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Like many of you I have castration fantasies. I have discussed this fantasy with other gay men and it is not universal within the gay culture. However, the common fascination in that culture with bondage, cock and ball torture, and even cock rings in sex shops suggests that there is something going ...

This response hits home for me as well. I'm not submissive exactly, but I'm not aggressive either, not sexually. I could fuck a guy (or boy if it was legal), but I'd rather be fucked by him, and my real turn on is seeing him get turned on. I also like affection and kissing and such, but my turn on ...

The 'self loathing' explanation does not explain the thousands of erotic stories on this very site for which the central theme is castration. Guys get off on the idea. That's not self loathing, that's a fetish.

If you include the bisexual count in the gay stats listed by Kristoff you have nearly equal numbers of 'gay' and 'straight' members of EA. How gay is 'gay'? How straight is 'straight'? I don't consider myself to be 'gay', but I am a 'homophile', i.e. a man who likes men. I also like women. I'm even ...

Do you think you can explain why it feels so good without them? What were you feeling before you got rid of them that was so negative? I still have mine and I am mostly not very conscious of them most of the time unless I become sexually aroused, in which case I find it pleasurable to manipulate ...