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Do you think our sexual kinks are genetic and inherited from our fathers and grandfathers ?

From personal experience, I do think men in different generations who share similar genetics, are very likely to share similar sexual kinks. And not only from the obvious shared environmental causes of growing up in similar conditions and being surrounded by the same people in their lives. The age old debate of genetics vs nuturing influencing people ?

How many men on here think they have male relatives who are into the same castration ideas ?

How many men think your environment and your past upbringing is what caused your castration interests ?

How many think an experience triggered their interest in castration and not their genetics or upbringing ?

cutnbulls2ox (imported) wrote: Sun Apr 04, 2021 2:06 am Do you think our sexual kinks are genetic and inherited from our fathers and grandfathers ?

From personal experience, I do think men in different generations who share similar genetics, are very likely to share similar sexual kinks. And not only from the obvious shared environmental causes of growing up in similar conditions and being surrounded by the same people in their lives. The age old debate of genetics vs nuturing influencing people ?

How many men on here think they have male relatives who are into the same castration ideas ?

How many men think your environment and your past upbringing is what caused your castration interests ?

How many think an experience triggered their interest in castration and not their genetics or upbringing ?

I think it's environment only, experiences and upbringing being part of environment.

I'm circumsexual, my dad was too and I have serious clue my grandad was as well

My therapist, who is specializes in kink and polyamory, thinks it's totally experiential. I think we were talking about my experience of being caned on the bare bottom over the arm of a leather armchair, and being comforted after by my large bosomed house matron.

sexual kinks in my opinion are learned traits. We are after all the sum total of (all) our experiences in life.

I think if men are honest, its surprising how many dads, uncles, brothers, cousins, and other related males do share strong attractions to, and enjoyment of, the relatively rare sexual fetish of human castration.

I m sure environment is part of it. But some men from similar environments and experiences don t get the sexual thrill at all, or in much weaker degrees. It seems like once you find a man with a very strong enjoyment of human castration, his male relatives are likely to have a few very appreciative men who have a strong sexual attraction to castration. More than random chance.

CircItaly (imported) wrote: Sun Apr 04, 2021 3:41 pm I'm circumsexual, my dad was too and I have serious clue my grandad was as well

Circumcision certainly does seem to run in families. I always wonder if its the mothers or fathers or the Drs. who really decide which infants get circumcised and which get to enjoy their intact foreskins ?

I wish I could feel certain about this issue (Kinks/fetishes genetically passed on or acquired from environment and experience?) but I have observed that both genetics and experiences have influence on people.

I believe that it is "a bit of both" that give us our traits and affinities for fetishes, but if I had to come down on one side or the other I would say that experiences and the way we were brought up has a stronger influence, but that the genetic influence can be the stronger one in some individuals.

When I look at myself, so many times I have thought "I must have been secretly adopted! There is NO WAY I am at all similar to my siblings!" Seriously when people say "The fruit does not fall far from the tree" I look at myself and I know that in so many ways that is NOT the case.

So, I have to fall firmly on both sides of the argument, not completely committed to either way, hard core wishy washy and waffling on every issue! <(I should be a politician, then I could really use that ability and become a real pervert as well)

Personally I don't want to know about my parents sex lives just as I'm sure my kids don't want to know about ours. Unfortunately our kids discovered the drawer in the bedside table and know more than they ever wanted to. Don't go meddling in your parents bedroom was the lesson they learned from that.

seanthomas (imported) wrote: Mon Apr 05, 2021 7:16 am Personally I don't want to know about my parents sex lives just as I'm sure my kids don't want to know about ours. Unfortunately our kids discovered the drawer in the bedside table and know more than they ever wanted to. Don't go meddling in your parents bedroom was the lesson they learned from that.

Absolutely I share this point of view!

That is an interesting question. Has anyone ever tried to shed the light? At least I don't have any knowledge about that. There certainly is something that can not be learned. And there is something we have learned. It seems like kinks are so deeprooted, it is impossible to unlearn them. Just ingnore, or put aside. Also, at youth, you just discover some stuff in yourself, before you ever can learn anything. With puberty suddenly many kinks are switched on, out of the blue. And with castration, they are switched off. So there must be something that exist in us, before we even know. As surveys indicate, too often castration kink can often be related to growing up in farms and being exposed to castraion. But then again, some people have no knowledge about castration until it is triggered by mere knowledge, that in history some boys and men were castrated. There is no learning process, kink just kicks in.

