Wives' or Girlfriends' Feelings on Castration

[Lowellsteve (imported)]

I want to tell my girlfriend how I feel about this .

But I want to here from other women that have BF or husbands with this desire. I want to hear what they have to say about it.And if there happy this way. and how long have they been with there castrated man. Or if he is a wona be do they get sick of his fantasy. I know very few women come in here so I'm not hoping for a reply.

[sacfull (imported)]

I told my wife that I wanted a castration about 8 months ago, and she was surprised to say the least when I first told her. However, we have spoken about it many times since and I have given my reasons for wanting to be castrated and she now understands and is supportive and is now very much looking forward to the event as much as I am. I must say that it took alot of nerve to break the news but it was a huge relief to be open and honest with her about it. This surely must be the foundation of any solid relationship. Good luck.

[Blaise (imported)]

being able to share our desires with lovers still makes the difference in life. Even if the lover can't go all the way with a desire, they can take it into their own fantasy worlds and share it with us.

Besides, fantasies are not as rare as we imagine. We are not alone in the universe of sexual desire and fantasy. In the current matter, with testosterone shots, you can keep your sexual drive, get rid of your balls, and enjoy your fantasy.

[A-1 (imported)]

Quiz...

What movie or book was it where the guy got kicked out of medical school because he cut the penis off of his cadaver and then tied it to the "pull string" on the light in the walk in refrigerator? ( or was it a closet?)

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[Glenda J (imported)]

While some wives or girlfriends may be receptive to a man being castrated after the relationship is established, it is much better to tell them first. Some women will reject the idea, but many will not. It will help a lot that they were part of the decision making process. Not all women by any means, but many like to be made love to the way another woman would make love to them so being unable to perform is not a problem for many.

As for getting castrated and then taking testosterone, is, to me, like pissing in the wind. It would serve no purpose. If you like being a man and being able to perform as a man, why in the hell would you want to take away the natural means for doing so?

Glenda J

[A-1 (imported)]

....didn't you know that men are fickle and confused as hell. They never seem to know what they want even when their tongue is buried in it...



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[A-1 (imported)]

...really, Guy.

Lighten up.

Don't you know that this site is an aberration?

Would you rather that we cut all the females at age 12, sew their cooches shut and then stone them to death if they decided that they wanted to fuck anyway?

Maybe throw black veils over them so that you can't see if they are ugly or not.

I wouldn't pay too much attention to feminists. They just want to get attention and to stir up controversy.

So, Guy, start the discussion thread, I dare you. Believing that western society is anti-male is a state of mind.

It's called paranoia!

Of course, there is the argument that if it really bothers you that you are a very, very insecure male who feels threatened in the presence of an assertive female.

While you are at it make sure that you understand the difference between aggressive and assertive.

And be careful what you say, in the meantime also be careful that a bunch of feminists or worse yet a bunch of Bull-dykes don't throw a net over your head and haul you off to a vacant warehouse somewhere and castrate you after they milk your semen to perpetuate their kind...

I ain't afraid of 'em, man. Hell, if a lesbian messes with me I'll EAT her!



A-1

(Just kidding!)

[radar (imported)]

With all due respect, A-1, that was too much. Fine if we disagree with someone; we can argue our case. But please let's not try to just shut him up with shaming tactics and name-calling. None of us are in a position to wield accusations regarding anyone's alleged insecurities or paranoia, because we've not walked in his shoes. (Sometimes they are out to get you!) I've seen close-up what happens to perfectly good men who are on the dirty end of some of the crap laws feminism has inspired.

The problem with Salami's message wasn't that he was wrong necessarily, so much as that it was an overreaction to the content of the discussion so far. We can't know what prompted it unless he tells us, but I can assure you that reactions like that most typically come not from the insecure, but from the screwed-over.

If he does start that thread, people might be surprised by some of the facts that come out of it.

By the way, that movie you mentioned, that wasn't the one with Matthew Modine and Daphne Zuniga, was it? I can't remember the name of it.

[Lowellsteve (imported)]

Its off the topic again. And where are the women I wanted replys from?

[Paolo]

Yes, and it's usually the same people who keep pulling threads off of their original topic for their own amusement.

