HELP! I want no erection at all. HOW?
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bayungdan (imported)
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HELP! I want no erection at all. HOW?
Hello
I am looking for a way to get rid of my sex drive by an operation that would prevent erection. I do not want anti testosterone drug, too many side effects apparently.I just want to be free from this at 100%.No possible to be exited.What a freedom it would be for me. Apparently this is the neuro-vascular strips that control erection (http://www.e-cancer.fr/les-cancers/c...s-de-lerection)
Do you know if an operation that cut these strips is possible,or any operation that would delete the erection capability but leave my penis intact? Or if you have some experience of taking some drugs like androcur for this reason,tell me.
Many many thanks
I am looking for a way to get rid of my sex drive by an operation that would prevent erection. I do not want anti testosterone drug, too many side effects apparently.I just want to be free from this at 100%.No possible to be exited.What a freedom it would be for me. Apparently this is the neuro-vascular strips that control erection (http://www.e-cancer.fr/les-cancers/c...s-de-lerection)
Do you know if an operation that cut these strips is possible,or any operation that would delete the erection capability but leave my penis intact? Or if you have some experience of taking some drugs like androcur for this reason,tell me.
Many many thanks
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Re: HELP! I want no erection at all. HOW?
But if you had the nerves stripped, you would still have a sex drive... just no erections.... Have you considered castration?
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bayungdan (imported)
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Milkman (imported) wrote: Tue Dec 14, 2010 2:03 am But if you had the nerves stripped, you would still have a sex drive... just no erections.... Have you considered castration?
yes and it will involve frustration but how much? but with castration, no testosterone in the body, so many side effects no? i'm not sure.and i want to love a girl again,i need my love ride!, and it comes like sex drive with testosterone no? what's the better do you think?
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With castration I guess you could turn your sex life on and off.. taking T for long periods to have sex and not taking it when you want " sexual silence" But maybe you should ask the eunuchs on here if it can work like that. Given your desire to love a woman again.. permanent damge to your penis sounds like a bad idea...
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Milkman (imported) wrote: Tue Dec 14, 2010 3:11 am With castration I guess you could turn your sex life on and off.. taking T for long periods to have sex and not taking it when you want " sexual silence" But maybe you should ask the eunuchs on here if it can work like that. Given your desire to love a woman again.. permanent damge to your penis sounds like a bad idea...
so the castration you consider here is a castration of just the testicles.erection still be possible. that's not what i want. i want a total erectile disfunction, like they say in the web site link i gave on my first spot.
a bad idea to self castrate to love? i think in the opposite that it will be easier to bring pure love, sex is a very minor part in what i consider loving a girl. i'll be able to kiss her a thousand years during without any erection and all the consequences on my mind! what a freedom yes.
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Hey bay, castration will stop erections completely after a few weeks. Without testosterone your penis will stop getting erect. You will not have a sex drive, your penis will shrink. You will not think about sex or women. Trust me, I'm a eunuch, I now.
As to Milkman's suggestion, the body is a funny thing. It takes time to adjust and after it adjusts to not having testosterone, the body can reject it. So going without it for prolonged periods of time and then adding it to your system again can really "goof" things up. As a eunuch, I placed myself on a low testosterone regime. I've been on it for a long time and now if I try to add more to by body, my body turns it into estrogen. My body has adjusted to the reduced amount now and it doesn't like being given more "t." Strange, but that's me.
As to Milkman's suggestion, the body is a funny thing. It takes time to adjust and after it adjusts to not having testosterone, the body can reject it. So going without it for prolonged periods of time and then adding it to your system again can really "goof" things up. As a eunuch, I placed myself on a low testosterone regime. I've been on it for a long time and now if I try to add more to by body, my body turns it into estrogen. My body has adjusted to the reduced amount now and it doesn't like being given more "t." Strange, but that's me.
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Hash (imported) wrote: Tue Dec 14, 2010 9:00 am Hey bay, castration will stop erections completely after a few weeks. Without testosterone your penis will stop getting erect. You will not have a sex drive, your penis will shrink. You will not think about sex or women. Trust me, I'm a eunuch, I now.