erikboy (imported) wrote: Mon Apr 05, 2021 9:54 am That is an interesting question. Has anyone ever tried to shed the light? At least I don't have any knowledge about that. There certainly is something that can not be learned. And there is something we have learned. It seems like kinks are so deeprooted, it is impossible to unlearn them. Just ingnore, or put aside. Also, at youth, you just discover some stuff in yourself, before you ever can learn anything. With puberty suddenly many kinks are switched on, out of the blue. And with castration, they are switched off. So there must be something that exist in us, before we even know. As surveys indicate, too often castration kink can often be related to growing up in farms and being exposed to castraion. But then again, some people have no knowledge about castration until it is triggered by mere knowledge, that in history some boys and men were castrated. There is no learning process, kink just kicks in.

It is a difficult question. It, can do the scientist, the historian Jesus.

Guaranteed genetics. I plan to release an avalanche of data showing the sons of eunuchs are all eunuchs. That''s my logic and I'm sticking to it (hey, it beats a lot of the stuff put out there on social media).

Arab Nights (imported) wrote: Mon Apr 05, 2021 12:53 pm Guaranteed genetics. I plan to release an avalanche of data showing the sons of eunuchs are all eunuchs. That''s my logic and I'm sticking to it (hey, it beats a lot of the stuff put out there on social media).

The sir, you are absolutely right. I read about it here at a forum. The truth eunuchs were engaged in adoption of other people's children, and then castrated them...

seanthomas (imported) wrote: Mon Apr 05, 2021 7:16 am Personally I don't want to know about my parents sex lives just as I'm sure my kids don't want to know about ours. Unfortunately our kids discovered the drawer in the bedside table and know more than they ever wanted to. Don't go meddling in your parents bedroom was the lesson they learned from that.

I must have been a strange child. I went through everything in my parents room when they were out regularly. Probably started looking for birthday presents, but I found some very interesting things and literature. My dad was a photographer and there were plenty of photos demonstrating their use. When I had to clean out my parents house my friend helped me. There was still the large sturdy envelope with all their photos in at the back of a wardrobe. He had known my parents since we were at school together,my dad even taught him. He was very curious about me not wanting to share and it became a bit of a joke over the couple of days . Eventually as we finished and getting ready to lock up he asked if I was let him see them. I asked if he really wanted to see my parents and describe one photo. He thought I was joking, but when he realized I wasn't was rather shocked and said no, the image in his mind was bad enough. As we were all very somber at my mother's funeral, I said I had asked for her to be placed in the coffin doing the same as I had describe to him in the picture. He couldn't stop laughing so hard he was crying. People thought they were tears of sorrow and thought it very touching.

cutnbulls2ox (imported) wrote: Sun Apr 04, 2021 2:06 am Do you think our sexual kinks are genetic and inherited from our fathers and grandfathers ?

From personal experience, I do think men in different generations who share similar genetics, are very likely to share similar sexual kinks. And not only from the obvious shared environmental causes of growing up in similar conditions and being surrounded by the same people in their lives. The age old debate of genetics vs nuturing influencing people ?

How many men on here think they have male relatives who are into the same castration ideas ?

How many men think your environment and your past upbringing is what caused your castration interests ?

How many think an experience triggered their interest in castration and not their genetics or upbringing ?

I'm certain my parents do not share any of my sexual kinks. I've been shaped by my own personal experiences (and mild abuses?). I don't feel like I was ever actually victimized except to say maybe being taken advantage of by slightly older, curious relatives and others. But I also think that level of experimenting is fairly common.

I don't understand where the drive to punish and "detach" my penis comes from. The desire ebbs and flows, from barely thinking about it on days I'm not too horny to being banded, purple, and cold on the days I'm obsessed with it. Snapping pics with my phone from different angles, I imagine it's finally about to come off. But every time I stop and get my shot off I'm glad I didn't follow thru, and then I guilt myself for being such a perv. I know I've bugged the EA community from time to time with my posts when I'm really horny. So, I apologize here for that.

rogerwpbfl (imported) wrote: Mon Apr 05, 2021 11:37 pm I'm certain my parents do not share any of my sexual kinks. I've been shaped by my own personal experiences (and mild abuses?). I don't feel like I was ever actually victimized except to say maybe being taken advantage of by slightly older, curious relatives and others. But I also think that level of experimenting is fairly common.

