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For me, I was around 12 when I first saw my mother naked. However, I could not see her genitalia because her pubic hair was so dark and thick. It was not until I was around 17 that I got to see a girl close up. She was my only female cousin and she was around 10 or 11 years old. So still not much to look at that time. Later on when she had gone through puberty she let see her pussy but again with all the hair, I still could not really see her genitalia. I was almost 21 before I found a girl who let me have intercourse with her and so satisfy my curiousity.

However, I had regularly seen other boys and men naked from about age 11 since I went swimming at the YMCA and also in high school the boys all swam naked.

What about the rest of you?

First chance I got to examine a girl naked was when I was about 12 when we played "true, dare, etc" game, but I must have glimpsed my little sister naked when we all bathed together. Never seen parents naked at all.

I first saw a naked girl at a much earlier age than either of you two. I don't remember exactly when but it was either when the neighbor boy brought me to see his naked sister (willing participant) or during one of the many mutual exploration gatherings among the neighborhood kids. --FLO--

I am still avoiding that experience.

At age 6. Me & my cousin Brian had been playing around sexually for a couple years and for some reason at this girls birthday party, a classmate of his, we ended up in a closet in her mothers bedroom playing around with eachother.

Although I had probably seen baby girls naked when their diapers were changed by their mothers, the first girl past puberty I ever saw naked was my sister. I must have been eleven and she would have been ten. A cousin, a boy three years younger than I, from out of town, was spending the night. We played a little game of show me yours and I'll show you mine. In turn, we came out, wrapped only in a towel, then took off the towel. As far as I can remember, I was eighteen before I had another opportunity, when I had sex with a girl for the first time.

Except for a camp out party at a friend's house when I was eleven, where we played strip poker, I didn't have much opportunity to see another boy naked. I didn't have brothers. An overnight visitor, the boy who lived next door, and I took a bath together when we were twelve. We were both into puberty, but neither of us had any idea what it was all about. I remember his asking me before we undressed if I had hair "down there." He also asked me if my dick got hard all the time. It did, but neither of us knew why. I was in the eighth grade before I was at a school where boys showered together after P.E.

The first time I saw a girl naked was when I was 6 years old, in Kindergarten. There were a handful of us kids sitting around a table outside the classroom door, well out of view of any teachers/adults. They had left us alone and unsupervised for several minutes.

One of the girls, who tended to be somewhat bossy and usually ended up being "leader of the pack" among us, got this thing going where each kid would say "You pull your pants down" to one of the other kids, then the other kid would respond with "No you pull your pants down" to another kid, and the other kid would say "No you pull your pants down" to someone else... It kept going around and around the table like this for a couple minutes.

Then finally the same girl who started it was asked, and she responded with "OK", and stood up and quickly pulled her pants down, panties and all. She stood there, totally nude from the waste down, with her legs spread open a bit and her hips jutted out proudly, for about 5 seconds, then she pulled her pants back up and sat down.

The whole table was quiet for several seconds. For me, it was the first time I had ever seen a girl naked before (I mean EVER -- I hadn't even seen a naked female baby or toddler or picture or anything before this). I thought it was really neat!! I got a very good look at her crotch. I really LOVED the way she looked "down there" with her totally smooth skin and the little slit below it. I sort of envied the girls for what they had between their legs. I can also remember thinking how in the world a girl could pee out of a slit like that...

I tried to start the thing going again, asking another kid to pull thier pants down, but the other kid didn't respond. Shortly after this, probably within a minute or two, the teacher came back to check on us.

Good thing that it didn't happen in Louisiana... you might still be in jail or on a sexual offender's list...

Thanks for all the replies guys (er... girls... uh... nulls....). Anyone else got a story along these lines?

It was terrifying. I was just barely two years old I want to say, and in a bathtub. My biological mother was standing over me screaming and flailing for some reason or another, completely naked. I was terrified and disgusted at the same time -- the screaming and the hair.. My God the hair! That very large woman had a bush on her that King Kong could have hidden in. I shudder at the memory.

I was used to the sight of naked girls and women from the very early days. Mother always took me with her to the bathhouse until I was 7.

