Dating as an "incomplete man"

[TheRagingEunuch]

"The word eunuch is off-putting to most."

Granted, there are some who may feel that way, but I have seldom if ever had an issue and I have always been open about it.

[Pussyman215]

I'm not in the dating market, but if I were, I would present my being a eunuch as a positive. A lot of people don't like penetration. That makes eunuchs the perfect partners for people who want the benefits of a mate without the obligation to swap bodily fluids. I'd advertise that fact in online ads. Also, I would never publicly identify as a eunuch. The word eunuch is off-putting to most. People just want a normal partner who doesn't have any interest in sex. That's the main message. The reason why is of lesser import.

As a typical eunuch (dick but no balls) you can still exchage fluids, but you can't produce a child. If that is their fear everything is alright.

[Lizz]

Very true.
I've said this before - many women would like eunuch partners but they don't know eunuchs are an option. Less fighting, cheating, etc etc.
I have talked to a few women who have eunuch partners. They are happy women.
Somebody, do a eunuch public relations campaign...and put up a eunuch dating site.

[Lizz]

Further, a eunuch could read up about the asexuals and asexuality. They have a dating site. There are both women and men who like affection, but not penetrative sex. The dating site is Ace-book.net There are more women on there than men.

[TheRagingEunuch]

My Partner echoes your sentiments.

Very true.
I've said this before - many women would like eunuch partners but they don't know eunuchs are an option. Less fighting, cheating, etc etc.
I have talked to a few women who have eunuch partners. They are happy women.
Somebody, do a eunuch public relations campaign...and put up a eunuch dating site.

[TheRagingEunuch]

I speak often about being open about being a Eunuch and I thought I should share an incident that occurred back when I was in High School. It would seem that a girl in the class below me (A Junior) became pregnant. She never would say by whom, but my name turned up on the list of the suspects. Her parents were embarrassed when they discovered that I was a Eunuch and it was highly improbable that I was the culprit. Actually, it made for a good chuckle.
From that day forward I became much more open of my identity.

[WheelyFixed]

Amusing... You should have strung them along until you were able to get on one of those afternoon TV shows and tell the host "I am NOT the father"....

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[TheRagingEunuch]

"You should have strung them along until you were able to get on one of those afternoon TV shows and tell the host "I am NOT the father" "

Sorry, but I have a face for radio and a voice for television.

[Swim1650]

I’m a 28 year old aspiring nullo. I’ve had a few long term girlfriends and experimented with men a few times. I am under no illusions that I will have a very good chance of landing a parter once my penis is gone. I’m pretty sure 98% of people would think I’m a freak if they found out I had no genitals, 100% of they found out it entirely wrong voluntary

I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m asexual, so I’m really not too concerned.

I think if you’re just castrated most people won’t care. A lot of men have to get castrated at some point. That said, if you’re castrated and not on TRT, that might be a problem.

[WheelyFixed]

I’m a 28 year old aspiring nullo. I’ve had a few long term girlfriends and experimented with men a few times. I am under no illusions that I will have a very good chance of landing a parter once my penis is gone. I’m pretty sure 98% of people would think I’m a freak if they found out I had no genitals, 100% of they found out it entirely wrong voluntary

I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m asexual, so I’m really not too concerned.

I think if you’re just castrated most people won’t care. A lot of men have to get castrated at some point. That said, if you’re castrated and not on TRT, that might be a problem.

At 28 you MIGHT find it a challenge to find a partner your own age, but not impossible... I know that reportedly a great many older women are not interested in penetrative sex (and even find it painful) and a eunuch partner is just the ticket for them. We even have had several members that have gotten themselves fixed for this reason (we refer to it as 'libido matching') where their partner wasn't interested in penetration while they were having stress from not getting it... They actually said it IMPROVED their love life as well as their relationship...

Remember there is more to being a partner, or even having sex, than having a stiff dick! Cuddling and general affection, and so on can actually be more satisfying than just getting your rocks off and going to sleep...

This is a question that actually comes up a LOT in the SCI world, of how can I find a partner as a wheelchair user... (Or keep one, we do have a higher divorce rate than average) The answer is the same, lots of people do, and the biggest part of it is to do whatever it takes to be the sort of person that YOU would want to date...

From what people have said both here and on EAv2, I'd estimate that most had some sort of relationship (straight or gay...) and that most of those who didn't were either single by choice, or because their partner had passed on...

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