Being Open

[TheRagingEunuch]

I posted this in another Subject some time ago and thought it deserved to have a place all its own. It concerns being open about one's self.

I may be a little different in my beliefs, but I am not ashamed to be known as a Eunuch. Probably because I have always been one. I have had very few issues with only a few individuals questioning the meaning of the Prefix "Eu." rather than "Mr.". My Partner and I go by "Eu. & Mz". There are always those who will criticize anything anyway. So be it.

As an added note, I feel being open about being a Eunuch could help should one of us be accused by some gold-digging female, of sexual harassment.

While we are on the subject of "Being Open", I would like to add that I am also open about being a Fellationist. I gave my first blowjob to a pal in Grade School when I was 13. Needless to say, he told some others and I from that day forward, I became known as "Blowjob". No, it wasn't easy at first, but I eventually got used to it. I still give Blowjobs today (you don't just quit) and as you read this, I may have just given one. In today's society it doesn't matter anyway and quite frankly, I'm proud of it.

PS - Plus, It pays to advertise

[WheelyFixed]

I'm pretty open about it w/ medical care types, and on anonymous surveys and things like that, although it's sometimes hard to figure out the best answer depending on what they give you for options...

I am not out to anyone other than my GF in my personal circle, but I don't go out of my way to hide it... However I dress standard male, use standard male pronouns (I mildly cringe at they/them) have a beard and mustache, etc. and just let people make their own assumptions...

There is the old saw about identifying pioneers by the arrows in their backs, and I've been chicken about it so far...

Glad to hear that you are out about it, and don't get much crap... It makes me feel a bit less concerned about being out, which I see as something that will probably happen sooner or later just because of my role here if there is any need to be more public....

I've also been considering trying to be more active in the local 'kink' community or on places like FetLife, and given the high percentage of LGBTQ+++ members in the makerspace, I'm sure I'd be identified and word would rapidly spread if I did...

So not really if, but more like "when"... I'm nervous about it but sort of reconciled to the idea.

WheelyFixed