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I always wondered if castrated guys found men more attractive than before they have lost their balls.

If you were hetero did you turn gay without testo ?
Do you find men with big balls more sexy than women ?

I remember it was a discussion that often came back among the teenagers at school.

IIRC there has been some research that said SOME guys shifted orientation after castration. Whether that was due to the actual surgery or just allowing tendencies one already had to come out I have no idea...

I don't think that the presence or absence of T is going to change one's orientation in and of itself... Sexual interest comes from the brain, not the balls. What seems more common is a general decrease in 'interest' in things sexual regardless of the direction.

Personally I find that I tend more towards not really caring / asexual... I still appreciate a pretty woman (or a handsome guy) but don't have any desire to do sexual things, it is more the appreciation one has for any other sort of attractive view...

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My taste in partners didn't change after vulvoplsty. I still fancy anyone who has no dick (cis women, post-op trans women, nullos...) just like before surgery, which happened in February this year.

PS and my partner must not smoke.

Pussyman215 wrote: Fri May 30, 2025 10:36 am <snip>
PS and my partner must not smoke.

After all, if you smoke after sex it means you are doing it to fast.....

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WheelyFixed wrote: Fri May 30, 2025 12:56 pm After all, if you smoke after sex it means you are doing it to fast.....

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Before sex:

"Why are you putting on a respirator?" - "I hate smell of burning rubber"

"After all, if you smoke after sex it means you are doing it to fast..... "

Years ago, I asked my Partner if she smoked after sex. Her response was, "I never took time to notice"

Bibiballs wrote: Thu May 29, 2025 11:47 pm I remember it was a discussion that often came back among the teenagers at school.

Never seen any of my friends or colleagues discussing this. I like women, but I really appreciate big testicles or the lack of them, strangely. Normal sized balls are just meh. I like those two extremes. It's also amusing to imagine a big masculine ballsack being subtracted from a man's body.

I'm supposing all this has to do with some kind of nihilism and negation of life. I'm searching about this concept...

Bibiballs wrote: Thu May 29, 2025 11:47 pm I always wondered if castrated guys found men more attractive than before they have lost their balls.

If you were hetero did you turn gay without testo ?
Do you find men with big balls more sexy than women ?

I remember it was a discussion that often came back among the teenagers at school.

Well I didn’t change orientation after being castrated and I haven’t gone on any T substitution.

Well I had to have mine removed when young before I even could cum, but I would say my orientation is gay, so not sur what to make of that

I think I was heading into a gay life before I had them remove, but I was a kid, so I guess I didn't fully knew

Welcome to the forum PaulJCat...

Given that we really don't (that I know of) why some folks are gay and some aren't, it is really hard to say if castration causes a change in orientation... Seems like for every theory about what makes a person be gay you can find plenty of cases of straight guys that have met the same theory and not 'become' gay or vice versa (note I include being born gay in with becoming...)

My personal thought is that if a guy already had some sort of inclination towards being gay, but for whatever reason 'socialized' as straight because it was the 'proper guy thing' and didn't admit the gay tendency to come out. Then castration would 'free' him from the need to do the straight guy thing since he was no longer a 'real man' so he can now follow that interest that was there all along, but hidden... So it would LOOK like castration caused him to switch, but he really didn't, just became free to follow what was there all along...

However that is just as much of a theory as any others...

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PaulJCal wrote: Sat Jul 12, 2025 2:42 pm Well I had to have mine removed when young before I even could cum, but I would say my orientation is gay, so not sur what to make of that

Would you mind share what caused your pre-puberty castration?

I was hetero before and I am hetero now. It never occurred to me to switch sides.

I was chemically castrated for 6 months in depo Provera. My orientation didn't really change. I still identified as hetero, but honestly, I had no drive. So I was more asexual than anything. I will say I found a certain fascination with muscular men, but more of an admiration than an attraction.