Dating as an "incomplete man"

[WheelyFixed]

Thanks for the description of your relationship, I'm glad that you have such a good one!

However more importantly it is yet another demonstration that one can have the sort of relationship, or not, that one desires, and the equipment involved is not a big factor beyond possibly defining what is physically possible (but that just leads to creative alternatives....)

So it is entirely possible to have the range from no relationship with a partner to very active intimacy and sexual activity and all the variants in between, and as long as everyone involved likes their situation, it is wonderful!

WheelyFixed

[puck_]

Personally, while respecting others, I can say I don’t really understand how one can simultaneously desire being a eunuch and still desire or expect “sexual intimacy” after completing the hard work of “disabling” themselves. While I understand most people’s need for some kind of validation and companionship, the concept of desiring sex while also desiring the removal of the parts that enable it seem irreconcilably opposed…?

From my own perspective, it's really not that complicated. I'm not removing the parts that enable sexual intimacy for me. I like men, and I have always been a bottom. My cock and balls hasn't ever really been the center of my sexual activity.

And of course, a variety of creative sexccessories exist. I know nullos who sometimes top using toys, who actually like topping a lot more (or perhaps even for the first time) now that their own much-maligned penis isn't involved.

You seem to be asexual, which is a fine and wonderful thing to be. But being ace and being (or wanting to be) a eunuch aren't really the same thing, and one does not necessarily imply the other. There are a lot of reasons a person might want to be a eunuch or nullo besides reducing or eliminating their libido.

[Peewee]

My now deceased wife told me that women don’t care if a partner doesn’t have balls as long he has a dick. I have found this to be true with the women I’ve been with since then. None of them ever mentioned my empty scrotum to me, let alone it being an issue for them.

[WheelyFixed]

It's a mixed bag, some women (or guys if you swing that way...) will have issues, some won't... The only time it is likely to be a major issue is if she is wanting to do the kid thing, as opposed to 'recreational' activity. Otherwise, I strongly believe that while you might not have luck with some, you are likely to find a partner by being the sort of person that YOU would be willing to date...

Look in that mirror, not just for appearance, but for what kind of person you are, and work on being the sort of person you'd like to be with...

WheelyFixed