As to Milkman's suggestion, the body is a funny thing. It takes time to adjust and after it adjusts to not having testosterone, the body can reject it. So going without it for prolonged periods of time and then adding it to your system again can really "goof" things up. As a eunuch, I placed myself on a low testosterone regime. I've been on it for a long time and now if I try to add more to by body, my body turns it into estrogen. My body has adjusted to the reduced amount now and it doesn't like being given more "t." Strange, but that's me.
so no love feelings at all? is it really livable to feel nothing anymore?
even if you are very concentrated on sex, you won't erect? what about the side effects, is it livable? many many thanks
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Hello
Don't do it if you still want to have sex with a woman.
As for me, I would like to have total nullification with a urethra reroute and feminization as much as possible. Total feminization has always been a desire of mine but that has never been possible for various reasons. At this point I don't have any for sex with a man so total GRS is not all that essential.
bayungdan (imported) wrote: Mon Dec 13, 2010 3:11 pm I am looking for a way to get rid of my sex drive by an operation that would prevent erection. I do not want anti testosterone drug, too many side effects apparently.I just want to be free from this at 100%.No possible to be exited.What a freedom it would be for me. Apparently this is the neuro-vascular strips that control erection (http://www.e-cancer.fr/les-cancers/c...s-de-lerection)
Do you know if an operation that cut these strips is possible,or any operation that would delete the erection capability but leave my penis intact? Or if you have some experience of taking some drugs like androcur for this reason,tell me.
Many many thanks
Don't do it if you still want to have sex with a woman.
As for me, I would like to have total nullification with a urethra reroute and feminization as much as possible. Total feminization has always been a desire of mine but that has never been possible for various reasons. At this point I don't have any for sex with a man so total GRS is not all that essential.
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Hey Bay, what's caused this sudden lack of desire to be sexual? If you start making changes to your body threw medications or surgery they may not be reversable. You say almost that you don't want to love? Well, castration is not a fool proof way of removing sex drive or love lust. I am a eunuch & I still have the desire to love & I still have a sex drive. Plus I still get erections.
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I agree with Z. I have been a no T eunuch for 13 years and I still have desires. They are not strong enough to put much effort into fulfilling those desires. I can still have erections and orgasms so the effects of castration can vary. You cannot be sure of the results of castration for you until you have been castrated unless you trial chemical castration.
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tugon (imported) wrote: Tue Dec 14, 2010 8:47 pm I agree with Z. I have been a no T eunuch for 13 years and I still have desires. They are not strong enough to put much effort into fulfilling those desires. I can still have erections and orgasms so the effects of castration can vary. You cannot be sure of the results of castration for you until you have been castrated unless you trial chemical castration.
so no way to delete erections at 100% without removing the penis (total nullification) or stripping the nerves of erection(see my first post link) or anything like that?
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bayungdan,
Maybe there's a language barrier, I'm not sure why you're not getting this.
Castration will stop you from having most erections. Some castrated men still have erections, but their sexual desire is not nearly as strong. As for me, without HRT (hormone replacement), my penis is dead, it shrinks and has shrunk even though I use a small amount of testosterone cream. Without HRT, I can't get an erection and I have no desire to orgasm. My penis becomes totally useless.
Castration is a starting place for men like you who think they need to strip the nerves, it's not necessary and you won't think about it if you're castrated. Now, saying that, castration is a huge huge step for anyone to take. It will change your life, how you act, think, and even walk. In other words, it will change you in many ways. However, you can add testosterone back into your system if you don't like the changes.
Maybe there's a language barrier, I'm not sure why you're not getting this.
Castration will stop you from having most erections. Some castrated men still have erections, but their sexual desire is not nearly as strong. As for me, without HRT (hormone replacement), my penis is dead, it shrinks and has shrunk even though I use a small amount of testosterone cream. Without HRT, I can't get an erection and I have no desire to orgasm. My penis becomes totally useless.
Castration is a starting place for men like you who think they need to strip the nerves, it's not necessary and you won't think about it if you're castrated. Now, saying that, castration is a huge huge step for anyone to take. It will change your life, how you act, think, and even walk. In other words, it will change you in many ways. However, you can add testosterone back into your system if you don't like the changes.
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Language barrier aside, it comes down to this,
Why don't you want to have any erections?
