Castrated without a partner!

[bullgeo (imported)]

Should a person get castrated without having a partner? Will it be more difficult to find somebody after you have been cut? Will you be a lonely eunuch or is there hope that maybe someday there will be a person to take control of your life? Is it better to find a partner, male or female, that agrees with the lifestyle of a eunuch and then get castrated? What comes first, the partner or the castration. If a eunuch has no partner, will he be a lonely eunuch, always to be left out, or can a eunuch be independant?

Bull

[Andrew (imported)]

Should a person get castrated without having a partner? Will it be more difficult to find somebody after you have been cut? Will you be a lonely eunuch or is there hope that maybe someday there will be a person to take control of your life? Is it better to find a partner, male or female, that agrees with the lifestyle of a eunuch and then get castrated? What comes first, the partner or the castration. If a eunuch has no partner, will he be a lonely eunuch, always to be left out, or can a eunuch be independant?

Bull

I was certainly castrated without a partner. What does having or not having a partner got to do with it?

Am I a lonely eunuch? Depends on how you define it. I got friends at work who know about my castration, friends in AA who know about my castration, a supportive family who knows about my castration, and two cats who couldn't care less about my castration as long as I feed them on time.

OF course a eunuch can be independent!!!! I think you have been reading too many Archive stories. Real life as a eunuch has little to do with archive fiction. I am unattached, yes. Without a partner, yes. No interest or need for a partner, yes. Lonely, No. Antisocial, no.

Do I buy into the typical american mindset that you are somehow "incomplete" or "deprived" if you don't have a partner, or a relationship, or something. NO!

[Riverwind (imported)]

Andrew, once again tonight you did it, I could not have said it better if I worked on that for a couple days.

I too am a eunuch, I have no partner and I am loving every minute of it.

I dont want a partner to control me, what the hell do you think I am, I am a eunuch not a slave. I am a eunuch by choise, my ex knows my kids know and its not a problem for any of them.

Andrew is correct, reading the stories and reality are not even close.

River

[A-1 (imported)]

...will the basis of your desired relationship be sexual, or is a significant part of it to be sexual?

If so, then yes. Otherwise, no.

A-1

[JeffEunuch (imported)]

The decision to have one's balls harvested is one that guys make for themselves. Some have partners when they have it done,and the partners should be approving or the relationship will soon end. I've spoken to many guys over the years whose partners approve of their decision to be ballless (or w/o cock or nullo).

Others don't have partners at the time. The latter doesn't mean that they won't attract lovers if they're sexual. Of course, some people would be glad to have a non-sexual relationship with a eunuch, and relationships aren't always based on genital sex.

In my own case, I'm now in a relationship with a guy that was initially attracted to me because of my balllessness. It's great do be able to talk to someone close about my fantasies.

I've found though that relationships, both sexual and not, are formed on the basis of one's personality and personal traits. I have yet to find someone that rejected me sexually or otherwise just because I'm ballless. And both my b/f and a lot o' others have luved the idea of sex with a castrated guy.

[bullgeo (imported)]

JeffEunuch,

Do you also have sex with them or are you unable? If you are unable to get an erection, is it because you prefer not to take hormone replacement therapy (HRT)? I have one testicle, and I couldn't get an erection, now I'm on a HRT program, I get a testosterone injection every month. But I want a female sex partner, and I want to be able to cum, so after I have my other testicle removed, I will increase the dosage of testosterone, and I hope I will still get an erection. The doctor seems to think I will. And I want to get rid of the other ball.

Bull

[bullgeo (imported)]

JeffEunuch,

If I cannot have sex, or have cum, then I want my female partner to get a boyfriend to shoot off his wad of cum in her pussy, then I will put my face in her cream filled pussy and suck on her clitoris. I think that I must have the strangest fantasies of anyone in this forum. I'd like to know if I am one of a kind or if other guys have the same fantasy.

Bull

[Leon (imported)]

Bull,

This fantasy of yours is not strange at all, and I have known quite a few bi guys who get off this way, although none were eunuchs, at the time at least.

If this is really a great turn on for you, go out and do it, you don't even have to be a eunuch, but if that is a major part of the turn on, infibulation will be able to create the effects eunuchism.

There are quite a few bi coupels in teh world willing to do real nasty things. Enjoy it, you only live once.

All the best,

Leon

[bullgeo (imported)]

Leon,

Thanks for your support and letting me know that a lot more in the world with ideas like mine, I just have to try harder.

Bull

[SplitDik (imported)]

The whole point of this forum is that we can realize that there are other people out there "as weird" as us. It is a big relief to realize that we are not alone with our unorthodox urges and fantasies!

[JeffEunuch (imported)]

All of us have sexual fantasies. It's the stuff of life, and it's better to follow through, rather than repressing them - unless they're hurtful to or abusive of other people.

To answer your earlier question, I receive testosterone injections bi-monthly as part of HRT and am quite a horny and sexually active guy. As it may be in your case, the reasons I chose to have my balls harvested are several and complicated. It was one of the better decisions of my life. I was also on HRT prior to castration.

[happousai (imported)]

Castration lasts for the rest of your life. On the other hand, a relationship might not.

Personally, I look upon castration as a way of improving my own life. If I were to get castrated, and then someone were to reject a relationship with me because I was castrated, I would be like "well screw you, I can find someone just as good as you".

[Kelly_2 (imported)]

An active sex life is not necessarily the same thing as a meaningful relationship. Lots of women out there would just as soon be held and cuddled as poked by some aggressive cock.

Thanks bunches!

Many of us just don't need "sex." Indeed, cuddling is what we often desire most.

It has been almost two years since my "eunuch to female" surgery, and I am still a virgin, and I am not too worried about coitus. Being free from all this is liberating. There is much more to life than "boinking." So much more.

And if I did have a partner, I would not quite care if he or she had been snipped. That is up to them, isn't it?

Hugs,

Kelly