Mac (imported) wrote: Wed Apr 24, 2002 1:50 am
Women can get a hysterectomy or tubal litigation on demand, even without their husband's consent. Married men are required to have their wife's consent even for a vasectomy. Why is there the prejudice against penectomy and castration for men?
I would think fear of malpractice suits if the man changes his mind after castration is a major factor, although Dr. Spector told me that he had never had any of his patients come back and tell him that they felt they had made a mistake in being castrated.
Mac (imported) wrote: Wed Apr 24, 2002 1:50 am
Had a vasectomy several years ago and my wife is only interested in sex about once a month or less. She does not even like to play with my penis as she does not like the mess when I cum. It is also not required for peeing as I sit all the time. It only gives me feelings of frustration without any relief.
A very wise man told me something one time and I believe it to be true...
HE said, "A-1, (not my REAL name) do you know how to stop a beautiful young girl from having sex?"
"No", I replied.
"MARRY HER!"
I have found in my lifetime that this is a GREAT truism. Well, MOST of the time.
It only holds true if she didn't like sex in the first place. Let's face it, you can't change them by marrying them. Get it?
The penis and testicles are unemployed over 99% of the time. It would be really great if they could totally retract inside the body during those times.
alco430 (imported) wrote: Thu Jan 17, 2002 1:29 pm
I speak from experience of one how has not had sex in a loooooooooooooooooooooooooong time..........*g*:o
I never used my cock for sex... Ever! I'm still virgin if it comes to fucking somebody. I get fucked myself often, tho. I like to have a real small cock or none at all My ideal would be having a real small cock, no balls and rounder hips. And of course breasts.
I get only frustration from my penis and testicles. I have sex only rarely, about once every 4 to 6 weeks. My wife will not play with them because she does not like the mess. I do not like the effects that testosterone has had on my body. I sit to pee all the time. What need do I have for them?
Pre-pubescent boys get erections when they are excited or when they have to pee. If you want to find out if you get nocturnal erections just put a small piece of weak tape on your penis before going to bed. If it is off in the morning you had an erection.
Re: smallness. Small testis are great if you like to ride bikes, motorcycles, etc. I pity people with large ones.
Mac and Mad, you're both right! My husband had to be castrated due to prostate cancer; so I had to learn a lot; and I'm for real. Bit I'm olso older now and don't really need him to have an erection. I'm 51 and he's 54. If no more kids are needed or wanted, why is it still Kosher for women to get castrated (hysterectomy), but in todays world; a man's balls can't be touched. My husband got fixed, but only for official med reasons. I didn't like the mess either. He's certainly still a man, and I found out that I like him better. I think he's happy with it too now. He no longer has the urge to do what he can't do anyhow. I think it's like a person who doesn't smoke. There's no urge or desire for cig, because it's not needed anyhow. Of course I never had any, but God gave man balls for reproduction. I guess God made reproduction feel good, so that man would grow the species. Aside from that, I think balls (especially big ones) could be a pain in the neck. It's just an ego thing! Sorry to get on my "soapbox", but just an opinion. --- SUGAR ---
You are so right and understanding. Beyond reproduction, there is no real need for a penis and testicles. However, doctors have a thing about removing them but will willingly remove a woman's uterus and ovaries. Why the double standard.
As a man ages, his penis and the hormones produced by the testicles frequently cause problems which could be drastically reduced if they were removed. Also, tell me why a married man needs his wife's approval for even a vasectomy but a married woman can get a tubal ligation, hysterectomy or removal of her ovaries without her husband's approval?
For 15 years I had an undetcted prolactinoma, a tumor that produces the hormone prolactin. (I will spare you my stock tirade on why it is called the "practice" of medicine.) During the period that the tumor was undetected I did not have erections. Not having erections causes penis shrinkage! I lost one inch in length and 1/2 inch in width. The size reduction could have been prevented if my doctor had told me to use a penis pump for 15 minutes daily. Anyway I have to make do with the size that I have now.
With treatment my sex drive returned...for about a year. My sorely overtaxed testicles gave up and stopped making testosterone. I was given a prescription for Androgel which has given me the testosterone level of a 20 year old (And, the libido to match!) however, long term use of outside testosterone causes the testicles to atrophy! They are now a little bigger than garbonzo beans and non-functional.
