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Well Mike is all moved in and we couldn't be happier about it! He has a ton of boxes to go through and decide what stays in the apartment and what goes into storage, but that will get taken care of in time. At last our family feels complete. We have wanted this for so long and are so happy that it ...

Well we are all moved into the new place. Just a few more boxes to unpack. Ready for Mike to move in next week.

Yet more good news--

A two bedroom apartment has become available in our complex, so we are moving at the beginning of the month. Mike will be moving from El Paso on the 13th. It's funny how everything has fallen into place to make this happen, as if it were meant to be.

More good news!

I heard from my lawyer's office today, and was told I finally have a hearing date on my disability application. The hearing is set for Sept. 6th at 1:00 pm. Alison, the lawyer assigned to my case, is supposed to call me three weeks before the hearing to go over what to expect, what ...

Wonderful news today!

Our best friend, Mike, is moving from El Paso to Austin next month and will be joining our family as a full partner. We've been talking about this for almost 2 years, but just found out today that he got a transfer with his job. We are so happy that at last our family will be ...

Today is the fifth anniversary of my castration. A good time to reflect on the last five years and the changes they have brought. Before castration I was a slave to my sex drive, always looking for the next lay, engaging in more and more high-risk behavior in my constant quest for gratification ...

Well I went to the interview but haven't heard anything back from them. I'm kind of surprised, I figured I'd be a cinch to get rehired at PetSmart since I had a good reference from my supervisors there. Maybe I said something wrong at the interview, I don't know.

Also, I heard from my SS disability ...

Well I have a job interview tomorrow. It's with PetSmart, the company I was with when I had my breakdown, just at a different location. I would be working in the PetsHotel again taking care of dogs & cats. I only applied there for the hell of it and am not 100% sure I want to go back to work there ...

I talked with Troy the other day about returning to work and he said he would support whatever I decide to do. So I'm going to start putting out some online applications today, and probably sometime next week will keep the car and do some pavement pounding. I'm going to concentrate on book stores ...

I am soooo bored! Being a house-husband isn't all it's cracked up to be. The housework takes maybe an hour a day and the rest of the day is watching tv or screwing around on the computer, trying to pass the time until Troy comes home from work. I'm thinking of trying to go back to work. I think with ...

Well we finally got the car back Tuesday after two weeks in the shop. Turns out it also needs a new high speed fan for the a/c but that's another $500 we don't have so that will have to wait. We may have to do without the a/c this summer to keep from overheating the engine. Hopefully that way we can ...

Well it turns out the timing belt broke on the car. Plus it bent some valves when it broke and those have to be repaired as well. Total cost $3200! We managed to borrow the money from Troy's parents and are going to pay them back as we can. They also discovered we need new motor mounts but that's an ...

Today Troy left for work and got to the end of our street when the car died and wouldn't start again. The engine cranks but won't turn over. A very nice man helped him push it into an adjacent parking lot so it wouldn't be sitting in the street. Then he walked home and called a wrecker to have it ...

Happy birthday Tugon! Here's to many more to come!

I recently chatted online with a gentleman who castrated himself by banding and cutting and he wound up in the ER when he went into shock. Plus he said it was the worst pain he'd ever experienced in his life. All in all he did not recommend that particular method.

The best advice I can give is what ...

My sex drive was definitely higher than average for a no-T eunuch, which is one reason the change took me by surprise. I thought it would happen gradually but it seemingly happened all at once. One week I was happy to have sex and the next it was the last thing I wanted. It was very sudden which is ...

Last night Troy and I had an honest talk about my declining interest in sex. He reassured me that he's in love with me, not my dick or ass, and that as long as he can still cuddle and hold me he can live without a sexual component to our relationship. He pointed out that our open relationship allows ...

Last night Troy went to bed about an hour and a half before me. When I joined him in bed he woke up just enough to roll over and indicate that he wanted to hold me. I lay there in his arms, relishing the intimacy and thinking how nice it was to just cuddle, with no thought or expectation of sex. It ...

Had a great visit with my cutter and his partner yesterday, followed by a great day at Six Flags today. The New Texas Giant is freakin' awesome! Going to take it easy tomorrow, have a friend over for dinner Wed., then to Fiesta Texas on Thur. What a great vacation!

Troy starts his vacation tomorrow! I get to have him with me for 9 straight days. We're going to Dallas Sunday to visit my cutter and then to Six Flags Over Texas on Monday. We may also work in a day trip to Six Flags Fiesta Texas in San Antonio. Other than that we'll just be hanging out at home and ...

Congratulations Dave! Hope your new life as a eunuch is everything you want it to be.

I've been thinking about Chris lately. Chris was a fellow student in my high school drama class back in 1984-5. We were both kind of misfits so we wound up becoming friendly with each other. He was a year younger than me. I liked him but didn't think too much about him—he was just another classmate ...

I went to pick up my meds today and found out my discount card for my Saphris is no longer valid. Without it the copay is $150 a month which I can't possibly afford. Fortunately I have a month's worth of samples that my psych gave me in January. Once that runs out I'll have to see if he can ...

I visited my dad yesterday. He was in good spirits, although he still misses my mom terribly. I sometimes get the feeling when I visit him that he's just waiting to die so he can be with her, but I didn't get that impression this time. He was talking about future visits with my out-of-state siblings ...

I've been somewhat down today. There are times when I miss working and today has been one of those times. It's funny, when I was working I would have given anything not to have to work and now that I'm not working there are times when I would give anything to be able to work again. Today I miss ...