french man looking for muslim woman for castration

[bobres]

Hello, I am a french man interested in castration . I would like to exchange with some muslim single women interested in having a christian french man that would agree to be castrated and become her slave and eunuch. I am looking for some well educated and single woman. Thanks

[WheelyFixed]

This is very borderline on what is acceptable here on the forum. We emphatically do NOT allow posts that are seeking 'cutters' or others to perform non medically managed surgeries.

It is somewhat to post that you would be willing to be castrated BY A DOCTOR in order to become a slave, though not a path we would encourage you to take. In other words, it is not alright to look for a Muslim woman to castrate you and make you her slave (Unless she is a doctor) but it is marginally alright to look for a Muslim woman willing to enslave you, with your agreement to a medically managed castration as part of the deal.

Slavery is not something that most of us would consider desirable or want to encourage, but if it is something the 'slave' agrees to, especially if he has some sort of option to end the agreement, it is at least somewhat OK... (Technically one can define slavery as involuntary servitude. Voluntary servitude is not slavery, even if the two look identical to an outside observer...)

Given that I'm not aware of any Muslim women being members here (and not very many women period) I'd suggest that you might also want to look elsewhere (no idea about where) as well.

I'm putting a warning on you about this, but am letting it stand as one can interpret the request either way...

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[bobres]

Thanks for you answer but this was not meant to offend anybody and I am sorry if this happened. Just a request, could you cancel my account please? thanks

[mounds_dont]

Bobres,
You don't have to leave. Many people come here thinking about castration and being a eunuch. Some people who come have blended fantasy and reality together. We try to separate fantasy from reality.

We have a lot of information on castration as well as other mods. Read up on it. Follow the Standards of Care V8.

Good luck on your journey.

MD

[WheelyFixed]

Thanks for you answer but this was not meant to offend anybody and I am sorry if this happened. Just a request, could you cancel my account please? thanks

Thank you for the apology, I'm happy to accept it.

As I said in my earlier post, while it was definitely on the edge of what we consider acceptable, and not a path that we would recommend, it was sufficiently on the border that I was willing to let it stand with a warning, especially since you are new, and not used to our rules. If it had been way over the line, I would have deleted the post and possibly banned you... Posts like yours are one of the challenges that moderators face in making the judgement about what is and isn't OK, but there is no need for you to leave just because of getting a warning.

If you are determined to become a eunuch, we would certainly hope that you'd stick around to learn from those of us that have been down the path already, and follow the appropriate medical procedures (as specified in the SOCv8, or at least done on an informed consent basis by a doctor)

As mounds_dont said we also see a fair number of people that come here with a mix of fantasy and reality. One of the things that we try very hard to do is get them to separate the fantasy from the reality because we have seen that those that try to live their fantasy by getting castrated in reality are usually very unhappy with the resulting reality....

In your situation, I'd ask two questions that you should think very hard about the answers to:

1. If you would be happy to be a slave WITHOUT being castrated?
2. If you would be happy being castrated if you could NOT be a slave?

I would strongly advise that you keep your desire as a fantasy, and not try to make it real UNLESS your answer to BOTH questions is a definite YES....

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[TheRagingEunuch]

"Hello, I am a french man interested in castration . I would like to exchange with some muslim single women interested in having a christian french man that would agree to be castrated and become her slave and eunuch."

I will try to explain my feelings concerning this statement. As a Eunuch who has had a Female Partner for many years, I can attest to the fact, that some such as myself could be considered a sort of "Slave". Being unable to perform the traditional form of sex, I have always felt compelled to please her every wish and whimsey. In so doing, I could probably be misinterpreted as being her slave, or perhaps simply a glorified servant. It is just something I feel I have to do, and which I do willingly. With this in mind, I do understand where this individual is coming from, although he may not be yet a Eunuch.

