I have spoken to several people regarding this topic, and I mostly hear the same two answers, which are either to submit or give up a part of oneself to a significant other to prove commitment or ownership, or the other reason, which is simply due to an elevated sex drive or sexual desires that ...

There are many people who have had non-binary or gender-atypical surgeries that are sharing their stories now. One good resource is https://bottomsurgery.info/ , created by the nullo borgpup (pronouns: it/its). In the thorough and candid "1-Year Post-Op Nullo Q&A," borgpup describes its feelings as ...