Story #1 has nothing to do with losing my manhood; story #2 does.
In the year 2000 I got on the internet for the first time. Facebook didn't exist yet. Chatboxes were the main social media then: all you saw were typed messages in rooms with several people.
One of those people drew my attention because of her positive attitude. As a matter of fact I wanted to meet her in real life. Then one day she said she was in a wheelchair... and I thought: WHO CARES!!! Long story short: we met, we got married, we were happy for 19 years until the day she died as a result of her muscular disease.
Story #2:
When I was looking for a doctor who was able, willing and allowed to remove my manhood, I was also looking for experts by experience who could tell me what to expect. I found 3 that were willing to tell me what I wanted to know: 1 from Italy, 1 from Norway... and 1 from Belgium = where I live. This last one (a post-op trans woman) was so extremely helpful that I wanted to get to know her better. Long story short again: we got married before I had found a doctor.
But then my plans changed: she told me she was bisexual. That means she would fancy me no matter if I had male or female anatomy between my legs. But just a peehole might be no success in our relationship. And that's why I chose vulvoplasty instead of a simple amputation.
This story got an unexpected twist: she does not like to have sex. She says she must be asexual rather than bisexual. She's still madly in love with me, so she doesn't want to end our marriage. And since she understands my need for sex she allows me to play with others.
And that's the story...
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Re: 2 incredible love stories
Thanks for sharing your story, I'm glad you have found such great partners and happiness with them.
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Paraplegic - T-5, ASIA-B. 2010 Injury left non-functional & frustrated. 4/24/22, stop T. 5/4 start 3.75mg Lupron. 6/29 - T ~0. 7/7 - start E. 9/2 stop Lupron. 3/30/23 - GOT LETTERS! surgery (O&S) 9/28/23. Doing 0.1mg/day E patch as HRT