Is it possible to remove all attraction towards girls

[Paolo]

Eliminate all desire for women? Date River's x-wife...

[~Tiamat~ (imported)]

Oh, and even Shrek found a girlfriend...

I knew some guys like that in high school and they were without exception all married by their late twenties. The guys who still aren't didn't want to be for var

ious reasons (and even some of them ended up married.)

I have recently star

ted a life style change. Weight lifting and Running.

That might get you a bit more sex but not anything more. Women don't think like that, even the shallow ones.

At a risk of sounding bold you are basically thinking of women as aliens with nothing in common with you besides sex. There are women who share you interests even if all you like is ganj and Xbox.

[Gerslave (imported)]

I can understand the bitterness and disappointments of shadow.

That's the special cruel nature of females, you can even see this phenomena in the animal world. the main aim is to get pregnant and only a wealthy, social settled, good looking man, perhaps with good genes, can give enough ressources for a good life, maintenance and further wellness of females. Nothing at all of understanding, feelings, care, love and joint hobbies.

I have had also these dreams of love, sharing interests etc., but now in my 70s I see these are and will be only illusions. I needed about 20 years to understand and accept these facts. That's nature .... It is better to reduce your sexual activities on masturbations, gay sex or on nonsexual behaviour. And when you decide for the third way then is castration indeed an option. Then you can concentrate on your own personality, your life, your own interests ... and without thinking always of getting dates, sexual desires.

So I plead for opportunities for all men to get castrated in a safe way and avoid these "natural" difficulties.

[Jorge2008 (imported)]

You are right. What is certain is that for women a man's talent, personality and hobbies are of completely no concern. It may be the same for most men - I'm not succesful in attracting men either - but what I can also tell is that for me a girl's looks are not absolutely crucial, I'd like her to be intelligent and have an interesting mind. No girl is attracted to men for simply such qualities.

I can understand the bitterness and disappointments of shadow.

That's the special cruel nature of females, you can even see this phenomena in the animal world. the main aim is to get pregnant and only a wealthy, social settled, good looking man, perhaps with good genes, can give enough ressources for a good life, maintenance and further wellness of females. Nothing at all of understanding, feelings, care, love and joint hobbies.

I have had also these dreams of love, sharing interests etc., but now in my 70s I see these are and will be only illusions. I needed about 20 years to understand and accept these facts. That's nature .... It is better to reduce your sexual activities on masturbations, gay sex or on nonsexual behaviour. And when you decide for the third way then is castration indeed an option. Then you can concentrate on your own personality, your life, your own interests ... and without thinking always of getting dates, sexual desires.

So I plead for opportunities for all men to get castrated in a safe way and avoid these "natural" difficulties.

[shadow1ninja (imported)]

At this stage. my medications such as Cyprotrone and Dutasteride have lowered my sex drive by around 90%. no porn, no masturbation and its great relief not having any urges, life is better.. However its just the mental side of being attracted to girls, being aware etc. Over time yes I can accept, embrace and live single without no problems because this is how it is. Females want men that are truly great in all aspects of life, excellent/good career, own house, holiday experiences, car, appearance, being popular, personality, confidence, social skills, fashion, the list can go on etc. it is fact. any girl can choose and be picky about there choices in men. it is the cruel nature of girls for sure. funny how i once believed in nonsense myths 'in life everyone is married one day', 'when it happens it happens # relationships' 'just keep trying there is a girl out there for everyone' ? 'improve yourself read books, do sports, join clubs, etc and girls like you', 'in dating girls and men both have equal chances', 'all men find a girl and fall in love one day', and yes these myths go on.

[Jorge2008 (imported)]

AFAIK excellent career or being a typical 'bread-winner' is no longer that important for girls. It is simply important to have good looks and be a tough guy (https://encyclopediadramatica.es/File:Coolpasta1.gif). My great aunt's son's son is over 30 and has never (read:NEVER) had a steady job. Instead he's been parasitizing on his dad, his grandmother and... girlfriends! It's enough for one of the girl friends to leave him and he's got a next one the next week (currently an advocate).

