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A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2014 6:35 am
by Tilt (imported)
I don't normally post anymore but wanted people to know, Ray from Baltimore has died. I know many of you knew him, I'd met him in person and we talked frequently. He was a very good man and very much loved. If you know his husband or live in the area you might want to pay respects. I don't know details of the funeral, his husband is in shock as is understandable. Anyway, send him a prayer if so inclined I guess there isn't much more to be done. Terribly sad day, he was a good friend and always cared.

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2014 8:19 am
by JesusA
The news is that Raymar suffered a fatal heart attack today. He will be sorely missed by everyone who knew him. Ray was invariably helpful to all who sought advice. He was intelligent, kind, and compassionate. I hope that further information will be posted as it becomes available.

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2014 8:28 am
by Slammr (imported)
That is sad news: he will be missed.

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2014 9:22 am
by Uncle Flo (imported)
A loss to us all. --FLO--

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2014 10:33 am
by daifu-orchid (imported)
A good and compassionate soul, to inspire and continue to be missed.

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2014 11:11 am
by nullo2b1964 (imported)
Indeed, Ray was an intelligent, level-headed soul. He will be missed.

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2014 12:37 pm
by Dave (imported)
How awful.

Sorry to hear this.

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2014 12:54 pm
by nuts2nail (imported)
Raymar always answered questions thoughtfully and with compassion. His wisdom will be sorely missed.

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2014 12:57 pm
by Losethem (imported)
Very sad. I had recently been chatting with him in e-mails and getting to know him a bit better. :(

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2014 3:02 pm
by Riverwind (imported)
wow, what a shock, I too will miss this very intelligent man, I will miss our pvt messages, my thoughts to his family, so sad.

We are reminded how precious life is and how fragile.

River

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2014 3:11 pm
by tugon (imported)
Raymar was one of the good guys. He will be missed.

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2014 5:20 pm
by jemagirl (imported)
I am sad to hear this. He always been kind and helpful to everyone here. :(

I am also a bit worried that he is one in the same with my friend Ray on tribe. Does anyone know?

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2014 7:28 pm
by JessicaH (imported)
how sad... :-(

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2014 9:18 pm
by unencumbered (imported)
It was a shock for me to read of Ray's sudden passing. I would always see him online early every morning when i would regularly log on and yesterday i noticed that he wasn't there. He was too young to leave us.

Ray always answered and often advised me in our private correspondence about my path to becoming a eunuch and my experiences afterwards. His advice was always thoughtful and on target. I'm going to miss Ray. I was hoping to meet him someday, perhaps at a future east coast MOM. My condolences to his spouse. Ray was a great guy in my book. Thank you Ray for being a friend to me.

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2014 10:35 pm
by gandalf (imported)
This is a shock. I always looked forward to reading his insightful comments.

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2014 10:43 pm
by Wifflebender (imported)
Very sad raymar always answered when I had a question and was very nice an thoughtful. May he rest in peace

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2014 10:47 pm
by butterflyjack (imported)
Although I did not know him, his posts were always kind and helpful..I'll miss him Jackie

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2014 11:45 pm
by Arab Nights (imported)
An always helpful kind of guy. What a shock.

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Fri Sep 19, 2014 1:44 am
by YodaNell (imported)
Although I did not know Ray, my condolences to his friends and family.

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Fri Sep 19, 2014 2:12 am
by jcat (imported)
A man of great insight, understanding and concern for everyone. He will be greatly missed for his inteligent posts and thoughtful consideration.

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Fri Sep 19, 2014 5:21 am
by devi (imported)
Oh wow! This is really bad news. To me and everyone. I think we all liked him. How not so? He had a lot to say. And was very kind too. -Will miss him for sure.

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Fri Sep 19, 2014 8:53 am
by eunuchtx (imported)
I didn't know him, but I offer my condolences to his family and friends.

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Fri Sep 19, 2014 10:43 am
by kkks (imported)
I thank him for his deep knowledge and support to this community. rest in peace.

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Fri Sep 19, 2014 9:32 pm
by Peter47-NL (imported)
I didn't have contact with Raymar but I liked his comments. He was so human, indeed an understanding and amiable man.

Re: A friend to many here has passed today

Posted: Sat Sep 20, 2014 9:12 am
by Kangan2008 (imported)
Oh dear. He was one of my friends, a respected friend. This is a loss to all of us at EA.