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Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Tue Sep 10, 2002 11:15 am
by thefraj (imported)
Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Tue Sep 10, 2002 11:22 am
by thefraj (imported)
Two happy eunuchs...
:p :p :p
Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Tue Sep 10, 2002 11:25 am
by Neoscrow (imported)
It's moments like this that make you love the community here at EA.
All my blessings!
Love,
Neo
Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Tue Sep 10, 2002 11:29 am
by thefraj (imported)
Trophies on display...

Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Tue Sep 10, 2002 11:32 am
by thefraj (imported)
Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Tue Sep 10, 2002 11:36 am
by thefraj (imported)
No comment necessary...

Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Tue Sep 10, 2002 11:52 am
by Andrew (imported)
Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Tue Sep 10, 2002 3:26 pm
by Got2 (imported)
Dude!
I guess congrats are in order. Looks like you are happy and have achieved what you want.
I do have a question, if you don't mind and pardon my forwardness, why did you have it done??? You are a young guy with lots of time to live. Ever wonder if you are going to regret the decision?
I must say, those are big, brash, and beautiful ballz. Neat conversation piece to place on your table. Have a party, invite some of your friends who do not suspect, and ask them to guess what they are. Hours of laughter there.
Way to go,
Got2
(Sheesh ya get to see all kinds of things here on the jolly internet)
Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Tue Sep 10, 2002 10:03 pm
by Paolo
Thanks, guys.
I have to say, I almost fell off my chair when I saw those pics.
You look like you're having entirely too much fun there! I would make one suggestion, before you have to start watching that weight thing .... have RW make some pancakes!
:p
Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2002 3:09 am
by Riverwind (imported)
TheFraj
Just wanted to say again that this last weekend will be remembered always, we did have a good time.
Wanted to also let you and Luv know I am back home safe and sound. Tired but kind of glad to be home. The only thing that would be better is if you guys had come with me.
River
Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2002 5:06 am
by Charlieje (imported)
CONGRATULATIONS TO RIVERWIND AND THEFRAJ!
There is only one problem I've had with castration: you can only do it once.
I'm so glad it went well and you're both recovering nicely.
Best wishes for the future.

Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2002 6:44 am
by Quillman (imported)
Well done and congratulations from this side of the pond.
Quillman
Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2002 8:49 am
by Sherry (imported)
Congratulations, TheFraj,
I am happy to hear your surgery was successful, and that not only are you OK, but you are also quite happy.
Sherry Joanne Collins
Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2002 9:04 am
by Losethem (imported)
TheFraj and Riverwind:
Congratulations to you both. I hope to follow in your footsteps sometime in the next year.
I'm still a bit surprised that the doctor would castrate a 21 year old, but you obviously showed them that you were aware of your decision and they felt comfortable. Honestly, I'm a bit envious at the moment.
I wish you both well and I hope to talk to The Fraj and LP when they get back to MI.
Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2002 9:40 am
by happousai (imported)
Congratulations, the_fraj!
I would be interested in hearing how your life as a eunuch goes. You're now the only eunuch near my age (I'm 20) that I know of.
I've long desired to suppress my libido, involuntary erections, nocturnal emissions, and make it so that it doesn't hurt when I cross my legs the wrong way. I'm not sure exactly how I want to go about doing that, though.
If I may ask...
Do you have plans for a penectomy in the future?
Was Dr. Kimmel hesitant to castrate you due to your relatively young age?
Are you taking any HRT? If so, is it estrogen or testosterone?
Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2002 11:48 am
by thefraj (imported)
Dr kimmel doesn't seem too concerned with age, so long as the individual is aware of the decision and its consequences

.
Although he DID sit me down and ask exactly WHY I wanted this done. I simply used the "reduce overactive libido", and "sex drive is ruining my life" arguement.
He didn't go too deep into this discussion; and simpy gave an "Ok, fine" sort of response.
So anyone interested *really* should contact him at some point. His phone number is: "215-563-0847" OR fax him on "215-568-4881".
THIS IS QUITE IMPORTANT, because you don't have to deal with the old, senile Dr Spector.
I actually told Spector I wanted my testicles stored

, but this message was NOT passed on to Dr Kimmels' surgery

. Halfway through the procedure, I reminded Dr Kimmel about this. He said "Oh, I've already thrown one in the bin!" DOH!
And, sadly such stories of mismanagment on Spectors behalf are not unique!
But on the HRT issue; I want to avoid this if I can

, but I'm one of these people that'll probably suffer from hot flashes. If this happens, I certainly take estrogen supplements. (I would HATE to take testosterone ... after all this is my main reason for being cut)
I'm not interested in hacking off any other part of my body. But a few piercings could be cool

Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2002 12:41 pm
by JeffEunuch (imported)
I can only say congrats to you both. I do admire guys that know at such a youthful age that they want to lose their balls and won't regret it. I have one comment on Chatterje's that one can only be castrated once. True. However, I have to add that I nonetheless feel so kewl every time I think about the fact that I no longer have balls, and this is over 2 years later. One can physically have his balls harvested only once, but he gets the privelege of living with it every day.
Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2002 1:17 pm
by Andrew (imported)
thefraj (imported) wrote: Wed Sep 11, 2002 11:48 am
Dr kimmel doesn't seem too concerned with age, so long as the individual is aware of the decision and its consequences

