Is a high sex drive normal for a 31 year old male?

[Chris1115 (imported)]

I always thought sex drive was suppose to decrease with age, but within the past two years something rather different and unique has taken place. I've enjoyed edging ever since I first discovered how to pleasure myself when I was 10, and now it seems I'm capable of multiple orgasms. I'll build up, pass the point of no return, have the pleasure, contractions, and emissions like normal, but after the contractions stop, if I continue stimulation, within 20-30 seconds I'm building and passing the peak again into another full blown orgasm. I've managed to have 6 or 7 in under 5 minutes and I was just wondering if I should be worried about it, or if this is normal. Has anyone else experienced this extremely high libido and frequency to climax, or is it just me? I know women are capable, but I learned in sex education in high school that males undergo a refractory period during which they cannot attain orgasm. Have I broken my plumbing? LoL Should I be worried and see a doctor?

[_g (imported)]

Personally I would not be to worried about it, unless you have other things happening, like lumps in testicles, tender nipples, or breast developement

[Chris1115 (imported)]

No lumps... nipples are about as tender as i figure everyone else's are... and I don't have breast glandular development... so maybe I'm just lucky I guess. :]

[libraguy_1020 (imported)]

Hey man I wouldn't worry too much about that... Multiple orgasm for a guy in a short time can also be possible. I have experienced them myself since I was in my teens, and even more so as I have gotten older. I am in my 30's and a few months ago I had a 20 minute jerk off session where I had 10 orgasms in a row and never did have a dry orgasm. I too can jerk off with out any refractory period if I keep going. I am actually hornier and think about sex and my castration fantasy more in my 30's than I ever thought about them in my teens or twenties... Which can be considered a blessing and/or a curse depending on how you look at it LOL

[Chris1115 (imported)]

Guess we're the lucky ones... I mean what guy wouldn't wanna feel that incredible pleasure over and over again. Thanks for the reassurance. I never shoot much cum to be honest, but it still feels awesome so it doesn't much matter. Besides, being gay, my sperm count doesn't much matter considering I'm not trying to have kids. =)

[Nestor AEgrotatus (imported)]

I mean what guy wouldn't wanna feel that incredible pleasure over and over again.

I wouldn't. One of the many reasons I want to become a eunuch is so I can never feel that disgusting feeling ever again.

[C&TL2745 (imported)]

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I've managed to have 6 or 7 in under 5 minutes and I was just wondering if I should be worried about it, or if this is normal. Has anyone else experienced this extremely high libido and frequency to climax,....

I read about a woman who had spontaneous orgasms almost continuously, and that was making a mess of her life, but ability to (deliberately) give yourself six or seven in five minutes? I know a guy who'd pay handsomely to be able to get even one in an hour. I don't see any down side to what you've got. Enjoy it.

Sandi

[daifu-orchid (imported)]

And then there was the poor guy who sneezed with every orgasm. What did he take for it?

Pepper!



Enjoy what you have!

[spinwindy (imported)]

There is no such thing as normal, trying to be normal will just do your head in, just be yourself, if you're not hurting anyone else physically or mentally why would you worry. . .

[micdavi24 (imported)]

There is no such thing as normal, trying to be normal will just do your head in, just be yourself, if you're not hurting anyone else physically or mentally why would you worry. . .

There is a famous quote supposedly by Sigmund Freud: " Show me the sane man and I will soon cure him." Pretty much says it all.

[smoothie36 (imported)]

You only have so many golf swings in your life, so use them diligently. Yes, it is an analogy, you know what I mean.

[daifu-orchid (imported)]

You only have so many golf swings in your life, so use them diligently. Yes, it is an analogy, you know what I mean.

Yes, use each to the full. -You can't take back the stroke.

If you are sure that you have reached the time to go on from high sex drive to explore the next stage, try it with chemistry first. It's a good life being a eunuch, but you need the right time to do it.

[A-1 (imported)]

I always thought sex drive was suppose to decrease with age, but within the past two years something rather different and unique has taken place. I've enjoyed edging ever since I first discovered how to pleasure myself when I was 10, and now it seems I'm capable of multiple orgasms. I'll build up, pass the point of no return, have the pleasure, contractions, and emissions like normal, but after the contractions stop, if I continue stimulation, within 20-30 seconds I'm building and passing the peak again into another full blown orgasm. I've managed to have 6 or 7 in under 5 minutes and I was just wondering if I should be worried about it, or if this is normal. Has anyone else experienced this extremely high libido and frequency to climax, or is it just me? I know women are capable, but I learned in sex education in high school that males undergo a refractory period during which they cannot attain orgasm. Have I broken my plumbing? LoL Should I be worried and see a doctor?

There is a W-I-D-E variation that takes in the range deemed "normal". From what I have read, you fall within the range. No, not everybody is like this. So, you should enjoy your "gift" and not give it a second thought.

[coinflipper_21 (imported)]

Don't worry. Basically, if you've got it, use it.

Right up until my prolactinoma made me impotent, in my 40's, I was able to have intercourse to orgasm six times a day, and could masturbate to ejaculation at least eight times a day.

Don't forget that while there is a measurable decrease in testosterone production after 30 much of the measured decline in libido and sexual performance was sociological when the original studies were done. That was the day of the single income family, and by the the time a man reached his thirties he was working 50 to 70 hours a week to keep up the family lifestyle. This was a great strain on his libido. On the other hand, his wife would have, by her thirties gotten the all the kids in school and have overcome her early social training, (i.e "Don't let anyone touch you down there." "You must be a virgin when you marry." "Good girls don't do those things.") and was ready for some sexual experimentation only to find her husband no longer up to the task. Don't judge your sex drive based on social convention and oft repeated old research. If you still want to do it and are indecent physical shape, enjoy yourself.

P.S. The prolactinoma is now gone, erections have returned, and I can still have sex twice a day (I'm 71.) when it's available.