[WheelyFixed]

"Hello, I am a french man interested in castration . I would like to exchange with some muslim single women interested in having a christian french man that would agree to be castrated and become her slave and eunuch."

I will try to explain my feelings concerning this statement. As a Eunuch who has had a Female Partner for many years, I can attest to the fact, that some such as myself could be considered a sort of "Slave". Being unable to perform the traditional form of sex, I have always felt compelled to please her every wish and whimsey. In so doing, I could probably be misinterpreted as being her slave, or perhaps simply a glorified servant. It is just something I feel I have to do, and which I do willingly. With this in mind, I do understand where this individual is coming from, although he may not be yet a Eunuch.

I don't disagree totally with this, but it somewhat ties in with my comment earlier about the difference between involuntary slavery, and voluntary servitude...

To my eyes what two individuals in the different circumstances are doing may look the same, but an involuntary slave has no choice, if he tries to leave he expects punishment and return to servitude (or worse) and must do whatever the master / mistress demands.... OTOH in the case of voluntary servitude, there is nothing keeping the servant from walking out (except possible concerns about finances / living arrangements) except his willingness to serve. The master knows this and must limit demands to things that the servant is willing to do... There may be emotional tolls or other reasons to make breaking up a last resort, but the fact that one has that 'exit option' and CAN use it, makes a world of difference.

Marriages and less formal relationships (like mine before my GF passed away) are this sort of voluntary servitude, in that while there are certainly consequences to breaking up, that option DOES exist... We just hope to never want to use it...

Being or becoming a eunuch (or not) is really irrelevant to the general case, even if it might be a factor or reason in specific instances...

This particular thread seems a bit problematic to in that Bobres seems to be looking for a person to fit into his (I presume) fantasy dream role, which seems to me a bit backwards and a recipe for future problems.... I'd think he might do better to be a bit less fussy and look for a potential partner that might not be exactly the "dream partner" but who works well enough.... (I'd arguably have preferred a partner who wasn't super-sized, but she was smart and fun to be with and otherwise a wonderful person, so I decided not to let her size be a deal breaker...)

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[NaturalEunuch]

It sounds like you have a sexual fantasy. A lot of men are turned on by fantasies of this nature, so you're not alone. However, with no libido to keep you motivated, this type of lifestyle might get old pretty fast. I'm not saying it's impossible, but castration really puts the kibosh on both mental and physical desires. Good luck!

[TheRagingEunuch]

"It sounds like you have a sexual fantasy. A lot of men are turned on by fantasies of this nature, so you're not alone. However, with no libido to keep you motivated, this type of lifestyle might get old pretty fast. I'm not saying it's impossible, but castration really puts the kibosh on both mental and physical desires. Good luck!"

My whole point was that having always been a Eunuch, I know no other way or feelings. Case closed. My partner and I share the same likes and dislikes and whether or not that is sufficient to make a perfect marriage, we personally could care less and especially less of how others feel about us. As far as fantasies are concerned, each and every one of us has some sort, whether it be sexual or whatever "turns you on". Far be it from me to judge or say which one is right or wrong unless it hurts someone. Once again, just my two cents.

[NaturalEunuch]

"It sounds like you have a sexual fantasy. A lot of men are turned on by fantasies of this nature, so you're not alone. However, with no libido to keep you motivated, this type of lifestyle might get old pretty fast. I'm not saying it's impossible, but castration really puts the kibosh on both mental and physical desires. Good luck!"

My whole point was that having always been a Eunuch, I know no other way or feelings. Case closed. My partner and I share the same likes and dislikes and whether or not that is sufficient to make a perfect marriage, we personally could care less and especially less of how others feel about us. As far as fantasies are concerned, each and every one of us has some sort, whether it be sexual or whatever "turns you on". Far be it from me to judge or say which one is right or wrong unless it hurts someone. Once again, just my two cents.

Sorry RagingEunuch, I wasn't clear that I was addressing the comment of the original poster. Your insights were helpful.