.
And at the risk of being considered a nagging Uncle, repeating the same things over and over again, I trust you have started your calcium supplements, 1,500 MG of calcium per day for the rest of your life. Also, a daily program of bone-stressing exercises. Avoiding alcohol, caffeine, smoking, and soft drinks with phosphoric acid. That when you get home you will ask your physician for a DEXA bone density scan to set up a baseline, with scans every other year as a follow up.
One of the consequences of castration is that it does put us at an increased risk of osteoporosis. But that is only an increased risk, it is not a certainty.
And by the way, outside the EA, I am an Uncle to four nieces and one nephew.

Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2002 2:26 pm
by Got2 (imported)
Cool Fraj,
Thanks for posting and sharing with us. Glad you have at least one of your precious as a keep sake. Wow, to lose sex at such an early age. Yeah Baby. May you enjoy your new life to the fullest.
Please keep us posted on your recovery and adaptation process. Have your told your parents not to expect grandchildren from you? Now that is a burden you don't have to worry about.
Any thoughts as to how to incorporate your status into your life? Eunuchs in China and other places recieved high rank from the cutting. Lots of angles here as to how to make some cash on this. I'd say you are a good candidate for best baby sitter, no fears there. You could also rent your self out a sexless escort. No pressure at all for sex at the end of the night. Not to mentino the S/M scenes you could get yourself into. Heck, you can even write a book about your experiences. I say major best seller there.
You are a unique eunuch. Young and ball-less. Ah the life experiences you have in store. Be well and good luck on your journey!
Got2
Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2002 5:34 pm
by ringlo (imported)
Two happy eunuchs...
My congratulations and best wishes to you both.
ringlo
Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Thu Sep 12, 2002 10:47 am
by Andrew (imported)
Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Thu Sep 12, 2002 12:45 pm
by Sherry (imported)
Andrew (imported) wrote: Thu Sep 12, 2002 10:47 am
(Estrogen not only helps against hot flashes, it can help against osteoporosis, and if the dosage is low enough you don't have to worry about feminization.)
I myself am on only 1mg Estrace daily, so the dosage doesn't get any lower than that, yet I do experience some feminizing effects. Now for me that is good fortune because I am transgendered. Some of us will experience feminization on low dose estrogen, especially after castration.
Whether or not one has effects on low dose estrogen varies from person to person, but the younger a person is, the more likely they will have feminization effects, and it's also more likely that such feminization will be more profound. An older man might be able to take a low dose of estrogen without effects, but TheFraj is even younger than I am, and I would be more surprised if low dose estrogen did not have feminizing effects on his body.
The good news for non-transgendered eunuchs is that feminization is mostly reversible at first. If a eunuch starts taking any amount of estrogen and then doesn't like the feminization, the effects will wear away if he discontinues estrogen within several months. Even a person as young as TheFraj may be able to take estrogen long enough to taper off the hot flashes.
Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Thu Sep 12, 2002 8:55 pm
by Andrew (imported)
Sherry (imported) wrote: Thu Sep 12, 2002 12:45 pm
I myself am on only 1mg Estrace daily, so the dosage doesn't get any lower than that, yet I do experience some feminizing effects. Now for me that is good fortune because I am transgendered. Some of us will experience feminization on low dose estrogen, especially after castration.
Thank you for your input. The Fraj has some decisions to make, and I hope he has read your informative posting. As far as dosage goes, I do know that Premarin comes in at dosages of .625 MG and lower, and some other estrogen products also have lower dosages.
In my case, I cannot say I have had much feminization on 1.25 MG Premarin. Some tenderness in the breast area, which may or may not continue to breast growth (no big deal), but that's about it. The hot flashes have been quelled, and I will find out at my next bi-annual bones density scan next June how it is working against osteoporosis.

Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Sat Sep 14, 2002 2:18 am
by jbranny (imported)
i read da frajs story with great interest. now im only 16, but when im 18 i hope 2 beat his youngest record! im not transgendered, but i hate my balls, and even at 16 i find its runnin my life, havin 2 jerk off 2 keep my libido under control etc, and the body hair is da worst bit - i liked being smooth!! anyway, any facts dat I could learn from, and anyone i can go 2 without a shrinks permission. my partners ok wiv it, in fact he cant wait, so dats no problem!
thanx alot 4 ur info
james
Re: Fun in the sun in Philadelphia! By RW, Luv & TheFraj
Posted: Sat Sep 14, 2002 4:20 am
by Riverwind (imported)
To TheFraj,
How are you feeling, its been 5 days,
I really hope you are doing better than I am but then again I had a lot more done. I am still in lots of pain and called my doctor today to get a work release for today and all of next week. Something about walking and sitting like this that would cause way to many questions. Anyway once again sure enjoyed you and Luvpain in Philly. What a threesome we were.