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I was NovaMike on the old forum.

Congratulations. I am about six months in as a eunuch and totally satisfied with the decision and the way it healed. I am fairly active and having to refrain from riding my bike for 5 or 6 weeks was the hardest part.

I started by finding a therapist who specialized in transgendered and non-binary patients. He had helped other patients get orchiectomies so he already knew the doctors who perform the procedure, how to work with insurance, and what steps to take. When it was time to contact the plastic surgeon who ...

I have never been interested in dating or relationships. I didn't date in high school, went to a college with two males for every female, and didn't date after college. It took me 50 years to become a eunuch and doubt I will suddenly get into a relationship.

I can't help but wonder what motivates the father to have his son live as a eunuch. I am not sure what I would know about eunuchs if I wasn't personally interested in castration.

My personal opinion is that unless the child specifically questions the need to undergo hormone, that he should be on ...

Virginia... but might be interested

Happy Anniversary. I hope the coming years are even better than the first.

I am still working my way towards castration with a possibility of nullification in the future.

I haven't been castrated, but I am hoping to go that path. I am working with a therapist.

To me, the factors are location, cost, and availability.

There are a handful of doctors who openly advertise transgender procedures on their website including orchiectomy and penectomy.

My personal ...

I consider myself to be asexual. It has never been a fantasy to be castrated by a woman.

I did a search for therapists, contacted a few, got referrals to others. Some never responded to my initial attempt to contact them, others responded that they aren't currently accepting new patients, but offered the name of a colleague I might consider. I did find someone who was accepting new ...

I had noticed it as well. I could always get to eunuch.org, but not always to the forums. Once I get in, it seems to work fine, it is just the first time navigating to the site for the day.

The truth is, I would love to be able to meet other members of the Eunuch Archive. This site has been a companion for many years and knowing that other people have felt many of the same things I am dealing with is important. Being a relatively small and somewhat misunderstood community isn't easy ...

My apologies, I'm going to rant a bit here...



What if I had suggested CLAW, I wanted to go last year and they haven't set their dates for the next, in person event. Plan whatever MoM type event you want, but I am just suggesting to plan meetups at conventions where Eunuchs may already be ...

I have never heard them called "ass gaskets"

I would be interested if it was a convenient time or place, but wouldn't travel somewhere just for a Eunuch Archive meeting. It should be held during something like the Mid-Atlantic Leather Weekend where people are already planning to attend the event.

I had my first conversation the other day. I found the therapist to be supportive and understanding. He has worked with other non-binary and Eunuch individuals in the past. He said he would support me and help connect me with doctors in the area who can perform the orchiectomy or penectomy if that ...

It has taken me a long time to move forward with anything related to becoming a Eunuch. Last year, I explored Plume but was told I don't qualify since they deal with transgender and not men seeking castration. I had searched around for licensed Psychologists and contacted a few last year. Only two ...

1. What is your castration status?

Seeking castration


2. If there was a supportive clinic where a certified urologist would provide an orchiectomy, would you be willing to participate in multiple 15-30 minute surveys before and after your surgery?



Maybe. I would want to know what is being ...

Not sure why, but when I saw the title, I thought it was a joke about daylight savings time ending this Sunday. So many people have been saying things on Facebook about wanting to set their clocks forward to 2021 when this is finally over.

I hope you had the mild version of the virus and didn't ...

1. If you have already had genital surgery, was it a castration (i.e. an orchiectomy only), a penectomy, or a nullification (i.e., both an orchiectomy and a penectomy)?

No Surgery Yet

2. What hormones or hormone blockers, if any, were you on:

a. before your surgery?

b. after your surgery?

N/A ...

I had my first (and last) virtual visit with one of their doctor's today. He said that what I am dealing with is not gender dysphoria and that they are not able to help. Maybe, I could have presented my story in a way that would work for them, but I am a male and want to continue to present myself ...

I decided to give it a try. My first meeting is scheduled for October 9th.

They have a bunch of questions for new members to answer. Honestly, I don't know if they are setup to work with Eunuchs or people who are just seeking castration. Most of the questions are related to transgender, who knows ...

How is everyone dealing with the pandemic? It has been half a year and I feel so frustrated.

I am single and live alone. That was never a problem in the past, but now it is very isolating. I am not into dating and haven't been on one in 20 years. I miss getting out of the house, seeing people, and ...

I have been reading posts on the archive for a long time. For years, I avoided creating an account because I didn't want something that connected me to my account. It was great that I could read without being a member. I just couldn't post. I avoid some Facebook groups for the same reason, I want to ...

I guess the site is too new for anyone to have experience with GetPlume. I am tempted to give it a try, but don't know if I am comfortable with a monthly membership fee.