I don't understand where the drive to punish and "detach" my penis comes from. The desire ebbs and flows, from barely thinking about it on days I'm not too horny to being banded, purple, and cold on the days I'm obsessed with it. Snapping pics with my phone from different angles, I imagine it's finally about to come off. But every time I stop and get my shot off I'm glad I didn't follow thru, and then I guilt myself for being such a perv. I know I've bugged the EA community from time to time with my posts when I'm really horny. So, I apologize here for that.

No apology necessary Roger. You use us as a safe and harmless outlet for your cravings all you want. Your photos and humor in your posts more than make up for you mistakenly thinking you take any advantage of us horny men on here. And we enjoy that tug of war in your body between your 2 heads fighting over Ranger.

I think most men with strong and unusual sexual kinks do wonder how their intense interests and turning on to those developed. I think it spans a wide range of human influences from very genetically predisposed to react to a kink, to the opposite extreme of experience and environment only in other people. With most people falling somewhere in the mixture between. Most of us are likely some varying combination that lies between purely genetic pre programming and purely outside influences and experiences.

My theory is with Ranger being so exceptional in his large size and with him ( you ) being so very publically visible in glorious detail in your speedos at every swim practice and at crowded swim meets, you got lots of different feedback from both sexes on your great penis. Not only from the males in the locker rooms and showers, but also from lots of females in the swim meet audiences. Far more public feedback on your growing boy penis and puberty growth than most males ever get. I m betting that your experiences probably did influence you a lot more than they would have for a man or boy with an average or small sized dick in the same circumstances.

Maybe if your mom had been openly praising your exceptional manhood and virility on public display to everyone at your swim meets, instead of being embarassed that her son was the only porn star caliber horse dick on the team, maybe you d feel differently ? Just a hayseed cowboy s amateur guess on that idea.

cutnbulls2ox (imported) wrote: Tue Apr 06, 2021 12:26 am No apology necessary Roger. You use us as a safe and harmless outlet for your cravings all you want. Your photos and humor in your posts more than make up for you mistakenly thinking you take any advantage of us horny men on here. And we enjoy that tug of war in your body between your 2 heads fighting over Ranger.

I think most men with strong and unusual sexual kinks do wonder how their intense interests and turning on to those developed. I think it spans a wide range of human influences from very genetically predisposed to react to a kink, to the opposite extreme of experience and environment only in other people. With most people falling somewhere in the mixture between. Most of us are likely some varying combination that lies between purely genetic pre programming and purely outside influences and experiences.

My theory is with Ranger being so exceptional in his large size and with him ( you ) being so very publically visible in glorious detail in your speedos at every swim practice and at crowded swim meets, you got lots of different feedback from both sexes on your great penis. Not only from the males in the locker rooms and showers, but also from lots of females in the swim meet audiences. Far more public feedback on your growing boy penis and puberty growth than most males ever get. I m betting that your experiences probably did influence you a lot more than they would have for a man or boy with an average or small sized dick in the same circumstances.

Maybe if your mom had been openly praising your exceptional manhood and virility on public display to everyone at your swim meets, instead of being embarassed that her son was the only porn star caliber horse dick on the team, maybe you d feel differently ? Just a hayseed cowboy s amateur guess on that idea.

My Mom always said it was vulgar for it to be so visible. I only got on the swim team with Dad's help. I wanted to play a sport but football was out of the question, and I was truly a competitive swimmer. Mom said we were trying to show off, but she gave in.

Here's a memory you may appreciate. I remember when we were clothes shopping, I remember it was for start of seventh grade. She didn't like the way the first pair of pants fit around my front. She tried only that one time to adjust it and she never tried ever again. I actually think she had to catch herself when she realized it wasn't going to budge. After that she just told me I needed to tuck myself down better. I still remember it like it just happened.

cutnbulls2ox (imported) wrote: Mon Apr 05, 2021 1:54 am Circumcision certainly does seem to run in families. I always wonder if its the mothers or fathers or the Drs. who really decide which infants get circumcised and which get to enjoy their intact foreskins ?

It's mandatory in some religions (such as Judaism and Islam) and became popular in the US at some point as doctors came to regard it as more hygienic, though it never caught on in Europe. (It was the custom in the British royal family up to Prince Charles, but Diana blocked the circumcision of Wills & Harry.) Unless a child is a ward of the state, the doctor can only advise parents on a matter like circumcision, not make the decision.