Did something happen to scar you in some way?
Keep in mind, that the best way to stop erections is castration, and chemical castration is a good way to try it out first, I used Androcur which you can get. I took it for a year and liked the effect so went for the castration, but I still get erections from time to time, mostly when that happens I go do something and they go away. Remember the biggest sex organ you have is between your ears and short of removing your brain, or removing your penis you will still get erections eunuch or not.
So I am back to the top of this post and wonder why you want this? Not that it makes a difference to me, but you need to know why.
River
Why don't you want to have any erections?
Did something happen to scar you in some way?
Keep in mind, that the best way to stop erections is castration, and chemical castration is a good way to try it out first, I used Androcur which you can get. I took it for a year and liked the effect so went for the castration, but I still get erections from time to time, mostly when that happens I go do something and they go away. Remember the biggest sex organ you have is between your ears and short of removing your brain, or removing your penis you will still get erections eunuch or not.
So I am back to the top of this post and wonder why you want this? Not that it makes a difference to me, but you need to know why.
River
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riverwind, i want to have no erections because it's destroying since i'm in age of having an erection. I'm sex obsessed and i made self abuse thousands times. i became to stop when i discovered that i was going mad. shizo or anything like that. go to herbal love website and see what they say about over masturbation. it destroys you, and i know more than them, I can say and i'm right à 200% that masturbation destroy your senses. They said it makes you become deaf. not only. all the senses are broken, be sure of that. i have feel that. sex is a drug, with all the consequences of a drug. it has effects on growth. the way i masturbated and stopped follow exactly the way i grew and stopped to grow. the way i lost a part of view,ears, taste,... and stopped follow exactly too the way i have masturbated. you want to be in good health? start to avoid sex as mush as you can. we are not made to have sex, if there is a god he made the man able to have sex during ten minutes maximum,That's a fact. He made him a fast orgasmer. we are not adapted to fornic everyday. it will destroy us. you can trust me. it's very destroying. again see what they say on herbal love website.
well even if i know that and even if i managed to have any self abuse during more than two years and three years ago,it's not the same know i have remade that, because i'm not so strong in my head, and it's a fight of everyday, and it's a fear everyday of that will happen again,i will have an erection and i won't be strong enough to calm it without having an orgasm, and so destroying me more.i don't want to be crasy anymore. i want to keep that out of my life!! i want to be free of any sex exitement. to be sure it won't happen again. i think about castration for 4 years, but i don't know what are the real effects of such a surgery like castration. so i imagine that we just couldstrip those fucking nerves, that it's possible. it's something they try to avoid at maximum when they made a surgery of prostate cancer(see the link of my first post) so i imagine that we could easily do that voluntarly
well even if i know that and even if i managed to have any self abuse during more than two years and three years ago,it's not the same know i have remade that, because i'm not so strong in my head, and it's a fight of everyday, and it's a fear everyday of that will happen again,i will have an erection and i won't be strong enough to calm it without having an orgasm, and so destroying me more.i don't want to be crasy anymore. i want to keep that out of my life!! i want to be free of any sex exitement. to be sure it won't happen again. i think about castration for 4 years, but i don't know what are the real effects of such a surgery like castration. so i imagine that we just couldstrip those fucking nerves, that it's possible. it's something they try to avoid at maximum when they made a surgery of prostate cancer(see the link of my first post) so i imagine that we could easily do that voluntarly
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The question you are asking is this:
Is there a way to lessen the sex drive?
The answer is yes, there are methods that use drugs and methods that physically alter the human body.
What we suggest is that you do non-permanent drugs for a time (months, maybe years) to understand what that lack of sex drive means to you. These will lessen your sex drive to manageable levels.
What we advise against is physically changes that are irreversible. If tomorrow, you could make your testicles disappear (think magic) would you want to live that way for the next 50 plus years? It does not completely remove sexuality because sexuality is in your mind.
I have no experience with the drugs, others do. Ask them and listen to what they say are the advantages and disadvantage about the drugs. Don't let the excitement about finding a solution rush you into doing something drastic.
Is there a way to lessen the sex drive?
The answer is yes, there are methods that use drugs and methods that physically alter the human body.
