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;) I finally did it!!!! :dong:

I got orchiectomy yesterday. After some negotiating with the doctor according to my request for combined orchiectomy and penectomy, he advised me to take it step by step, so yesterday morning I finally got rid of my balls( I GOT ONLY ORCHIECTOMY). I feel generally OK, except the little pain that I feel in my scrotum. Yesterday in the evening the pain was bit stronger, but still stand-able. The doctor used general anesthesia, hence I don't remember any details from the operation, itself. Once I woke up after the surgery, I stayed like 2 more hours in the hospital before I left for my hotel.The total stay in the hospital was less than 3 hours!!! I have some bandages and stuff, and I will need to remove it and finally take a shower in Friday (26th), and afterwards to go to the hospital, so the doctor can check me. I take pain-killers and antibiotics, that the doctor prescribed to me.

But, I still have some big question, why I don't feel any change in my sex drive?! I masturbated today, and I did cum, but, the sperm was more liquid and clear than before the surgery, but the pleasure was the same. And, I still think abut girls and sex the whole day :D

So, when I should expect changes in my sex drive, and how fast the process of shrinking of sex drive will develop?

Hot Greetings from Thailand,

Maestro
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Well done on achieving one of your goals.

But a reality check... chances are your feelings won't change much at all. At least that's how things are turning out for me.
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If you're going to have any decline in sex drive, it may take a while. Just because you no longer have testicles doesn't mean you're going to have a "light switch" reaction to this. It will take a while for the testosterone that was present in your system to work itself out of your body. When I was castrated I found that I still got hard, had orgasms, etc. If you're like me this will go on for a while then one day (about 3-weeks from now) you're going to have a realization that you've not masturbated for a while. When that happened to me the thought of orgasm and the pleasure that went along with it sort of seemed like a nice memory, but didn't feel compelled to jack off when I had this thought come through my head. It was kind of like, "Hey, I've not jerked off for a while, and I remember that felt pretty darn good, but you know, this TV show I'm watching is so much more interesting and I don't feel like jerking off right now..."

It gets to a point that masturbation or sex seem like an interesting thought, but you don't feel like you have to do anything about it. Kind of a strange feeling after a lifetime of feeling like I had to stick my dick in anything that would stand still for more than 2 seconds.

--LT
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Scheduled for castration by an MD in the middle of next Month. I am not sure about Hrt. What r the pros and cons? How long does it take for testerone to "drain" from the system?
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Congratulations.

I think LT summed it up pretty well for you.
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Paolo wrote: Thu Aug 25, 2011 8:06 am Congratulations.

I think LT summed it up pretty well for you.

I would add that it gets to a point that you cannot even think about masturbation or sex anymore, even if you try to. The desire to act becomes a distant memory that doesn't need to be repeated anymore.
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maestro123 (imported) wrote: Thu Aug 25, 2011 3:12 am ;) I finally did it!!!! :dong:

I got orchiectomy yesterday. After some negotiating with the doctor according to my request for combined orchiectomy and penectomy, he advised me to take it step by step, so yesterday morning I finally got rid of my balls( I GOT ONLY ORCHIECTOMY). ....................
Hot Greetings from Thailand,

Maestro

Congratulations on that first step. However, I don't understand why the doctor let you down if he originally agreed to a complete castration and penectomy.
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unencumbered (imported) wrote: Thu Aug 25, 2011 8:22 am I would add that it gets to a point that you cannot even think about masturbation or sex anymore, even if you try to. The desire to act becomes a distant memory that doesn't need to be repeated anymore.

13 years a no T eunuch and my dog and I were out for a walk. We were startled by this gorgeous shirtless young man standing outside his building smoking. Oh I am thinking about sex and may have to masturbate later. This was the second time I have seen him and I regret that I am rusty with the come on lines.
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Maybe the dog can do the come-on for you?
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Paolo wrote: Thu Aug 25, 2011 1:19 pm Maybe the dog can do the come-on for you?

The young man did ask if he could pet my dog. I just failed to ask if I could pet him.
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Congratulations Maestro! Now just be patient and in a few weeks your sex drive will be just a memory. I quit Testosterone (again) in April this year and my sex drive has faded gently away. Until I read this thread I'd forgotton I hadn't masturbated lately, and I really don't miss it at all. I've only had two hot flashes, which didn't last too long, and I'm taking a calcium supplement to hopefully ward off osteoporosis. This time I want to stay off T for good. I quit T twice before and both times tiredness and lack of energy scared me back on to T; this time I'm pacing myself better, taking more exercise and going to bed earlier. So far I feel good and I'm not gaining any weight. I still like to look at good-looking guys but I have no desire for sex any more.

It would be interesting to have a progress report from you in a few weeks.

All good wishes.
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Thank you guys, for your fast replies! I really appreciate your support! Your answers mean a lot for me! Of course, I will keep you updated with my progress, and I will try to be as objective as possible.

I just came back in the hotel after a local tour, and finally after the surgery I will shower now, and will try to remove the surgical dressing. I peep a bit below the dressing and I saw that I have one sewed hole, from the right side of my testicles (Obviously he removed both testicles from the same hole). I almost have no pain, but I take a lot of pain-killers.

I don't want to take any testosterone as a supplement, but of course I will take calcium to prevent osteoporosis and I will go to the gym more often to prevent gaining extra fat.

