Eunuch Lifestyles

[TheRagingEunuch]

Just wondering if the is any chance in reviving "Eunuch Lifestyles"? As a lifelong 'Nuch, I always enjoyed reading how others learned to cope with this situation. Thanks.

[WheelyFixed]

Start the thread... tell us a bit about your lifestyle, and see how folks respond... With the fresh start we are making here on EAv3 a lot of the topics of discussion that were on EAv2 have been lost, and it is helpful if folks start up things about what they want to keep on discussing.

Hint -

enjoyed reading how others learned to cope with this situation.

is kind of vague, so it might be better if you asked something a bit more focused...

What sort of issues do you find difficult?

What kinds of tricks and techniques have you found helpful?

WheelyFixed

[photoglenn]

Becoming a eunuch has resulted in my husband no longer desired to have sex with me.

He misses my balls and since I am now impotent it takes all the fun out of being gay.

I was a horney gay man who enjoyed having gay sex with my husband.

While I do not miss my balls, I do miss having gay sex.

[WheelyFixed]

Have you experimented at all w/ doing things that aren't particularly sexual? Cuddling, massage, and so on? I know that some of the straight couples where he was castrated (often in the interest of 'libido matching') said their love life has actually improved because he didn't feel as driven by his need to get off, so he could slow down and spend more time on her needs... This led to more relaxed interchange and back and forth so he ended up enjoying it more as well...

Of course this was with straight couples, I don't have any experience w/ the dynamics of gay relationships so perhaps things won't work the same way, I don't know...

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[NaturalEunuch]

The only people who know about my eunuch status are my wife and my doctor team. None of the changes to my body are noticeable on the street - my appearance is still that of a normal male. We discussed the issue before the orchi. Penetrative sex is, of course, out the door. As we're both in our late 60s, we are both OK without it. Otherwise, my lifestyle is pretty much the same as it was before.

[WheelyFixed]

I'm in about the same boat, my GF and my doctors (and all the folks here and on EAv2) know, but nobody else... I've had some boob growth, but w/ a shirt on I still fit w/in the standard male profile... I think I might get some funny looks if in the pool, but haven''t tried that...

My GF and I still hug and kiss a lot, but between our respective medical issues aren't really able to do a lot more than that... Even hugs are tough when we are both in wheelchairs

I haven't been able to orgasm since my injury back in 2010, which is one of the things that lead to my wanting to be fixed, I feel better overall with them gone....

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