At this stage. my medications such as Cyprotrone and Dutasteride have lowered my sex drive by around 90%. no porn, no masturbation and its great relief not having any urges, life is better.. However its just the mental side of being attracted to girls, being aware etc. Over time yes I can accept, embrace and live single without no problems because this is how it is. Females want men that are truly great in all aspects of life, excellent/good career, own house, holiday experiences, car, appearance, being popular, personality, confidence, social skills, fashion, the list can go on etc. it is fact. any girl can choose and be picky about there choices in men. it is the cruel nature of girls for sure. funny how i once believed in nonsense myths 'in life everyone is married one day', 'when it happens it happens # relationships' 'just keep trying there is a girl out there for everyone' ? 'improve yourself read books, do sports, join clubs, etc and girls like you', 'in dating girls and men both have equal chances', 'all men find a girl and fall in love one day', and yes these myths go on.

[Neutered (imported)]

Females want men that are truly great in all aspects of life, excellent/good career, own house, holiday experiences, car, appearance, being popular, personality, confidence, social skills, fashion, the list can go on etc. it is fact. any girl can choose and be picky about there choices in men. it is the cruel nature of girls for sure.

You can keep telling yourself it's other peoples fault that you don't get out and find friends or have the desire to improve your life all you want but the fact of the matter is you need some professional help to dig yourself out of your depression and self-defense delusions. If what you keep spouting was even remotely true, no thugs or criminals or hell, not even factory workers would ever have girl friends. As much as you like the attention you're getting by posting it, in the end, no person, drug or operation can fix your problems but you.

[Jorge2008 (imported)]

Criminals get lots of attention by females. It's the mother nature. ''Bad guy gets the girl''. Aggressiveness is definitely erotically attractive for females. The statistics of Estonia show men who have been to prison have considerably more children on an average in relation to men who haven't been to prison (true there might be other reasons like carelessness involved, but still: no problem finding a girlfriend for men like that). It's the 'nice guy' who ends up chemically castrating himself like me or Ninja, not a thug.

no thugs or criminals or hell, not even factory workers would ever have girl friends.

[Neutered (imported)]

After reading and re-reading this thread I have come to the conclusion that it is a miracle that human beings have survived, much less thrived. I can find no good reason why nobody but the richest of the rich, the the most evil of the evil, the baddest of the bad could have ever reproduced. Remember this thread next time you think the child your wife had is yours. Oh, and it's not really your wife, it's just something he (the evil overlord of the world) likes to let you think so he doesn't have to pay alimony or child support to all of his wives for all of the children on earth. Just remember, he was probably your father too so you wife is your sister and your kids are your siblings. Don't be pissed off at me, I'm your brother.

[shadow1ninja (imported)]

Not every man on the planet will have girlfriend/wife and future children. I am doomed single for life. I might probably have to pay escorts/prostitutes just get touch on a girl from time to time. Once or twice a year. In U.K the men who get girls in life have something to them, confidence, career, money, social status, social skills something interesting that will bring value to the girl. you cant say every person in population had girl and future kids . these people was chosen by the girl. Honestly if i had chance for girl i would drop all my medications or had one now.

[fhunter]

Not every man on the planet will have girlfriend/wife and future children. I am doomed single for life. I might probably have to pay escorts/prostitutes just get touch on a girl from time to time. Once or twice a year. In U.K the men who get girls in life have something to them, confidence, career, money, social status, social skills something interesting that will bring value to the girl. you cant say every person in population had girl and future kids . these people was chosen by the girl.

That would definitely happen if you repeat it more than enough times. Whom are you trying to convince?

May be you were looking in the wrong places?

