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I really hate my boobs, I hope i was nature born a boy then be an eunuch.

i wanna lead a sexless life but i'm confusing how.....

From your very brief post, there are a number of possibilities that need to be explored before anyone here could make any valid suggestions.

I would suggest that you explore some of the boards here, as well as exploring the web site www.asexuality.org, which is mostly composed of biological women, rather than the biological males who make up most of the members here. Between the two boards, you should be able to articulate your questions in such a way that you can get some help.

Wow, thank you Jesus, I had no idea this website existed!! Sometime (when I have more time!) I will need to read over it carefully.

We are who we are and everyone feels differently; male, female, gay, straight, bi-sexual, asexual. They are all just words, not positions to aspire to. I imagine everyone has different levels of identification with whatever gender they feel they belong too (or not!).

Welcome to the boards NarcissusShed, and I hope you can find yourself!

Jesus,

Wow, indeed. What a splendid resource. Thank you!

Ted

JesusA wrote: Sun Apr 30, 2006 2:42 am From your very brief post, there are a number of possibilities that need to be explored before anyone here could make any valid suggestions.

I would suggest that you explore some of the boards here, as well as exploring the web site www.asexuality.org

(http://www.asexuality.org/)

JesusA wrote: Sun Apr 30, 2006 2:42 am , which is mostly composed of biological women, rather than the biological males who make up most of the members here. Between the two boards, you should be able to articulate your questions in such a way that you can get some help.

I wonder how hard it is to get an elective mastectomy...

happousai (imported) wrote: Sun Apr 30, 2006 10:59 am I wonder how hard it is to get an elective mastectomy...

claim a family ghistory of breast cancer and early death...but just like castration...be VERY sure before going through with it!

I'm also an asexual, and a member of AVEN (asexuality visibility and education network) We have a great forum on www.asexuality.org.

thanks your imformation, Jesus.

I wanna modify my body by surgery, making my breast like a boy.

but i am afraid i would not be accepted by my family and friends or may meet frustrations in my future career. Since i am living in a country not tolerant of this kind of things

NarcissusShed (imported) wrote: Mon May 01, 2006 2:48 am thanks your imformation, Jesus.

I wanna modify my body by surgery, making my breast like a boy.

but i am afraid i would not be accepted by my family and friends or may meet frustrations in my future career. Since i am living in a country not tolerant of this kind of things

You shouldn't be any less of a girl without breasts. Many girls have very tiny breasts. Can you tell us why you desire to be breastless? Do you desire any other changes?

Sounds like you may want to simply appear sexless. In otherwords show no outwardly defining sexual characteristics by ridding yourself of the breast. This would not necessarily make you asexual, but androgenous. An androgyne can be either asexual or sexual while appearing sexless. Anyway, best of luck achieving your goals, whatever they may be.

NarcissusShed (imported) wrote: Mon May 01, 2006 2:48 am thanks your imformation, Jesus.

I wanna modify my body by surgery, making my breast like a boy.

but i am afraid i would not be accepted by my family and friends or may meet frustrations in my future career. Since i am living in a country not tolerant of this kind of things

How tolerant of women is your country?

Are women considered as equals in your country?

I am curious...

A-1

'Her' profile says 'she' is a genetic male etc.

I know for sure what country NarcissusShed is not from, India

Several others can be added to the list but my guess would be somewhere in the middle east.

I wish you the very best and hope that between these two sites you will find the support and understanding you are looking for.

River

Narcicuss. Is there a physical condition that is the cause of all this feelings?? have you explored all avenues before arriving to the conclusion that you want to change yourself???

If you feel ok, let us know, Sometimes people go through life w /o the proper medical attention, as it happened to me, and it can be a very lonely road, to feel diffeent but to ignore a course of action.

Some grapes were meant to be eaten, some others were meant to end up as raisins. Do not choose a path w / o checking the origins and posibilities. A raisin grape makes terrible dinner fruit, and a dinner grape makes lousy raisins.

Riverwind (imported) wrote: Fri May 12, 2006 10:41 pm my guess would be somewhere in the middle east.

According to her profile (http://www.eunuch.org/vbulletin/member.php?userid=26427), China.

It also says genetic male.

Something's not adding up in my mind.

A frog is dissected. Spring comes. People marry and die. Pinkerton does not return.

Woody Allen