At one time, I leaned to circumcision for males mostly because I had heard it was easier to keep clean and that is might reduce the probability of a man getting some STD's, then I watched "The Red Pill" and actually saw a circumcision performed, and ever since I have said NO WAY would I ever want that to happen to any baby boy. If an adult man decides he want to be circumcised then fine, he can do to his own body what he wants, but there is NO WAY IN HELL I would ever want that done to any baby boy. As for cleanliness and STD's, we live in the 21st century and clean washing water is relatively available most places, there is no reason for anyone to inflict this on a baby boy, if you don't agree with me, please WATCH the part of "The Red Pill" and I am pretty sure that you will then agree with me.

seanthomas (imported) wrote: Mon Apr 05, 2021 7:16 am Personally I don't want to know about my parents sex lives just as I'm sure my kids don't want to know about ours. Unfortunately our kids discovered the drawer in the bedside table and know more than they ever wanted to. Don't go meddling in your parents bedroom was the lesson they learned from that.

I think it is healthy for kids to realize that sex is normal and healthy for adults and that perfectly normal people can enjoy kinks and wild sex.

erikboy (imported) wrote: Mon Apr 05, 2021 9:54 am That is an interesting question. Has anyone ever tried to shed the light? At least I don't have any knowledge about that. There certainly is something that can not be learned. And there is something we have learned. It seems like kinks are so deeprooted, it is impossible to unlearn them. Just ingnore, or put aside. Also, at youth, you just discover some stuff in yourself, before you ever can learn anything. With puberty suddenly many kinks are switched on, out of the blue. And with castration, they are switched off. So there must be something that exist in us, before we even know. As surveys indicate, too often castration kink can often be related to growing up in farms and being exposed to castraion. But then again, some people have no knowledge about castration until it is triggered by mere knowledge, that in history some boys and men were castrated. There is no learning process, kink just kicks in.

I think you bring up many very interesting points.

I think a few survey studies have been done on this website by respected researchers to find the origins of desiring castration for men. I have never answered any of those to know what was covered in those online surveys. I agree it should be studied and researched. I wonder about the origins of my own castration fetishes and why they are so strong ? I think lots of men do wonder about the cause or origins of many different fetishes. So many fetishes do seem dormant in us and ready to spring out and blossum at puberty or at our first contact with a fetish.

Farming and ranching livestock castrating certainly does increase a boy, teen, or man s likelihood of turning on to castration sexually. Get any group of livestock men together and if they are honest, castration as a sexual turn on is way more frequent among males handling livestock than in the general male population. That would be very interesting to study if men and younger males would be honest about answering. Personally growing up, as a young boy before puberty, livestock castrating was no big deal. Just selective breeding of the best males and it seemed very unfair to only sterilize the males and not the females. But of course, one male can impregnate countless females. Where females can t produce nearly as many offspring as males or any one male. So production needs far more fertile females than males. As boys, we always joked about castrating each other as a punishment or some male needing castrating for any excuse we could think of. Without really knowing all the changes and effects of castrating men or boys. Then at puberty, suddenly, castrating livestock clicked into being a huge sexual turn on. Our own balls kicking into action and changing our own bodies and minds made us intensely aware of what balls give us horny males ! Castrating livestock turned into a very sexual thing. But more in thinking of myself and other men being castrated, more than being sexually excited by animals. Imagining yourself getting castrated or other males you knew getting castrated. Either voluntarily or by force. That was the big turn on. The only real turn on in the animals was in how similar their balls are to our human balls and imagining their balls being my own or some other man s balls getting exposed and cut off. And how much each male is changed in mind and body by castrating him. That power that is so vital to sex ability and enjoyment, all contained in 2 testicles that hang so exposed and vulnerable in sports and daily life for all males.

But you are right in how many males with no past experience with any kind of castrating can be so immediately turned on sexually by it, even in just reading about history accounts of past human castrations in different cultures, or injury castrations in modern men. Many of these men experience immediate and strong sexual responses to their first encounter with human castration.

Cseriess (imported) wrote: Mon Apr 05, 2021 9:58 pm I must have been a strange child. I went through everything in my parents room when they were out regularly. Probably started looking for birthday presents, but I found some very interesting things and literature. My dad was a photographer and there were plenty of photos demonstrating their use. When I had to clean out my parents house my friend helped me. There was still the large sturdy envelope with all their photos in at the back of a wardrobe. He had known my parents since we were at school together,my dad even taught him. He was very curious about me not wanting to share and it became a bit of a joke over the couple of days . Eventually as we finished and getting ready to lock up he asked if I was let him see them. I asked if he really wanted to see my parents and describe one photo. He thought I was joking, but when he realized I wasn't was rather shocked and said no, the image in his mind was bad enough. As we were all very somber at my mother's funeral, I said I had asked for her to be placed in the coffin doing the same as I had describe to him in the picture. He couldn't stop laughing so hard he was crying. People thought they were tears of sorrow and thought it very touching.

