Hello, I'm kinda new around here and i'm neutered.

[CloudCat (imported)]

Hi,

I'm kinda new on the forums. I guess a little about me. I've been dealing a long time with chronic testicular pain for a long time. 16 years to be a rough guess. I had a Left side Orchie done back in March 2018 and then I just recently (Oct 19th 2018) had the left one removed. It has resolved the testicular pain for now. I am still dealing with pelvic pain.

I'm still super new to being neutered. I'm 33 and just kinda looking for other people to talk to about life as a neutered male.

I hope that's ok using "Neutered" I'm not really sure with using terms like eunuch and such.

Any Who HI!

Sharako, A Neutered Male.

[stephaniesteve1 (imported)]

Welcome I am sure you will find life without balls much better and you will soon enjoy life having been neutered.Many of us on here have been through a similar journey to yours so there is understanding and support available.

[justine77 (imported)]

Hi and welcome, I was castrated just over 3 years ago at 23. When I was a new eunuch I often referred to myself as neutered. I found I needed a year or so to fully adjust to my new sexual status, I felt physically and psychologically desexed so ID'ed then as neuter. After a while I got to the point where I preferred not having any testicles and was glad that I had been cut. Nowadays I take low dose estrogen and am like a tomboyish girl. I've been sexually active for about 1 1/2 years and see myself now as a feminized eunuch, physically I look like a girl but internally I ID as eunuch. I'm sure you will soon adapt and will enjoy life as a neutered male. Justine x

[daifu-orchid (imported)]

Welcome! There are lots of us here who enjoy life with no testicles. The accounts of how we came to the present state might make interesting reading? While we have some things in common, we are all different, so make yourself at home!

[Begoneboy (imported)]

physically I look like a girl but internally I ID as eunuch. I'm sure you will soon adapt and will enjoy life as a neutered male. Justine x

That was well put like I've never seen. I am guessing that physically I look or present much as a gal. And of course at times clothe myself as such for convenience. However inside I pretty much ID as simply myself. Of course having had everything below removed doesn't make me female nor does it take away from being male. Those I suspect in my case are extremely subjective.

So CloudCat, be all you can be and be who you want to be. Welcome aboard and you'll find tons of support in here with loads of invaluable information and advice. Just be you, nothing will change that.

[madnomadtoo (imported)]

I had a Left side Orchie done back in March 2018 and then I just recently (Oct 19th 2018) had the left one removed.

You had two left testicles, CloudCat? Just raggin' ya -- I'm sure that's a typo, but the image is intriguing. I'm amused.

[CloudCat (imported)]

You had two left testicles, CloudCat? Just raggin' ya -- I'm sure that's a typo, but the image is intriguing. I'm amused.

LOL I've always been bad with left and right and keeping things straight.... I lost the left one first, and then the right one recently.

I still keep saying My Balls... and well I don't have those so I got a lot of adjusting.

[CloudCat (imported)]

Thanks everyone. It's a defeneta adjustment to not having testicles, but I'm really hapy to have them gone. It took a while and I was scared to be where I am now, but now that I'm here, I think it was just time and I'm good with it.

Any pointers for a newly neutered guy?

[daifu-orchid (imported)]

Enjoy?

It might take a while to adjust, but don't forget to enjoy! It can be a very good life.

[TopManFL (imported)]

Hey @CloudCat - Welcome!

[Brycenosak (imported)]

Hi there Cloud cat! I was castrated in 2002, after 4 years of post vasectomy orchalgia. It took that long and many 'procedures to effect this. to this day i still remember the euphoria of being pain and testicle free. But with that comes a feeling of loss, physical and psycological, that is quite normal. It is like a hidden difference, a secret. Soon after the nutting, I happily told quite a few of my friends, its not that important to most. We all have our cross to bear. But remember that we belong to an exclusive and supportive club. We are different, its OK to feel what you feel. Its a personal journey. I recently removed my sack. It looks and feels great. Love your self and who you are. Be well!

[sparkey49 (imported)]

Welcome here brother eunuch!

[Rafaella (imported)]

Hi and Welcome, I'm a fairly new eunuch, castrated just under a year ago. I had my testicles taken off after they shriveled up as a consequence of mumps orchitis. It has taken me most of that time to adjust to my castration. I tried T replacement until recently but that didn't work for me and I'm now on low dose estrogen. Initially I was all over the place but was fortunate to meet a very helpful and knowledgable partner and have received excellent advice from the EA. My suggestion is that you have to allow yourself time to adapt to your new situation and that their is no shame in being a eunuch, many of us have more varied and exciting sex lives than intact males.