[shadow1ninja (imported)]

I give you a perfect example. A classroom in College. Studying a topic. 15 class total of students. One of them is a average decent female. the rest are all men. Ok 1 female and 14 men. All 14 men likes the girl. and the girl may like 1 or 2 men out of the group? well this situation has happened in my life. Basically the guy with the best value she likes.

[Neutered (imported)]

Wow, I just figured out what you are doing. You're trying to get people to participate in your public humiliation play scene. I don't know why I didn't see it earlier, I see it a lot in dungeons but for some reason I didn't expect to see it here.

[~Tiamat~ (imported)]

Ok 1 female and 14 men.

Do you live on an oil rig?

No, so it's 15 women and 15 men. At your age it probably looks like the 15 women are after the same 5 men. It's probably more like 5 or 10 of them but it's the 5 or 10 you notice. Once they start pairing off it will be 5 women and 5 men. Suddenly it doesn't seem so impossible. All of those 15 men will end up with someone provided they want to be and they don't do something bonkers like castrate themselves because they think they can't get laid.

I apologise if this has already been said because I'm in a rush but one of the biggest side effects of chemical castration is depression, and in my totally unqualified layperson's opinion it sounds like you're depressed.

Do you have deeper reasons for doing this? :/ From what you've said I can't see it helping. No employer is going to take you seriously at thirty if you look and act ten years younger. Siterone is going to make you feel more lonely, not less. And for the sake of argument that four grand would have bought you a nice car (how can you even get that kind of money to spend on escorts without the lifeskills needed to realise what you're saying is wrong?)

[shadow1ninja (imported)]

In life its fact girls are interested in men with highest value. Any man cant just start conversation with a female and it becomes into more than this. especially not easily. If you are fit, great

personality, confidence, social skills

and can represent yourself a certain way it is easier to obtain a female to like you and if you have not then it is very difficult. would chemical castration drugs at least help with solving part of the issues such as the urges.

[Dave (imported)]

In life its fact girls are interested in men with highest value. Any man cant just start conversation with a female and it becomes into more than this. especially not easily. If you are fit, great

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east help with solving part of the issues such as the urges.

BOy am I grumpy today ! ! ! ! ! !

You go on believing that you are a pile of dog droppings and life will treat you that way.

Buck up, quit worrying about "dating" and get a life doing more than day-to-day work.

Get some interests in life like good music, fine art, helping the poor and unfortunate, and learn to enjoy life.

Quit flogging your body and mind with excuses that your penis is the most important indicator of your well-being.

If nature intended that, your penis would be growing out of your forehead for all to see.

Like I said, I'm grumpy today...

[shadow1ninja (imported)]

Honestly, Since 14years old I was eager to get a girlfriend in my life and even to now at 22 years old I would still like to have this but stuck single. how will it effect a man who only has paid prostitutes for services and never had a girlfriend? think about in this point of view? .. a girlfriend is a life changing experience it is the best source of happiness in life?

[Jorge2008 (imported)]

OK, you've told us many times about having failed. But exactly where were you looking? Night clubs, bars, dating sites, at the university ... ?

Honestly, Since 14years old I was eager to get a girlfriend in my life and even to now at 22 years old I would still like to have this but stuck single. how will it effect a man who only has paid prostitutes for services and never had a girlfriend? think about in this point of view? .. a girlfriend is a life changing experience it is the best source of happiness in life?

[fhunter]

Do you live on an oil rig?

No, so it's 15 women and 15 men. At your age it probably looks like the 15 women are after the same 5 men. It's probably more like 5 or 10 of them but it's the 5 or 10 you notice. Once they start pairing off it will be 5 women and 5 men. Suddenly it doesn't seem so impossible. All of those 15 men will end up with someone provided they want to be and they don't do something bonkers like castrate themselves because they think they can't get laid.

I have seen about the same male/female ratio on computer science and telecommunication specialities in the university. But then, there were humanitarians with exactly reversed ratio.

From the class reunion (it was 10 years after school): most were either married, or already divorced.

[kristoff]

I think this thread has been flogged to death.