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Can you guess why I chose that name? Of course you can.
Can you guess why a man has a pussy? No, I'm sure you can't.
So here's the story:

Quite some time ago I had a severe case of kidney stones. A very big stone came out while peeing and it ripped my manhood apart. From that moment I could no longer aim so I always had to sit on the toilet. But that's not all. My prostate was damaged so it no longer worked, meaning my orgasms became dry and I could no longer become a father (which I didn't want anyway, so that aspect is no loss). And last but not least: my balls were damaged so they hurt.

But no matter how aweful it looked and no matter how much it hurt, no doctor in Belgium (where I live) was able, willing and allowed to remove my manhood. Some silly burocratic rule demands that such surgery can only be performed if I make a full transition to female. I didn't want that, so I had no other option but going abroad to have that surgery; in this case: in Spain.

My wife is bisexual, so instead of nullification I chose vulvoplasty instead. And that's the whole story... except for one detail:

Up till the day of my surgery I thought of it as a loss but a small price to pay.
After my surgery I saw what a great job they did. It almost looks like I was a born female! My wife finds me 1000 times more sexy than before. So I'm the happiest man on earth.
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Welcome to the forums, glad to have you joining us, however it happened.

However I am a little concerned as the pattern of 5 posts in close sequence with the last one being a plug for a dating site makes me wonder if you MIGHT not be as you present, please see the note I left in that dating post. If you are real my apologies, but being a bit suspicious is part of the moderator job...

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Fusion invited me here and he can vouch for me. And if you had read the entire post of the dating site you would have known about the fact that I found my wife DURING the creation of that site, but we decided to finish it anyway.
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Hello pussyman. The story of your damages are quite intriguing. Could you share more as to how that happened?
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Pussyman215 wrote: Mon May 26, 2025 3:19 pm Fusion invited me here and he can vouch for me. And if you had read the entire post of the dating site you would have known about the fact that I found my wife DURING the creation of that site, but we decided to finish it anyway.
If Fusion vouches for you, not a problem - I did read the post and it was not clear to me that you had found your wife during the process of making the site. Will leave the existing post as is.

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WheelyFixed wrote: Tue May 27, 2025 2:24 am
Pussyman215 wrote: Mon May 26, 2025 3:19 pm Fusion invited me here and he can vouch for me. And if you had read the entire post of the dating site you would have known about the fact that I found my wife DURING the creation of that site, but we decided to finish it anyway.
If Fusion vouches for you, not a problem - I did read the post and it was not clear to me that you had found your wife during the process of making the site. Will leave the existing post as is.

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dandelion wrote: Mon May 26, 2025 3:39 pm Hello pussyman. The story of your damages are quite intriguing. Could you share more as to how that happened?
Every aspect has been mentioned. But if you have a question I'm happy to answer.
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Pussyman215 wrote: Tue May 27, 2025 4:28 am Every aspect has been mentioned. But if you have a question I'm happy to answer.
Just curious how a kidney stone could rip your manhood apart... If it's too big, I'd think it wouldn't have been able to enter the urethra? If it's too sharp, it would perhaps just scratch your urethra? And how did it damage your testicles? The plumbing doesn't lead there...

Did you get it shattered first by doctor with ultrasound or something else?
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@dandelion
The stone was not shattered. It seems I was treated by ver bad doctors then.
It passed the balls on the way out and hit them, I guess. I have no X-ray vision, so I can't be sure, but this must have happened. It's the only rational explanation.
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Not a Doc, but I'd agree w/ Dandelion in that I don't see how a kidney stone could damage your testicles, as they have different plumbing... The prostate acts as a sort of mixing / diverter valve, and (if working properly) either connects the bladder to the urethra for urination, OR mixes sperm from the testicles w/ seminal fluid for ejaculation...

A stone forms either in the kidneys and travels to the bladder, or the bladder itself, and then goes out via the prostate to the urethra, and could potentially cause damage to the prostate and urethra, but no way it could go anywhere near the testicles.... That said, I could see a couple possible ways of ending up w/ testicle pain...

1. If you ended up w/ some sort of UTI as a result of the other damage, they can sometimes travel to the balls and cause a very painful and difficult to treat infection.

2. I'm not sure just how / where the nerves for the testicles are routed, but I could see them possibly getting damaged as a result of either the stone or the treatment for the damage it caused.

3. I know that some guys who have had vasectomies report a lot of testicle pain later, possibly some sort of similar issue since you reported having the tubes blocked....

Not terribly relevant or important given your current state, but it would be nice to know which as a matter of curiosity...

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