Daughter (imported) wrote: Tue Apr 17, 2007 3:58 pm It was terrifying. I was just barely two years old I want to say, and in a bathtub. My biological mother was standing over me screaming and flailing for some reason or another, completely naked. I was terrified and disgusted at the same time -- the screaming and the hair.. My God the hair! That very large woman had a bush on her that King Kong could have hidden in. I shudder at the memory.

That reminds me of a young friend of mine who accidentally saw his mother sleeping on her back in the nude. He was shocked at how ugly her snatch was. At least that's how he described it to me.

Kangan (imported) wrote: Wed Apr 18, 2007 12:47 am That reminds me of a young friend of mine who accidentally saw his mother sleeping on her back in the nude. He was shocked at how ugly her snatch was. At least that's how he described it to me.

Yes, on the net I wrote a few confessions of guys who told how disgusted they were when they first saw their mother naked. As for me I was walways fascinated with the thing mother had between her legs. Maybe she just shaved herself regularly.

By the way, Freud himself claimed that seeing his mother naked for the first time in his early years, once on a train trip, had had a great effect on him and his future theories.

I think I was about five. She was a neighbour, we were the same age and we moved into the area simultaneously. For three or four years we were inseperable. We were also very curious little children.

Somewere around six or so we tried to have sex. That was a very boring experience. Sex seemed utterly pointless. A little while later she came back and explained that she had found what we did wrong. Her mother was a doctor, and she had peeked in the medical books. Apparently one had to move during sex, not just lie there waiting for anything to happen by itself...

But, well, sexual intercourse never really was very fun to me any which way.

hahaha

hmmm....

i dont think i've seen a naked female...

atleast not that i can remember

i mean in person

seen plenty of guys in the buff tho....

maybe thats my problem

....that's pretty sad...but then again...i dont really care much for women

Ren-ichi (imported) wrote: Fri Apr 20, 2007 2:44 pm seen plenty of guys in the buff tho....

maybe thats my problem

I wish I had that problem.. lol...

The first time i saw a female naked was ten years ago. I was about 37 and it was at a co-ed leather play party at a convention and i was an official. My job was to make sure no one got hurt. This women with large breast was walking around topless, and it haunts me to this day. I do not know what straight guys see in those thing!

The bright spot of the night was when i got to personally supervise this god like straight hunk for the rest of the night. He was in a dangerous toy that could potentially spread the legs to far apart. I ran into him the next day in the merchant area. I told him that he had a perfect body and I enjoyed having to watch him all night! He said thanks somewhat bashfully.

I might as well put my two cents worth too. I am 75 now and my first nude female was when I was about 7 or 8 It was my cousin who was a couple of years older than me.It was kind of show and tell and I got a good look at it and it stayed with me.We lived on a farm and it happened in the hay barn,more than once.Doctors cannot tell me that boys will not stay erect for any longer time than a few minutes

augman7518 (imported) wrote: Mon Feb 09, 2009 9:23 am I might as well put my two cents worth too. .It was kind of show and tell and I got a good look at it and it stayed with me.We lived on a farm and it happened in the hay barn,more than once.Doctors cannot tell me that boys will not stay erect for any longer time than a few minutes

I was 14 when at last I got to examine close up the object of my obsession. It was on a real live girl and with her willing consent.

What astonished me was how complicated it was just inside the labia major. It didn't seem to correspond at all with the diagrams I has so avidly studied. I couldn't really make out what I was looking at. I was quite shocked at first but then I was able to settle down to serious study and identify the parts.

Presumably this would be the clitoris but it had a long tail extending up the vaginal slit that wasn't in the diagrams. And these would be the labia minor. Why do they need labia minor I wondered. And looking further in I presumed that arch bit in there would be the hymen.

I was too awe stricken to really take in the details that first time. I needed further study which alas was not forthcoming until years later with a different girl. And her vagina was different from what I remembered so I had to start all over again.

In the end I just thought the hell with it and put my prick in there. It worked.

Kortpeel

Kortpeel (imported) wrote: Tue Feb 10, 2009 6:55 pm In the end I just thought the hell with it and put my prick in there.

