Sexual orientation of EA members

[cast1988 (imported)]

pre 2011 I was 100% straight

post 2011 asexual eunuch

[italianboy19 (imported)]

I had girls too, but i'm mainly gay.

[wrangler2c (imported)]

It depends, normally asexual/straight leaning to bi, which means I actually enjoy self gratification and fantasying the most, and straight sex is great as is a bisexual encounter, however during periods of chemical castration I just plain don't care about sex at all. The periods I enjoy the most are the times I have no sexual feelings or desires. Cyproterone acetate works quite well, after about three weeks there are no sexual desire all. However there are side effects, breathing is important to me. In my case Cyproterone Acetate causes significant respiratory issues.

[HarBen404 (imported)]

Straight male. Guess I'm an outlier here.

[devi (imported)]

In Anne Rice's book "Cry to Heaven", the character of Guido had a lot to say regarding "sexual orientation". Also the other characters had their input. The author had done a lot of valuable research into the matter of eunuchs. I wish she'd return to eunuchs rather than vampires.

[cocksplitty (imported)]

im 40 years married, we have 4 childs.

but naked men are very exiting for me. have modded and torment my sex organs so long i can think.

I believe the castration in the moment of cuming is ultimativ and a deep desire in our maleness.

[A-1 (imported)]

I am 42 years married, we have 4 childs, 8 grandchilds, (Gay one currently resides with us) and naked women (young, of age ones) excites me considerably. SHIT!... I am too old for them.

What I need is some anti-viagra... (heh...heh...heh...)

Am I creepy enough yet?

[SouterJohnnie (imported)]

I just like a male or a female to dominate me and help me explore the uncharted universe of humiliation. Is this a statistic?

[SouterJohnnie (imported)]

I agree. Naked men excite me to pieces. I want to lie helpless in naked man's arms awaiting his attention. The thought of being castrated by a man who is soft and gentle makes me tingle all over.

[baldwin92 (imported)]

Conflicted I suppose, I love to make love with women (or did until my erections stopped) BUT I also love to be screwed by men. That makes me bisexual I guess.

[emasculation (imported)]

Definitely gay here.

[Cleancut01 (imported)]

So I am and have been straight my entire life. Straight does not mean homophobic though, I have LGBT friends. So recently we were discussing the idea of actions vs.desire. The point, if anyone only preforms an act to please another individual but they would never desire that act or seek it out on their own does that change their orientation? This came about because of a homophobic individual had just stated that any "man" that ever even touches another man's genetials is totally gay forever. As we laughed hysterically with tear running down our faces we discussed how now all Medical personal are gay, most fire personal are gay, all fathers that have ever changed a diaper are gay, you get the picture. So is it only about actions or is it about desire?

[Pandabear (imported)]

100% monosexually gay man. I forget what that is on the Kinsey scale...6 or 0? Anyway, I'm a guy who is only attracted to guys.

[gareth19 (imported)]

100% monosexually gay man. I forget what that is on the Kinsey scale...6 or 0? Anyway, I'm a guy who is only attracted to guys.

That's a Kinsey 6.

[hd2500ne (imported)]

Straight married but curious.

[Sparhauk (imported)]

I'm a monogamous, submissive, married, owned bisexual male. Mostly, I like to give pleasure to others. My Wife is my Dominant Goddess and owner. Her sex drive is almost non-existent and She doesn't believe in infidelity. So part of my desire to be castrated is to match my sex drive to my Wife's. I'm locked 24/7 in chastity, so as frustrating as that is, the fantasy of a penectomy is very tempting. My Wife doesn't have much of a sex drive, but She does enjoy the power of controlling me and She has a wicked and nearly limitless sadistic streak.

So, is submissive a sexual orientation?

[C&TL2745 (imported)]

I sometimes wonder whether we're not too quick to apply labels to ourselves and others. Sexuality, like all aspects of personality, spans a range in multiple dimensions, and simple labels like "straight" and "gay" seem to pigeonhole people into preconceived roles that are not only misleading or inappropriate but also tend to constrain the thinking of both the one labeled and those who apply the label, preventing the individual from developing the qualities that make him or her a whole, unique, and valued human being. I think most people would consider me "straight," but I've experimented with sex with other women. I don't think most people would call me a sadist, but I've derived pleasure from beating my hubby's testicles and participating in destroying his penis. My hubby and I are not what I'd call swingers, but he has given other women orgasms with his hands with my approval, and he has approved of my playing with another man's penis. And yet we have limits we will not go beyond in sexual activity with others. We have no children, but two young friends call us Mom and Dad. I don't see how a single label can capture all that. Why do we insist on wearing the straightjacket of a label--or dressing others in one?

Sandi

[~Tiamat~ (imported)]

Sandi: along with your post in the psychiatry thread that's the most intelligent thing I've read on here in a long time.

Myself, I'm far too narcisistic to care who I'm sleeping with I guess.

[Buster316 (imported)]

Im an intact gay male.

[cheetaking243 (imported)]

Sandi's actually 100% right.

I'm not sure how many of you have seen this TED talk, but when people are given a scale of 0-100 to describe their sexuality rather than just the binary options of "gay" or "straight," the most common answer was not 100, it was around 70-80. Every binary system is nothing more than a best-fit label trying to classify non-binary people.

https://www.ted.com/talks/io_tillett_wr ... des_of_gay

[Ernie of Maine (imported)]

I agree with Sandi and Cheetataking I have tried many thing and I'm not sure yet.:-\ Ernie

[No Nuts Phantasy (imported)]

Would be in your group( depending on the day;)

[OneBallBoi (imported)]

Gay Vs Straight.. Vs Eunuch.. I think a Eunuch is complete different. They are neither Gay nor Straight. A Eunuch has no sexual interest. I know I could only be in love with another Eunuch. I wonder what other Eunuch's Think. But I would have to in preference conclude that too they would only want to be with another Eunuch. A Eunuch is a Eunuch is a Eunuch. I know I would only want to fall in love with another Eunuch. Is that wrong?

[devi (imported)]

I wouldn't say that a eunuch has "no" sexual interest as in absolutely none. It is there. It is definitely there, only on maybe a lower key is all. As far as the general population is concerned basically everybody is "bisexual" on some level and eunuch mirror this.

[OneBallBoi (imported)]

I can only speak for me. All I want Is to find a farm again and be alone on that farm. I have absolutely no interest in another anymore. The T level is so low. I guess I have given up on love. Find me a farm far away from an others and I will be fine.