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Since there's a thread regarding possible health effects of withholding ejaculation, I figured we should have a poll to see what the longest each of us has gone in the last 10 years without an orgasm.

Note that I say orgasm, because some of you might find it difficult to define ejaculation, depending on your state of eunuchhood.

As far as I know, I've never had an orgasm all my life (I'm 20 years old).

before taking Androcur, I would jackoff at least once a day to orgasm. I have been taking Androcur sense last sept. sense then I have had I think 6 orgasms. 4 up to december and one in Feb one in Apr I think, none sense.

Riverwind the Happy Eunuch

SplitDik (imported) wrote: Wed Jul 10, 2002 7:56 am Since there's a thread regarding possible health effects of withholding ejaculation, I figured we should have a poll to see what the longest each of us has gone in the last 10 years without an orgasm.

Note that I say orgasm, because some of you might find it difficult to define ejaculation, depending on your state of eunuchhood.

Since my castration 14 May 2001, no orgasms.

I don't remember....

I think that my memory has been affected,

...excuse me whist I go shave my palms...

A-1

Also keep in mind that an ejaculation and an orgasm are two different things, although in many cases they do happen at the same time with men.

Just because you may shoot - or leak - whatever the case may be - doesn't mean you've had an orgasm.

I could go into greater detail, but I won't.

To quote Bette Midler, her boyfriend Ernie says, "Soph, why don't ya ever tell me when you're having an orgasm?" To which Soph replied, "Well, Ernie, YOU'RE never around!"

Before chemical castration, I had to do it at least twice a day, and could go only 2, maybe 3 days before I had to do it again. After chemical castration, I had no real desire to do it, but would do it once every 5, to 6 weeks, just to satisfy my curiosity and to see for myself the effect that it was having on me.

The longest that I went without orgasm was about three years. However, during that time I was attempting to take care of my 80 Mother who had advanced senile dementia without any help or income.

It was not until about 2 years after she had died that I finally started to regain some interest in sex. Mind you, I reckon that I was as close to a nervous breakdown that you can get without going over the edge - or maybe I did. Dunno!

LOL

colin (imported) wrote: Thu Jul 11, 2002 4:24 am The longest that I went without orgasm was about three years.

I can't imagine going that long, unless you do not have a penis.

It appears to me that most guys are over obsessed with having an orgasm. I have had guys tell me that they must have sex and orgasms daily inorder to maintain their sanity. Is that really true or is it just a plea for sex?

Allison,

I feel that it is partly true. In my case I find that getting an orgasm helps me to become rested, and get a better night sleep. When I don't have an orgasm I tend to get some very intense errections during the night which usually wakes me up. The time I had gone 22.75 days I was getting an 2-4 errections that woke me up during the night.

I'm one to equate losing sleep with losing sanity.

Well the reason I want to be castrated is that I am addicted to orgasming. For guys like me, there is indeed a very strong physical and psychological pressure to orgasm.

The only way I can explain it is imagine giving a crack addict a "magic pocket" that always contained crack in it. Well that is what having a dick is like for us sex addicts. It is a constant temptation that fills every minute with a battle for control.

For women to understand this, the only suggestion I have is imagine having your clit swell up to the size of a penis, and have it rubbing and swaying around all day. It can drive you crazy!

I also want to point out that there is a real physical pressure involved -- there is build up of semen and prostate fluids that makes a guy feel discomfortable. Also the "blue balls" phenomen is very true -- if a guy gets past a certain point of arousal his balls will seriously ache.

So I think there is truth in the fact that young, testosterone-filled guys do naturally need a frequent sexual outlet.

However, that does not mean women have to provide it.

luvpain (imported) wrote: Wed Jul 17, 2002 3:12 am It appears to me that most guys are over obsessed with having an orgasm. I have had guys tell me that they must have sex and orgasms daily inorder to maintain their sanity. Is that really true or is it just a plea for sex?

Dear Allison,

I can only speak for myself, but there are others here that may agree with me on this.

Until I started to chemicaly castrate myself, for many years I have felt a tremendous build up of sexual desires, or tension, that had to be released very often. Sometimes several times a day. Without this release, it will reach a point to where it can cause problems, restless or sleepless nights. It can also get to where thats all you can think about 24/7. I find that it takes a great amount of willpower to supress these urges, but in the end they will succeed. I guess that I am fortunate to have found help here at the EA, and a way that I can finally live with myself.

Chris

Ah, the joy of Depo-Provera!

At the M stage, as I recall, the longest I ever went w/o orgasm was about six inches.

In metric, that would have been 2.54 x 6 = 15 centimeters, or so.

Are spanners metric or English? And could one, or more, expand the spanse of orgasm(s)?