So, now I have a shorter penis and micro-balls and am, in effect, a sexually functioning eunuch. I am seriously considering castration and removal of my scrotum which should not effect my performance and I think would be aesthetically more pleasing. My doctor tells me that, at this point, it would largely be a symbolic gesture.
I have been stuffing my cock and balls back into my body by a very tight underwear (designed to do just that). I kept it on through the night. At first, I get painful erections. But now, after several years, I hardly get erect at night any more. I found my cock getting a little smaller. But not small enough. I'd love to find a way to permanently reduce my balls as well, or keep them inside my body. I don't want to get feminized, but just the feel of my balls inside my body and the freedom from having them swinging between my legs. Any suggestions?
Well, I have a small dick. Perhaps too small. I wish it was bigger. And thicker. If there was a way I could swap it with one of you that wants a smaller cock, I'd do it in a heartbeat. I'm guessing when it's erect it's barely 4 inches long. And hardly an inch thick. It's strange hearing from men that WANT to have a SMALLER dick. It's usually the other way around. I want mine bigger. If anything, having a bigger cock would be more meat for a woman to wrap her lips around. I guess if there is any "benefit" of having a smaller dick (from my pov) is that when a woman is giving head, she can take ALL the cock and balls into the mouth. I just wish it was bigger. There probably is nothing like the feeling of the sensation during "deep throat" of having your tube steak rub against some chicks tonsils.
It's funny, I always wondered why my dick is smaller than the usual measurements. I wonder if it had anything to do with masturbating early in life (4th or 5th grade) and often?
Another thing, one of my earliest jobs was working in a factory that employed several Asians. Anyhow, during break, we told a lot of dirty jokes to each other. And many of these Asians (Hmong) just couldn't understand the lure of a bigger sized cock. I guess it is a Western thing: "the bigger the BETTER". They acted like a large cock (anything basically over 5 inches) was freak show stuff.
Still, I'd trade my worm for a 9 or 10 inch curving piece of meat ANY DAY.
XXX (imported) wrote: Thu Nov 18, 2004 3:35 pm
It's funny, I always wondered why my dick is smaller than the usual measurements. I wonder if it had anything to do with masturbating early in life (4th or 5th grade) and often?
Another thing, one of my earliest jobs was working in a factory that employed several Asians. Anyhow, during break, we told a lot of dirty jokes to each other. And many of these Asians (Hmong) just couldn't understand the lure of a bigger sized cock. I guess it is a Western thing: "the bigger the BETTER". They acted like a large cock (anything basically over 5 inches) was freak show stuff.
Still, I'd trade my worm for a 9 or 10 inch curving piece of meat ANY DAY.
XXX,
Nope,
Masturbation didn't have anything to do with it. Probably even made you bigger.
Penis size, barring any disease or pumping device, is largely a function of heredity.
God knows how small it would be if I had cut back on the jerkin' over the years... yikes. At least I should not feel so guilty about masturbating so much. Well, now I feel a tad better knowing that I didn't do anything directly to hinder its growth.
I often thought i was the only guy with this ideal, of a smaller cock.I belong to a yahoo group for body builders and asked them if they could suggest any roid combination thats could decrease its size, the replies i got were quiet rude actually, after all muscle is another form of body modification, but apparently wanting a small cock is not a subject to be disgushed with most men
I have been told that banding can cause long term damage to stop erections and there fore induce shrinkage
You may ask why I dont stop my HRT , but i dont want to stop being a big built male just have a smaller cock, I have always thought that look of big guy in speedos no bulge really hot and intend to achieve it
ukeunuch (imported) wrote: Wed Aug 03, 2005 4:24 am
I often thought i was the only guy with this ideal, of a smaller cock......but apparently wanting a small cock is not a subject to be disgushed with most men
You may ask why I dont stop my HRT , but i dont want to stop being a big built male just have a smaller cock, I have always thought that look of big guy in speedos no bulge really hot and intend to achieve it
Interesting discussion! I don't care much one way or the other, but my BF keeps saying that one of my redeeming characteristics is a small package. He'd like it to be smaller yet, and he seems to fall for twinks with small dicks. While my dick is not short (6.5" hard), it's not long either, and it's of small circumference (4.75" hard). Everything appears a bit smaller because I'm ballless. The length grew by 1" following the initiation of HRT 5 years ago. While the testosterone prescription warning of side effects is clear - penile growth is one, my doc says the growth is an indication that I had likely been hypogonadic for a long time before I was nutted. I just accept people for the size they are, knowing that it's harder to take a really large dick, either anally or orally. Vancouver's Pride celebration was this past weekend. I went to the Naked Heaven celebration Sunday eve at a local club, where it was great to be amongst 400 other naked guys, many of them quite frisky and randy. A really densely populated dance floor and the 30C temperature increased the erotic intensity and lustfulness. While a dick is a dick, the bigger ones were twice the size of the smaller ones, and there was an even greater differential amongst the extremes. However, all of us were just naked men enjoying ourselves and each other.