What we suggest is that you do non-permanent drugs for a time (months, maybe years) to understand what that lack of sex drive means to you. These will lessen your sex drive to manageable levels.
What we advise against is physically changes that are irreversible. If tomorrow, you could make your testicles disappear (think magic) would you want to live that way for the next 50 plus years? It does not completely remove sexuality because sexuality is in your mind.
I have no experience with the drugs, others do. Ask them and listen to what they say are the advantages and disadvantage about the drugs. Don't let the excitement about finding a solution rush you into doing something drastic.
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The herbal love websites (there is more than one) are not to be trusted. They only exist to convince you that they have all the answers to your life, then they can get you to do what pleases them not what is good for you. There is always a program or products for you to buy that are associated with these sites. --FLO--
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hmmm...masturbation will cause one to become deaf, crazy, etc. because it says that on a herbal love site and he's 200% sure that it's true.
I think there's more than a language barrier in effect here. Me thinks he's already masturbated himself over the edge of the cliff separating the sane from the deluded and we delude ourselves, if we think we can any longer communicate with him.
I think there's more than a language barrier in effect here. Me thinks he's already masturbated himself over the edge of the cliff separating the sane from the deluded and we delude ourselves, if we think we can any longer communicate with him.
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Hello
A few cyclists end up having the ED problem form the hammering the area behind the balls get. It is the nerve damage from the hammering which causes the ED. Also if you get an erection which doesn't go away more than 48 hours, you may have permanent ED, and it's one of the warnings on the blue pills.
You can always have piercings for self Infibulation or wear a chastity device.
bayungdan (imported) wrote: Mon Dec 13, 2010 3:11 pm I am looking for a way to get rid of my sex drive by an operation that would prevent erection. I do not want anti testosterone drug, too many side effects apparently.I just want to be free from this at 100%.No possible to be exited.What a freedom it would be for me. Apparently this is the neuro-vascular strips that control erection (http://www.e-cancer.fr/les-cancers/c...s-de-lerection)
Do you know if an operation that cut these strips is possible,or any operation that would delete the erection capability but leave my penis intact? Or if you have some experience of taking some drugs like androcur for this reason,tell me.
Many many thanks
A few cyclists end up having the ED problem form the hammering the area behind the balls get. It is the nerve damage from the hammering which causes the ED. Also if you get an erection which doesn't go away more than 48 hours, you may have permanent ED, and it's one of the warnings on the blue pills.
You can always have piercings for self Infibulation or wear a chastity device.
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First, Riverwind, that is excellent advice. And BTW, has Rupert EVER missed dinner? Maybe you should switch him to lo-cal mice.
As for castration and erections, I have been a eunuch for 42 months, and even without HRT, I get the occasional erection. As others have said, the results vary from one individual to another. That said, I think castration (after a course of reversible chemical castration to see how you like it) will give you what you are hoping for. I was castrated primarily because my live was completely controlled by obsessive sexual drive. Since becoming a eunuch, I finally feel human.
As for castration and erections, I have been a eunuch for 42 months, and even without HRT, I get the occasional erection. As others have said, the results vary from one individual to another. That said, I think castration (after a course of reversible chemical castration to see how you like it) will give you what you are hoping for. I was castrated primarily because my live was completely controlled by obsessive sexual drive. Since becoming a eunuch, I finally feel human.
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Slammr (imported) wrote: Wed Dec 15, 2010 4:03 am hmmm...masturbation will cause one to become deaf, crazy, etc. because it says that on a herbal love site and he's 200% sure that it's true.
I think there's more than a language barrier in effect here. Me thinks he's already masturbated himself over the edge of the cliff separating the sane from the deluded and we delude ourselves, if we think we can any longer communicate with him.
i don't think so because i discovered that website, i discovered it many years before by feeling it everytime i masturbate:ears nose mouth eyes hurting. not everyone will feel it, you have to have masturbate years and years before, or maybe if you masturbate ten times one after one you'll feel your eyes hurting, because the eyes are the first to be destroyed. trust me or not, i don't care about it, i'm right to say that and you won't find anything to make me think the contrary:sex isn't a good thing for health.
but that's not the subject.
i'm here to discover some people who knows a surgery that delete erections, and maybe something more difficult to do than castration, that's why i made the link on my first spot who talks about men who can't have any erections after a surgery of cancer around the testicles which could not have been done without stripping the nerves, so i imagined that if we tried to avoid that, that's that we can do it voluntarily. so anyone?