Science is what you can tell computers. Art is everything else. You mastered the art.

When I was 9, I saw my new born sister naked and about 10-11 my cousin and my mother.

Yoli here, never fear...unless I'm carrying shears and a ZipLoc(TM) bag.

Just as boys see other males naked in the normal course of events, girls also get a peek of other females. It's part of the growing up experience. Females often see each other nude in gym showers, locker rooms, and so on.

These things were part of my life experience as well but with no particular sexual overtones.

However, when I got to college and had my first consensual sexual adventure, which was a lesbian one, the sight of a nude female body became a different experience. Although the room was dimly lit when we undressed for my first love-making ever I saw a female body in a way not theretofore known to me.

For the time remaining, that semester and one more year, seeing her AND other girls in the same mode elicited a reaction that WAS sexually related. Also, when in a situation wherein I was exposed to the view of other females, I subtly "posed" so as to present myself in a way intended to titillate other females.

Although I never went further than sex with the one girl who'd introduced me to Sapphic pleasures it was satisfying to know that more than one other female student, and in one case a female coach, seemed "interested" in what they were seeing. In retrospect I'm mildly surprised that I didn't allow another female to seduce me...or allow myself to seduce her. I came close a couple of times, once with another girl in the University Wind Ensemble (I was Principal Clarinet) and once with a female faculty member. Somehow, I remained faithful to my "First" until we graduated.

For a couple of years, post-college, I contented myself with vibrators and my own fingers. Then I met the beauty we now call WOBG before she met BG and became the original FUBG, ultimately becoming WOBG . We fell in lust, and then Ash(leigh) appeared in my life and the three of us joined hearts and bodies.

There was NO sexual involvement with a man until FUBG/WOBG met BG and the miracle occurred...I overcame the terror engendered by that near-rape at age 13 and became an devoted lover of both her >^..^< AND his Somewhat to my amazement, despite the years that have passed, I've limited myself to BG's large and talented peepee and those attached to Barry T' Eunuch and my Asian treasure. Three peepees but only two balls.

Then there was the time when I first saw a Sybian naked! Lust at first sight...Love at first ride!

Yoli

A naughty girl who means well.

excluding female family members, (who don't count) I saw my first naked girl at 17, she was 14. What a joy that was ! lol We both did a lot of exploring, she was as facinated with my parts as I was with hers, lol

In addition to my first post I would like to add this.My second female was my sister at about 9 or10,I remember she looked like the cousin done to the fact that their clitorises protruded out of the slit.I asked my cousin at the time what and why of it and she said that her mother told her thaqt it was that way because she touched it too much.(we were catholic and that was a mortal sin)She was also told that if it got worse or bigger she would take a sissors and snip it off because it did not look nice that way.At the time I did not know whay a clitoris was of what it was for.

First time I saw a woman naked (and I assume you mean in the flesh, not pictures) was when I was 20. A female friend of many years had escalated an old flirtation into kissing, teasing my clothed groin with her bare foot, and a week of smutty phone calls. I invited her to my place after days of feverish expectation, thinking "I'm finally going to lose my virginity - no one could misread these signs." Well, it seems Woody Allen and I were the only two men who could. When she arrived, I surprised her by continuing where we'd left off, and starting to remove her clothes. After some angry grumping, she changed her mind, and we both stripped. Never having seen anything better than line drawings in medical books, I was very curious (curious more than aroused) about her genitals. I actually annoyed her by staring at them so fixedly for so long. In my naive enthusiasm, I hadn't thought to bring contraceptives, so she wouldn't allow intercourse (even though I told her I'd pull out), but she let me kiss and lick her vulva, and rub my penis on her stomach and between her thighs. Still, it ended with no orgasms for either of us. I next saw her a month later, and this time she told me with a smile that she'd brought rubbers. But I had a bad cold and begged off. So began my heterosexual life.

She was very clean and odor free (my friends had warned me otherwise); her vagina (she let me put my fingers in) felt warm and smooth and soft and good (she asked me how it felt, and was pleased with my answer); she became highly aroused when I lay my front on her back. Not a bad experience, but more clinical than erotic.