Yes, a big bodybuilder with a small cock is really hot. The only thing better is a total nullo bodybuilder. Most of these guys either have not considered or are not ready to admit how attractive a fit guy can be without genitals.
Oh my gosh, i love small cocks and balls, they're so hot. Mine's unfortunately an average 6" circumcised with average thickness. My balls are a bit smaller then usual and tight up in the sac, and i love pushing them up inside me while jacking off etc.
As a preteen i use to always play with my balls and stuff them inside me and get erections, but i didn't cum until the end of my eigth grade year
Small cocks are also much less painful to take up the ass, and that's a plus for this bottom! XD
I am 8 inches and been looking fior a way to get down to like 4. Couldn't a partial penectomy work? where you have the shape of a cock? but some of the mid shaft is taken out?
Yeah! I've been thinking the same thing. These days, we read on the newspapers all the time about doctors successfully reattaching penises when they got cut off either by jealous wives / lovers or in accidents, I'd love for a doctor to cut most of my shaft off and reattach only the glands onto a very short stub, reducing my 3"-soft, 5.5"-hard cock to 1"-soft, 1.5"-hard.
Wonder if anybody had this kind of shaft penectomy done?
And yes indeed, small dicks are sure lovely to suck too -- taking it down to the very root of the guy's manhood, and still have room to twirl it around my mouth with my tongue. Can't get much more intimate than that.
I have a 7 incher, huge balls and a resonably good build. I have always wanted smaller genitals, but to stay masculine, not have breasts, and still have sex (when I can be bothered). I have also always wanted to decrease my libido as i am still a vergin (at 25) and dont want to waste time masturbating all the time (which I no longer enjoy atall), and less erections would be a godsend.
It is difficlut for me, as I want my cake and eat it, I want to have smaller genitals, less labido and erections but I also want to stay manly (or boyly).
cubaneunuch (imported) wrote: Wed Jan 30, 2002 5:04 am
I´m currently 34 and been on heavy vet roids or juice since 15, so I can tell you that I lerned to live with a small penis. My body grew to amazing proportions, but lets face it, when you are 6´2´´, and 250 lbs of somehow well worked muscle it is almost a shame to have a penis that barely stands 2.4 inches in the fullest erection. I do love my body and I´m very happy with my penis and I try to keep using it.
Steroids don't shrink your penis, they make it bigger. It is true, however, that if you have a much bigger body than average and only an average sized penis, then you will have the appearance of having small dick. This is where the steroids shrink myth comes from.
My penis size increased from 4.5 inches circumference to 5.5 inches circumference. I have many friends who use "steroids" and have also noticed an increase in size. So like I said, if you have a very large body and only a slightly larger than average penis, it looks like you have a small dick. It's all an illusion.
Testman is correct, steroids do actually make your cock thicker and bigger, while your balls shrink. Personally, would love to lose the balls and sack alltogether, and shorten my dick, which is 7.5 inches hard to about 2-3 inches hard.
Steel (imported) wrote: Fri Aug 05, 2005 11:05 am
Yes, a big bodybuilder with a small cock is really hot. The only thing better is a total nullo bodybuilder. Most of these guys either have not considered or are not ready to admit how attractive a fit guy can be without genitals.
A-1 
My ideal would be having a real small cock, no balls and rounder hips. And of course breasts.
A-1 