Most of the extra horny boys I knew also invaded their parents privacy and shared what they discovered with their friends, including stealing their dad s or older brother s condoms and trying them on to see what they felt like, and if our dicks were big enough erect to keep them on, see how our dicks measured up to our dad s and older brother s dicks, or if their condoms slid off of our immature penises. Most boys were very shocked at first to learn how sexual or kinky their own parents and brothers really were. But by comparing with our friends, we quickly learned that kink was common among normal parents. And even more common and normal among our older brothers that we spied on.

I think lots of boys learn about sex and kinks and accept them as being normal and healthy by doing these invasive searches of other people s belongings. Hardly anyone will ever discuss these things with boys or teens for fear of corrupting them or being accused of illegal activity. So it forces boys to seek out knowledge in hidden ways. And to use what little sexual info or items are available to them. No one would sell us boys condoms or X rated magazines or sex videos. Now boys and teens are lucky in having condom vending machines in many men s restrooms and online porn to learn about sex without invading other people s belongings around home to learn about sex.

rogerwpbfl (imported) wrote: Tue Apr 06, 2021 1:02 am My Mom always said it was vulgar for it to be so visible. I only got on the swim team with Dad's help. I wanted to play a sport but football was out of the question, and I was truly a competitive swimmer. Mom said we were trying to show off, but she gave in.

Here's a memory you may appreciate. I remember when we were clothes shopping, I remember it was for start of seventh grade. She didn't like the way the first pair of pants fit around my front. She tried only that one time to adjust it and she never tried ever again. I actually think she had to catch herself when she realized it wasn't going to budge. After that she just told me I needed to tuck myself down better. I still remember it like it just happened.

Hahaha your mom didn t realize how big your dick had grown until that pants bulge at 7th grade outmanned her past boyfriends ! She didn t expect you to catch up to your dad as a 7th grader.

Her embarassment likely set up a big conflict in your young mind between pleasing your mom, and enjoying your own growing penis and sexuality. But your huge dick made it front and center in your mom s face any time your clothes revealed how genetically blessed you are ! She, instead of congratulating and praising your exceptional penis, reacted with embarassment and by her trying to hide your dick and telling you to hide your growing dick better, to join her in shame over your exceptional sex organ.

Lucky your dad was rightfully proud of you and backed you in joining the swim team in spite of your huge dick obviously being highlighted in speedos and knowing you could not wear any modest swim trunks in competitive swim meets without looking crazy to everyone. Football pants would have shown your champion cock off almost as much as speedos would, especially since finding any hard plastic cup protector big enough for you to fit inside would be impossible. Most average sized men can hardly fit into most protective jockstrap nut cups. There is no way yours could fit inside any nut cup that I ve ever seen. Most big hung men end up with nut cups hovering over big gaps between their legs and not protecting their balls very well at all. Your mom would have been upset any time your penis got loose in your tight football pants to show proudly.

I m guessing that conflict between pleasing your mom and pleasing yourself and the obvious envy and admiration of your teamates and girlfriends enjoying Ranger so clearly, set up a problem in your young mind. Even now, some women fear Ranger s size and refuse sex while other women can t wait to try him inside their bodies. Oral sex is a challenge for most anyone taking on Ranger lol.

HumanFly wrote: Tue Apr 06, 2021 4:16 am It's mandatory in some religions (such as Judaism and Islam) and became popular in the US at some point as doctors came to regard it as more hygienic, though it never caught on in Europe. (It was the custom in the British royal family up to Prince Charles, but Diana blocked the circumcision of Wills & Harry.) Unless a child is a ward of the state, the doctor can only advise parents on a matter like circumcision, not make the decision.

Most of those religions do describe and require circumcision as a " sacrifice " or an " offering " to cement or create a covenant or agreement with God by giving up something treasured and valuable to all males. These religions readily admit that male circumcision deprives males of a valuable item as a sacrifice or offering to their God.

I m guessing that even ancient barbarians figured out that human sacrifice and castrating every member of a religion quickly killed off that religion. So, the blood lusting religious leaders were forced to settle for circumcising every male instead. It is very curious that these same religions rarely have any female equivilant for male circumcision that is required of females to have any covenant with God ?