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Blaise (imported)
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Alaska has no poison ivy. If a man has Alaska, he has no need of secular humanism.
Of course, Hazel Mote from Flannery O'Connor's masterwork Wise Blood said, "Man what have a good car, don't need Jesus."
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nullorchis (imported)
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I spent a year in Alaska, and did some additional travel there as well.
It is wonderful....to visit.
But like many places I don't think I could live there.
Too many people.
Animals don't need religion, and people don't either.
However we are taught that we need it.
So we think we need it.
We need sunlight, air, water, food, shelter (clothing is optional).
Some people think/believe they don't need sexual engagement.
We need sex.
As long as we have ourself, there is at least one person to have a sexual relationship with. And while perhaps not the most fulfilling of relationships, it is a relationship that we have full control over. If that one starts to go bad, you are out of options.
It is wonderful....to visit.
But like many places I don't think I could live there.
Too many people.
Animals don't need religion, and people don't either.
However we are taught that we need it.
So we think we need it.
We need sunlight, air, water, food, shelter (clothing is optional).
Some people think/believe they don't need sexual engagement.
We need sex.
As long as we have ourself, there is at least one person to have a sexual relationship with. And while perhaps not the most fulfilling of relationships, it is a relationship that we have full control over. If that one starts to go bad, you are out of options.
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chilliwilli (imported)
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nullorchis (imported) wrote: Thu Aug 14, 2008 10:05 pm As long as we have ourself, there is at least one person to have a sexual relationship with. And while perhaps not the most fulfilling of relationships, it is a relationship that we have full control over. If that one starts to go bad, you are out of options.
...you could always call your mum.
just a wee suggestion.
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twaddler (imported)
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Didn't Whitney Houston do a song about that way back when?
"nullorchis (imported) wrote: Thu Aug 14, 2008 10:05 pm As long as we have ourself, there is at least one person to have a sexual relationship with.
Didn't Whitney Houston do a song about that way back when?
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Hash (imported)
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He's scared to get further involved because you are a eunuch and that seems unnatural to him.
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chilliwilli (imported)
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Hash (imported) wrote: Fri Aug 15, 2008 4:55 am He's scared to get further involved because you are a eunuch and that seems unnatural to him.
An excellent possibility. There was a prince from some arabian country that married a transgender gal from europe. His family had a fit, eventually they got a divorce. This happened I think in just the past few years.
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mrt (imported)
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Hash (imported) wrote: Fri Aug 15, 2008 4:55 am He's scared to get further involved because you are a eunuch and that seems unnatural to him.
Whats the line?
We Fear what we don't understand.
We Hate what we understand but do not control.
??? Or ??? Anyway. If I may borrow another quote "I am Eunuch hear me purrr!!!" Just don't ruffle my kitty fur! Meow!
Hey thats a song! Now we need the ALL EUNUCH CHOIR!
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homptydumpty (imported)
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Relationships with a eunuch.
So being a neuter is one thing. Finding someone to be with and love is another. Lately i have been feeling more connected to the people that i interact with on a daily basis. Though i am young and want to find the love of my life. Just when i think i may have found them, they shy away. Why is it that people get you all riled up and excited only to let you down when it starts to get good?
I have a really hard time desifering weather a man is spending time with me simple as a friend or in hopes of more. And if they are only spending time with me as a friend then why do they touch me, kiss me and turn me on?
Loving someone is so hard, especially when your not sure how to show it.
So being a neuter is one thing. Finding someone to be with and love is another. Lately i have been feeling more connected to the people that i interact with on a daily basis. Though i am young and want to find the love of my life. Just when i think i may have found them, they shy away. Why is it that people get you all riled up and excited only to let you down when it starts to get good?
I have a really hard time desifering weather a man is spending time with me simple as a friend or in hopes of more. And if they are only spending time with me as a friend then why do they touch me, kiss me and turn me on?
Loving someone is so hard, especially when your not sure how to show it.
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micropenis (imported)
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Loving someone is hard, even when your are sure how to show it.
As for cumming; there are plenty of guys out there who would not be able to hold back with you. I am sure you will find the one for you eventually.
You are living the life I wish that I could.
As for cumming; there are plenty of guys out there who would not be able to hold back with you. I am sure you will find the one for you eventually.
You are living the life I wish that I could.
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Milkman (imported)
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Huh?? If you are neutered and asexual, why would you want more than friendship? Would you reject the man if he asked for sex? For most men, being intimate, is a prelude for sex.If, like many post-menopausal women, you want a relationship for companionship and cuddling, then most men straight gay or bi, would not be interested,I would think ?
homptydumpty (imported) wrote: Tue Nov 25, 2008 4:54 pm Relationships with a eunuch.
So being a neuter is one thing. Finding someone to be with and love is another. Lately i have been feeling more connected to the people that i interact with on a daily basis. Though i am young and want to find the love of my life. Just when i think i may have found them, they shy away. Why is it that people get you all riled up and excited only to let you down when it starts to get good?
I have a really hard time desifering weather a man is spending time with me simple as a friend or in hopes of more. And if they are only spending time with me as a friend then why do they touch me, kiss me and turn me on?
Loving someone is so hard, especially when your not sure how to show it.
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homptydumpty (imported) wrote: Tue Nov 25, 2008 4:54 pm Relationships with a eunuch.
So being a neuter is one thing. Finding someone to be with and love is another. Lately i have been feeling more connected to the people that i interact with on a daily basis. Though i am young and want to find the love of my life. Just when i think i may have found them, they shy away. Why is it that people get you all riled up and excited only to let you down when it starts to get good?
I have a really hard time desifering weather a man is spending time with me simple as a friend or in hopes of more. And if they are only spending time with me as a friend then why do they touch me, kiss me and turn me on?
Loving someone is so hard, especially when your not sure how to show it.
Hompty,
Those of us who are older and have had many relationships with lovers who have ranged from really sweet to f@#$ing nuts, see warning signs in the guy you describe and want you to be careful. The reason that we say this is that we have learned, through experience, that it is hard enough to have a relationship with someone who is (relatively) normal, really wants to be with you, and has no agenda they keep hidden from you. Unfortunately, the partners who are f@#$ing nuts are often those that seem far more romantically attractive. As you get older you learn that life doesn't need to be any more complicated than it already is.
Jeff