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To masturbate or not to masturbate, that is the question?
First and foremost masturbating will not cause you to go blind or go deaf, it does not work that way, ask a qualified Doctor not somebody trying to sell you some snake oil.
Second masturbating is not harmful to you except over use may leave you raw around your dick.
Again, if you doubt my word on this see your DOCTOR, that's a qualified medical doctor that practices medicine, not somebody that puts the work Doctor in front of there name like Dr. Pepper.
You have bought into a lot of bull shit and you believe it, time to get to the truth before you do something that will ruin your life. Castration is serious business and should not be done on a whim or because you think your going blind because of whacking off.
Go whack off, have a good time doing it, clean up and go see your medical doctor and ask him for some advice. You might be surprised at what he tells you.
River
First and foremost masturbating will not cause you to go blind or go deaf, it does not work that way, ask a qualified Doctor not somebody trying to sell you some snake oil.
Second masturbating is not harmful to you except over use may leave you raw around your dick.
Again, if you doubt my word on this see your DOCTOR, that's a qualified medical doctor that practices medicine, not somebody that puts the work Doctor in front of there name like Dr. Pepper.
You have bought into a lot of bull shit and you believe it, time to get to the truth before you do something that will ruin your life. Castration is serious business and should not be done on a whim or because you think your going blind because of whacking off.
Go whack off, have a good time doing it, clean up and go see your medical doctor and ask him for some advice. You might be surprised at what he tells you.
River
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bayungdan (imported) wrote: Thu Dec 16, 2010 2:05 am i don't think so because i discovered that website, i discovered it many years before by feeling it everytime i masturbate:ears nose mouth eyes hurting. not everyone will feel it, you have to have masturbate years and years before, or maybe if you masturbate ten times one after one you'll feel your eyes hurting, because the eyes are the first to be destroyed. trust me or not, i don't care about it, i'm right to say that and you won't find anything to make me think the contrary:sex isn't a good thing for health.
Well, I have to agree that if you masturbate long enough it might have some effect on your health. For instance, I've been masturbating for about 57 years, and I have started wearing glasses for the last year or so, and I wear hearing aids.
Damn! I was blaming it on old age and the loud noises to which my ears had been subjected not to masturbation. How wrong I was. My uncle, who is 97, is hard of hearing. I didn't realize until now that he was a masturbator. I'd better warn him. If he keeps it up, he may die.
Seriously, you need more help than we can offer. You need a good psychiatrist.
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again i have to say to those who say that i'm wrong:
gimme the proof the big health problems i have don't comes of that, and also masturbate 5 times by day during more than ten years and see what you got.
but again i'm not here to proof anything to anybody, i don't have some time to waste to do so.
i'm here to solve my problem and ask questions to those who want the same, so i want to talk to falcon. tell me what told you the men who helped you to be castrated(in france it' forbidden), what was the options you had, did they talk to you about a way of making the erections impossible without stripping the testicles bu stripping the nerves or anything else that command the erections, because you say you can still have erections, how concentrated have you to be on sex to get an erections, is it easier than easy to control it? and taking some drugs? are they as effective as being castrated?
gimme the proof the big health problems i have don't comes of that, and also masturbate 5 times by day during more than ten years and see what you got.
but again i'm not here to proof anything to anybody, i don't have some time to waste to do so.
i'm here to solve my problem and ask questions to those who want the same, so i want to talk to falcon. tell me what told you the men who helped you to be castrated(in france it' forbidden), what was the options you had, did they talk to you about a way of making the erections impossible without stripping the testicles bu stripping the nerves or anything else that command the erections, because you say you can still have erections, how concentrated have you to be on sex to get an erections, is it easier than easy to control it? and taking some drugs? are they as effective as being castrated?
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As I said, you need the kind of help we can't provide. I would suggest you seek help from professionals. Given your state of mind, I think it would be unethical for us to make any suggestions. This thread is closed.