A friend to many here has passed today

[Tilt (imported)]

I don't normally post anymore but wanted people to know, Ray from Baltimore has died. I know many of you knew him, I'd met him in person and we talked frequently. He was a very good man and very much loved. If you know his husband or live in the area you might want to pay respects. I don't know details of the funeral, his husband is in shock as is understandable. Anyway, send him a prayer if so inclined I guess there isn't much more to be done. Terribly sad day, he was a good friend and always cared.

[JesusA]

The news is that Raymar suffered a fatal heart attack today. He will be sorely missed by everyone who knew him. Ray was invariably helpful to all who sought advice. He was intelligent, kind, and compassionate. I hope that further information will be posted as it becomes available.

[Slammr (imported)]

That is sad news: he will be missed.

[Uncle Flo (imported)]

A loss to us all. --FLO--

[daifu-orchid (imported)]

A good and compassionate soul, to inspire and continue to be missed.

[nullo2b1964 (imported)]

Indeed, Ray was an intelligent, level-headed soul. He will be missed.

[Dave (imported)]

How awful.

Sorry to hear this.

[nuts2nail (imported)]

Raymar always answered questions thoughtfully and with compassion. His wisdom will be sorely missed.

[Losethem (imported)]

Very sad. I had recently been chatting with him in e-mails and getting to know him a bit better.

[Riverwind (imported)]

wow, what a shock, I too will miss this very intelligent man, I will miss our pvt messages, my thoughts to his family, so sad.

We are reminded how precious life is and how fragile.

River

[tugon (imported)]

Raymar was one of the good guys. He will be missed.

[jemagirl (imported)]

I am sad to hear this. He always been kind and helpful to everyone here.

I am also a bit worried that he is one in the same with my friend Ray on tribe. Does anyone know?

[JessicaH (imported)]

how sad...

[unencumbered (imported)]

It was a shock for me to read of Ray's sudden passing. I would always see him online early every morning when i would regularly log on and yesterday i noticed that he wasn't there. He was too young to leave us.

Ray always answered and often advised me in our private correspondence about my path to becoming a eunuch and my experiences afterwards. His advice was always thoughtful and on target. I'm going to miss Ray. I was hoping to meet him someday, perhaps at a future east coast MOM. My condolences to his spouse. Ray was a great guy in my book. Thank you Ray for being a friend to me.

[gandalf (imported)]

This is a shock. I always looked forward to reading his insightful comments.

[Wifflebender (imported)]

Very sad raymar always answered when I had a question and was very nice an thoughtful. May he rest in peace

[butterflyjack (imported)]

Although I did not know him, his posts were always kind and helpful..I'll miss him Jackie

[Arab Nights (imported)]

An always helpful kind of guy. What a shock.

[YodaNell (imported)]

Although I did not know Ray, my condolences to his friends and family.

[jcat (imported)]

A man of great insight, understanding and concern for everyone. He will be greatly missed for his inteligent posts and thoughtful consideration.

[devi (imported)]

Oh wow! This is really bad news. To me and everyone. I think we all liked him. How not so? He had a lot to say. And was very kind too. -Will miss him for sure.

[eunuchtx (imported)]

I didn't know him, but I offer my condolences to his family and friends.

[kkks (imported)]

I thank him for his deep knowledge and support to this community. rest in peace.

[Peter47-NL (imported)]

I didn't have contact with Raymar but I liked his comments. He was so human, indeed an understanding and amiable man.

[Kangan2008 (imported)]

Oh dear. He was one of my friends, a respected friend. This is a loss to all of us at EA.