Regards from the exotic Thailand!

always yours- Maestro
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Well, of course I didn't say the real reason for my castration to the doctor. I was afraid that he will not take me seriously, and since transgender-operations are acceptable here, I told him that I want to become a transsexual. Than he asked my why I don't get a full transgendered surgery, and I replied that I wanted to take it step by step. ( I don't want to have a pussy :D). But, the main reason is total shrink of sex drive, and becoming kind of a neutral gender. He(the doctor) told me that after I recover from this surgery I might think about penectomy. So, he didn't really let me down. If I was more pushy, maybe I could have had both penectomy and orchiectomy at the same time.
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Yes, he did! Thank you both, guys! :)
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Mac (imported) wrote: Thu Aug 25, 2011 11:09 am Congratulations on that first step. However, I don't understand why the doctor let you down if he originally agreed to a complete cas
maestro123 (imported) wrote: Fri Aug 26, 2011 12:55 am tration and penectomy.
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Well, of course I didn't say the real reason for my castration to the doctor. I was afraid that he will not take me seriously, and since transgender-operations are acceptable here, I told him that I want to become a transsexual. Than he asked my why I don't get a full transgendered surgery, and I replied that I wanted to take it step by step. ( I don't want to have a pussy ). But, the main reason is total shrink of sex drive, and becoming kind of a neutral gender. He(the doctor) told me that after I recover from this surgery I might think about penectomy. So, he didn't really let me down. If I was more pushy, maybe I could have h
ad both penectomy and orchiectomy at the same time.
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Paolo wrote: Thu Aug 25, 2011 8:06 am Congratulations.

I think LT sum
maestro123 (imported) wrote: Fri Aug 26, 2011 12:58 am med it up pretty well for you.
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Yes, he did! Thank you both, guys!
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thraddash (imported) wrote: Thu Aug 25, 2011 3:59 am Well done on achieving one of your goals.

But a reality check... chances are your feelings won't change much at all. At least that's how things are turning out for me.
Really?!!!! When did you have your castration?
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unencumbered (imported) wrote: Thu Aug 25, 2011 8:22 am I would add that it gets to a point that you cannot even think about masturbation or sex anymore, even if you try to. The desire to act becomes a distant memory that doesn't need to be repeated anymore.
Hope so! And thanks for the support!!!! :)
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Losethem (imported) wrote: Thu Aug 25, 2011 6:15 am If you're going to have any decline in sex drive, it may take a while. Just because you no longer have testicles doesn't mean you're going to have a "light switch" reaction to this. It will take a while for the testosterone that was present in your system to work itself out of your body. When I was castrated I found that I still got hard, had orgasms, etc. If you're like me this will go on for a while then one day (about 3-weeks from now) you're going to have a realization that you've not masturbated for a while. When that happened to me the thought of orgasm and the pleasure that went along with it sort of seemed like a nice memory, but didn't feel compelled to jack off when I had this thought come through my head. It was kind of like, "Hey, I've not jerked off for a while, and I remember that felt pretty darn good, but you know, this TV show I'm watching is so much more interesting and I don't feel like jerking off right now..."

It gets to a point that masturbation or sex seem like an interesting thought, but you don't feel like you have to do anything about it. Kind of a strange feeling after a lifetime of feeling like I had to stick my dick in anything that would stand still for more than 2 seconds.

--LT
Thank you sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo muchhhhhhhhh for your detailed answer! I am looking forward for that moment, when as you said, I will prefer to watch a TV show, than to jerk off. I have made some quick research about this, and yes, I think I should feel some real results in 3 weeks. Looking forward to it! :D
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eunuch2001 (imported) wrote: Thu Aug 25, 2011 10:47 pm Congratulations Maestro! Now just be patient and in a few weeks your sex drive will be just a memory. I quit Testosterone (again) in April this year and my sex drive has faded gently away. Until I read this thread I'd forgotton I hadn't masturbated lately, and I really don't miss it at all. I've only had two hot flashes, which didn't last too long, and I'm taking a calcium supplement to hopefully ward off osteoporosis. This time I want to stay off T for good. I quit T twice before and both times tiredness and lack of energy scared me back on to T; this time I'm pacing myself better, taking more exercise and going to bed earlier. So far I feel good and I'm not gaining any weight. I still like to look at good-looking guys but I have no desire for sex any more.

It would be interesting to have a progress report from you in a few weeks.

All good wishes.
Thanks mate for the support! I will need to reply the same as to "Losethem". I am really looking forward to see my crazy sex drive shrunk.

Take care! :)
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Well, it took me about 2 months to go from 3x a day to once a day and another 2 months to go to once every 2-3 days. Much of it will be in your head, and much of it will depend on the response of your adrenals. For me it was never about losing my sex drive; it was simply a remodeling job. Since I'm a bit low on testosterone, my sex drive has remained on the low side, but it's fun to get horny once in a while. Adds some spice to life.
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Congratulations Maestro123. I'm glad your operation was a success, and best of luck for Step 2!

May I inquire, who was your surgeon, and in which hospital does he work?
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Congratulations, Maestro!! Here's hoping you heal well and quickly, and your swelling is minimal. I'm certain you will be much happier in the near future.
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Will you write up a more detailed description of your experience? WHat your thoughts were before and after the surgery etc?
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Not to be intrusive for details, but...

A review of your experience with the facility would be very useful to the rest of us.

I recall back in the day several folks posting that Dr. Spector's office and staff scared the hell out of them in a few ways.

Thank you.
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