- CB

Well, I'm afraid I have to withdraw my previous response to this survey. There I stated that I had gone over a year, but now the clock has to be reset <BLUSH>

It happened during our recent vacation in Myrtle Beach, and NO, I am not going to say what happened, just that it happened. It was much less intense, but everything still works and that's ok, as long as that intense desire never comes back. :tongueout

Charlieje (imported) wrote: Sun Jul 28, 2002 11:35 pm Well, I'm afraid I have to withdraw my previous response to this survey. There I stated that I had gone over a year, but now the clock has to be reset <BLUSH>

It happened during our recent vacation in Myrtle Beach, and NO, I am not going to say what happened, just that it happened. It was much less intense, but everything still works and that's ok, as long as that intense desire never comes back. :tongueout

It just shows that eunuchs do have adrenal glands, and, over time, and with a partner who pushes the right buttons, a response can occur. It will be far less frequent then for an intact male, but that may make it a more special happening.

I have stated that I am now non-sexual. But I do keep an open mind that finding the right partner might reawaken things. Just not right now.

Not that I know of. Some men obviously have higher hormone levels than others and that probably leads to a certain increase in libido. But then, look at monks. A lot of monks do not engage in any sexual activity for years on end. Of course, some do end up making other arangements, though it must be said that there are no known current cases of monks molesting children. Most monks do not come in contact with children.

So, I guess the answer may be, some do, some don't.

...one thing is for sure. Periods of unusual stress and tension can cause the libido to shut down all together.

I am not really sure of the hormonal mechanism at work but not only is the sex drive in men eliminated in such conditions but it can also bring on amenorrhea in females. (Translation: menstrual periods stop.)

After the stress is removed from their lives the sex drives of the male and female go back to normal for them.

A-1

Just speaking for myself, I used to *need* 4 to 5 orgasms a day to feel 'normal'. (Any less, and I'd gradually start to loose my mind!)

I've been on 400mg of Androcur per day for 2 months now, and its worked wonderfully . Now I only need relief about once/twice a month. But (maybe this is my imagination!) but (on the rare occasion I *do* get fruity), my orgasms actually *feel* nicer, more satisfying . Does anyone else experience this?

thefraj (imported) wrote: Sun Aug 11, 2002 7:00 pm Just speaking for myself, I used to *need* 4 to 5 orgasms a day to feel 'normal'. (Any less, and I'd gradually start to loose my mind!) I've been on 400mg of Androcur per day for 2 months now, and its worked wonderfully . Now I only need relief about once/twice a month. But (maybe this is my imagination!) but (on the rare occasion I *do* get fruity), my orgasms actually *feel* nicer, more satisfying . Does anyone else experience this?

I've often found that consecutive orgasms are more thrilling on one day rather than waiting days/weeks for them. The longer I've waited the less thrilling it is. One might expect an explosion but I think one will have more fun being "raw" and "primed".

- Jim

Allison says...

luvpain (imported) wrote: Wed Jul 17, 2002 3:12 am It appears to me that most guys are over obsessed with having an orgasm. I have had guys tell me that they must have sex and orgasms daily inorder to maintain their sanity. Is that really true or is it just a plea for sex? :

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I vote for the plea idea. Actually, it sounds a little more like a begging line to me. Something like I might have came up with at age 14 or 15. Pretty adolescent, if you ask me.

Anyway, it could not possibly be true. If it were most of the men in the world, (including myself ), would not be crazy, would they?

If women have "hysteria" why can't men have "prosteria"

A-1

Well I've gone 3 months now without getting off again although this time it is alot easier now that I'm a eunuch and have a very low sex drive. Last time was a pain in the ass being on zoloft and having the sex drive but inability to reach an orgasm. I really don't know when I'll get off next and I really don't care now I'm just happy being in this state if my eunuch partner managed to get me off then so be it but I'm not worried. I'm enjoying life the way I am and getting modified to be what I want to be.

happousai (imported) wrote: Wed Jul 10, 2002 8:01 am As far as I know, I've never had an orgasm all my life (I'm 20 years old).

I could only wait until I was ten years old, then I couldn't wait anymore...

Bull

SplitDik (imported) wrote: Wed Jul 10, 2002 7:56 am Since there's a thread regarding possible health effects of withholding ejaculation, I figured we should have a poll to see what the longest each of us has gone in the last 10 years without an orgasm.

Note that I say orgasm, because some of you might find it difficult to define ejaculation, depending on your state of eunuchhood.

before my castration the longest periode with out orgasm was, maby 2 days and then everything had to come out. i did not mather where i was then,the office , the supermarket, the bus, it had to come out no mather what.after my castration, 9 months ago , i still can achieve orgasms but not on my own.hihihi. only my gf can,and thats exactly what i wanted. i had maybe 5-6 orgasms in 9 months now.

greetings marca

happousai (imported) wrote: Wed Jul 10, 2002 8:01 am As far as I know, I've never had an orgasm all my life (I'm 20 years old).

Happousai - you're very lucky - it just causes all sorts of trouble.