. Thumb and her four daughters.

Also, when I need to say something, I say it unless it is not worth the trouble. Now, why the hell should I need to control anything if I ain't hurting anyone?

Furthermore, the first bastard that decides to try to control any of those things that I mentioned has a hell of a fight on their hands. It is a fight that they will not win unless they want to kill me, because that is the only way that things are going to change.

What's the crime with making sexual overtures to somebody that you are attracted to? That is, unless you are absolutely positive that doing so would offend them. You need to know how to 'read' people. Hell, girl, all they can do is to say "NO". Whenever somebody hits on me (which has never been too often) I do not always say yes but I DO always consider it a compliment.

Furthermore, if someone who is an adult makes a big issue about being approached for sex or having it made known to them that they are sexually attractive then it is them who has the problem!

:withstupi

Even in this fucked-up time of "political correctness" there is an acceptable way to approach things without being obnoxious and stupid. Life is too fucking short to be miserable just because somebody wants you to be or thinks that you have to be.

A-1

Works for me!

Hasn't killed anybody yet.

After all, what is the harm in doing no harm?

After all, I am not advocating anything that messes anybody's mind up in any way. I do not propose the spread of disease or mental illness.

How about trying this? Before I can make ANYBODY HAPPY, I must first be HAPPY myself.

Do I sense a moral lecture coming? Or is my intuition playing games with me again?

If it makes you happy, then go for it! Let's hear what's on your mind.

A-1

Maybe I should have backed off and thanked you for the complement.

Anyway, THANK YOU!

Sorry If I am too quick to get my horns out.

You KNOW how it is when you are horny!





A-1

Works for me, too.

No moral lecture, I was just agreeing with you that "our urges" if they're taken care off appropriately don't do any harm to any one, and so they aren't a cause for condemnation.

For example, this whole site is dedicated to a subject that many people would probably find offensive and/or horrifying. I say, if it harms no one (at least no one who is not WILLING to be "harmed", in this case ), then where's the harm in it? I would not be interested in surgical or chemical castration for myslef, but if some other consenting adult else wants it for their self, that's fine. To each his own.

But I personally, WOULD like to "develop a greater degree of controll over my urges", for various reasons. That's why I posted the original message, hoping to solicit exactly the kind of feedback that everyone provided. I've made the choice that I'd like to develop more control, but it's because I WANT to, not because somebody EXPECTS, DEMANDS, OR INSTRUCTS that I have to. Like you, I just don't like people telling me what I SHOULD or SHOULDN'T do in this area. Just as long as it harms no one, I don't see what the problem is.

A-1 (imported) wrote: Mon Jun 03, 2002 2:05 pm Works for me!

Hasn't killed anybody yet.

After all, what is the harm in doing no harm?

After all, I am not advocating anything that messes anybody's mind up in any way. I do not propose the spread of disease or mental illness.

How about trying this? Before I can make ANYBODY HAPPY, I must first be HAPPY myself.

Do I sense a moral lecture coming? Or is my intuition playing games with me again?

If it makes you happy, then go for it! Let's hear what's on your mind.

A-1

'S Okay, my man!

you're WELCOME.

By the way, if its allright with you I'm gonna save your post, memorize it, and then recite it verbatim whenever somebody gives me one of those "moral lectures"

I've said the same thing many times, although never quite as well or as convincingly as you did.

But I do hope we're not misinterpreting Allison's intentions unfairly. It seemed like a rather judgemental thing to say, but it's hard to tell sometimes. Maybe she didn't mean it like that.

A-1 (imported) wrote: Mon Jun 03, 2002 2:25 pm Maybe I should have backed off and thanked you for the complement.

Anyway, THANK YOU!

Sorry If I am too quick to get my horns out.

You KNOW how it is when you are horny!





A-1

Right ON!

I am inclined to agree with you.

Still, I always wish that I could find a woman who was as horny as I am.

But NAAAAAH! Vi is O.K.

After 30 years we kind of read each other's minds.

Allison, just put up with it for a while and eventually it will even out. Or, if you prefer, you can take up with a rich old codger 20 years or more your senior who has a lot of money and a grateful attitude.



A-1

I feel that guys are usually over aggresive sexually and that they should be in better control of their urges.

Depo-Provera helps me control mine very well!

madscientist (imported) wrote: Thu Jun 06, 2002 4:32 am Depo-Provera helps me control mine very well!

How often do you get those Depo-Provera shots, and how much do they cost each? Just curious about the long term costs of Chemical Castration vs. Drs. Spector and Kimmel.

madscientist (imported) wrote: Thu Jun 06, 2002 4:32 am I feel that guys are usually over aggresive sexually and that they should be in better control of their urges.

I agree, my sexual urges are very frustrating as I have little relief. My wife has minimal interest in actual sex (about once in 6 - 8 weeks) and will not fondle my penis either as she does not like the gooey mess that it produces. In addition, she will not agree to castration or nullification unless I can find some way to make it medically necessary.

:realpisse :realpisse :realpisse

Love her anyway!

madscientist (imported) wrote: Thu Jun 06, 2002 4:32 am I feel that guys are usually over aggresive sexually and that they should be in better control of their urges.

not me, well not anymore, I am chemically castrated :)

Riverwind

good buddy,

I think that you and that fine lady of yours could benefit from some serious sexual counseling.

No kidding, your lady shows signs of hurting inside from what you are telling. If she will not go to counseling, go by yourself. It will help you even if she refuses help.

By the way, you are a nice looking couple.

If she does not like sex how in the hell did you get her to have her picture taken nude outside? It seems like a big contradiction to me.

Vi loves to get naked, in private, of course. We did do it in the pool in the back yard a lot, though, especially at night. When we were younger she didn't mind nude beaches where nobody knew her.

Well, I hope that I didn't offend you.

Peace!

A-1

Andrew (imported) wrote: Thu Jun 06, 2002 7:44 am How often do you get those Depo-Provera shots, and how much do they cost each? Just curious about the long term costs of Chemical Castration vs. Drs. Spector and Kimmel.

Once a month & around $27US. I take them myself.

Studley (imported) wrote: Mon May 27, 2002 5:43 am Hello good people. I am an American white heterosexual male, mid-20s, 6'5" and 235 pounds, who suffers from an out of control libido. I have kind of an odd request, I would like to eliminate, or at least drastically reduce my sex drive. The catch is that I don't want to lose any sexual FUNCTION at all, just DESIRE. Also, I do not want any feminizing effects, or loss of testosterone, since i am a bodybuilder and need it for my physique. So I guess that pretty much rules out any surgical options, and probably most of the drugs I've heard of. I've thought about the possibility of some kind of post-hypnotic suggestion that would re-direct my sex drive in other directions, but don't even know if that idea's realistic or not. Do any of you know of any methods that might achieve these goals? There is all kinds of info out there about BOOSTING sexual desire, but this is the only site I ever found that talks at alll about doing away with it.

Why try and stop it - get a girlfriend to tie your hands then strenuously mastubate you each morning - and maybe each evening as well - and I mean keeps tossing you off after you have ejaculated - it is important that she does not pause when you come and just keeps a steady fast tempo. use some lubrication and rub continuously over the glans, until the feeling is so intense that you will probably faint.

A few sessions of this will settle you down.