In an effort to try and add something that is relevant to the question:

When I first began having problems with chronic testicle pain and a raft of problems, I decided that I would not try and cover it up. At the time, I worked with four ladies, mid 20's to my own age, 30 at the time. They were all very understanding and sympathetic, a couple of them even aroused by the issue of castration. This led to a long discussion of the pros and cons of castration, and not one unkind word was said by them in the process. The idea of HRT under THEIR control was the most fascinating of subjects for them. I often wonder what kind of research they did. Of course, I'm sure that not every woman out there would react so well.

Just some thoughts.

[A-1 (imported)]

Well, it is kind of unusual going from how do I tell my female friends of my castration/emasculation desires/fantasies to society is anti-male on every issue and women want only to dominate/emasculate men.

As far as name-calling goes I think that if you perceive that society is pro-female / anti-male then you are trying to convince somebody to accept your dogmatic views which are, in fact,...oh well, I made the point.

So Salami, if you are upset you probably are not any more upset than I am about the distortion of "society" (America?) It is not YOU that is paranoid, Salami, it is the viewpoint.

I will admit that there are women who manipulate society, laws, et cetera, to their own advantage, however many males do this also. It is an extension of the feeling that "... the world owes me..." thought patterns.

Well, back to the thread.

If you feel the need to make it part of your fantasy or even reality sex life then share it with your sexual partner, male OR female. Honesty is always the best policy in matters of dealing with other people in a relationship.

If you are not honest then later, at the end of your relationship, you will see the point where things started to go wrong is the point where you (or they) decided to be less than honest.

Nothing messes up a relationship faster than lying to somebody who trusts you.

She/he may leave you anyway but do you really want a relationship based on something that is not real and not trust?

Anyway, that is how I feel and so I see no reason not to level with intimates. If they violate your trust then it is them who have a problem and not you.

Credibility will eventually favor you because if they betrayed you then they will betray then next person who is unfortunate enough to choose them as a partner.

Do it! Share your intimate feelings NOW before things get worse, but remember....timing is not something,....it is everything.

Hope nobody's pissed off and I hope that this helps.

Thanks, radar, for being honest!

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[MarriedUnik (imported)]

Hi Steve,

My wife, Tammie recently wrote a letter explaining her view on it. I posted it for her under the "Personal History" section of the board. Perhaps it will help answer a few of the questions you ask. I must say that it really helps to have a goodhearted, understanding partner for this to work out.

[mlooking2 (imported)]

Hi Steve,

My wife, Tammie recently wrote a letter explaining her view on it. I posted it for her under the "Personal History" section of the board. Perhaps it will help answer a few of the questions you ask. I must say that it really helps to have a goodhearted, understanding partner for this to work out.

Could you post a link to your wifes comment please.

[Losethem (imported)]

I would recommend you go looking for it. The thread you are replying to is over 7 years old.

[Hash (imported)]

Every woman is different, however, the one thing that really helps when talking to them about your desire to be castrated, is sexual desire towards other women. If you tell your wife or girlfriend that it's hard for you to keep your eyes off of other women and that's why you want to be castrated, because you love her and don't want to destroy your relationship with her, it will most likely make her more receptive to the idea of castration. Women don't want their men looking at other women or thinking about other women sexually, and if you tell her that castration will reduce or stop these thoughts about other women, she'll "most likely" be glad that you want to be castrated in order to prevent a sexual liaison with another female. Just don't be specific, don't tell her you've been thinking about your neighbor in a sexual way, she might go after and confront your neighbor.

I believe "most" women would prefer a eunuch to a promiscuous male any day. Certainly there are exceptions, but the average female wants a man devoted completely to her. In fact, as an example, why do married Thai women resort to cutting off their husbands penises? In the majority of cases it's because their husbands are cheating on them. Cheating is why a lot of American women want to castrate their lovers, but don't, because of legal ramifications and fear. But if they could get away with it, I think they'd castrate in heart beat.

[unencumbered (imported)]

My constant harassment of my post-menopausal wife for sex when she didn't want it was enough to have her readily agree to my suggestion that I become chemically castrated. She is very pleased with the results, being the person who initiates sex now, which is not all that often, as my libido is much diminished and spontaneous erections are no longer.

[saywhat (imported)]

Here is the link. It was a very good post.

http://www.eunuch.org/vbulletin/showthr ... ght=tammie