Eunuch-WannaBe

[OttawaEunuch (imported)]

Hi everyone,

I'm so happy I can find a forum like this to discuss with all of you. I'm 25 years old and I have been wishing to be an eunuch since I was 8.

I'm from China and currently living in Canada. But I can't make up my mind to get castrated because of our traditional culture. Chinese culture stress too much on having offsprings and I'm the only child of my parents. If I made up my mind and got castrated, I wouldn't be able to face them ever after.

Anyone facing the same stress from family? I hope we could talk about it.

Cheers

[Frida G Cavic (imported)]

welcome, family is always the more dificult part , specially in this cases , to society identity, gender issues is always hard to understand

good luck!

[micdavi24 (imported)]

Hi everyone,

I'm so happy I can find a forum like this to discuss with all of you. I'm 25 years old and I have been wishing to be an eunuch since I was 8.

I'm from China and currently living in Canada. But I can't make up my mind to get castrated because of our traditional culture. Chinese culture stress too much on having offsprings and I'm the only child of my parents. If I made up my mind and got castrated, I wouldn't be able to face them ever after.

Anyone facing the same stress from family? I hope we could talk about it.

Cheers

There is a possible way that you can achieve castration and still fulfill your family obligations regarding offspring. You can bank sperm for later and then get castrated.

I had a look at your profile and I gather from the above post that they in all probability are not aware of your being gay, which in any case would make it very unlikely that you would father children anyway. I do hope that you find a way around this dilemma.

[OttawaEunuch (imported)]

Should I start band balls and damage them? After they're damaged, I'll have to cut them. At that time, I wouldn't spare time worring about family.

[feribooo (imported)]

but if he is castrated, will a women want to marry him and have a baby for him?

[T van Keel]

Well, China also has got a long history of castration, so maybe there is also a little bit of acceptance for that today. Whatever you do, remember it's your life. You don't have to please others by being someone you don't want to be.

By the way you're Chinese, could you please have a look at my question I posted here:

http://forums.eunuch.org/showthread.php ... -the-1970s

[paring (imported)]

Never mind the family. This is your life and you should live it up as you wish. The true question here is, do you want to father a child ? You are still young and perhaps you're not yet ready for that. There are gays you wish to have a child when they set up with a regular gay friend. Perhaps you'll develop this desire later on. I'm 62, gay and I wish I had a child, not to please my parents or family, but my self. Perhaps it'd wiser to bank some sperm before castration.

Castration is a powerful fantasy and this will remain in your mind for the rest of your life. You probably feel compel to proceed, but beware, castration will bring lot of physical and mental health issues unless you're planning on taking hormones.

[erikboy (imported)]

When i was younger it was dificult for me to imagine that i got a child. But later in life this natural desire could awaken and grow into obsession. Either you need to store your sperm or have a cild as fast as possible. Or both. It will eliminate a potential source of depression later.

[LiXing059 (imported)]

I am a Chinese,too.My thoughts are the same as yours. Under pressure of family.

[daifu-orchid (imported)]

Castrated and Chinese was not unusual, but I also understand the Chinese pressure of family.

How to say? They are your family, and precious, but they are not you. Decide for yourself.

I have been castrated and happy for years now, but have not held high office in Gugong!

Be sure of your reasons, and chose wisely.

[rufusdomition (imported)]

Personally speaking, around 99% of straight woman don't want to marry with a castrated guy due to sexual life issue. Unless she is a lesbian and needs to use a superficial marriage to stop her relatives' bullshit.

As to baby issue, he can bank some sperm before castration or simply adopt orphan.

[rufusdomition (imported)]

I think you move to Canada for liberty rather than being restrained by traditional bullshit, right? Indeed, family is one of the source of stress of being different with other mainstream society but modern society is being more tolerate than before. You are an adult now, as long as your fantasy is harmless to other people, no one SHOULD intervene your life and your fantasy.

I also have similar fantasy. My fantasy appeared since puberty. I always have a dream that my best friend or boy friend surgically remove my whole package, both penis and testicles, and leave a small pee-hole on where my penis used to be. So that I can squat to pee or still standing to pee after inserting a catheter into the pee-hole. Believe it or not, I find that being incontinence after receiving penectomy surgery and forced to wear diaper to prevent leaking urine are very hot to me. These scenes become my routine fantasy when I am joking my 13 cm dick which helps me to achieve orgasms in these years.

However, I do not make my fantasy reality even though I dream of these in years due to no reliable operator or cutter in my place, family issue, cash and other stuffs. I do agree that castration or nullification is a life-changing surgery that creates many physical consequences like losing strength without HRT, incontinence, infertile, unable to use urinal or public locker room.......... So, you have right to pursue your fantasy but do ensure that you think it through or you will regret it in the rest of your life.

As to family, you can hide or lie to cover the real you in front of the stubborn conservative heads. No one knows you are not a man after you are castrated or nullified as long as you don't show your crotch to them.

Sorry for my long reply

[russianboy (imported)]

I think if you are hesitating, you should not to be castrated now. If hezitation stops when it will possible to castration.

[micdavi24 (imported)]

I don't care what anybody says in these forums, replacement testosterone does not work the same as the real stuff produced by your testicles, so if you opt for surgical castration, prepare for a life changing experience.

I would take issue with you on this point. I don't know whether you have heard of a product called Axiron, made in Finland by Eli Lilly. I have been on this since about 6 months before I was actually castrated due to very low T levels. Axiron is a spirit based liquid, which is dispensed by a measured pump into a small silicon applicator and then applied in your armpit. The stuff dries in seconds and is great, almost exactly like the original in my case.

I do have some side effects from my castration just like you do in that I take a long time to orgasm and when it does happen, it is very different and far more satisfying than before castration. My volume of ejaculate is much the same as before and I have no problem getting an erection which is perfect for penetrative sex and it stays up for much longer these days.

If you are interested in trying TRT again, I would suggest that you investigate this product and if available in the US, give it a try.