Use of chastity cages as castration

[wanasoso2]

Have a look at Sierra Parker on the web, see my other post for the title. Also the blog of Sara Jameson. Sierra is more on the psychological side of the couple dynamics while Sara is more on the D/s relationship. For myself I prefer Sierra parker.

I'll do that. Thanks for the advice. While chastity is not something I'm capable of submitting to, understanding the dynamics of denial help me understand the path I've taken to genital nullification. Curiously, having another person responsible for the key to my cock was something that gave me peace. I wasn't supposed to be male unless he allowed me to be male brought me to the acceptance that I didn't want to be male.

Please no-balls clarify this or I misunderstood. You said not capable of submitting but having your cock under key gave you peace. You did it or not? Or you did it without any submission (?) Which could then be similar to my situation. If it's the case I thank you very much for your comments, it enlighten me on my difficulty to express what I feel. It's four days now that I kept my cage closed even for cleanup with the power shower. It's the first time of my life that I didn't see my dick or touch it for that long. Still this morning I woke up with a smile thinking that I have no access to the noodle. Form what you said, from what I feel it seams that wearing a chastity device is like a practice of castration, a kind of "act as if..." If I feel good without seeing and touching my cock, and for a much longer period, it could be a signal that I'm in a good mood or in a serious journey toward castration. Could that be right? Was it the case for you?

[Bibiballs]

My advice is that is that putting your dick locked in a cage don't stop the testosterone.
It's just a device which can lead to chastity if someone else keep the key. So you know you have to wait and try to avoid thinking about sex meanwhile time.

[wanasoso2]

My advice is that is that putting your dick locked in a cage don't stop the testosterone.
It's just a device which can lead to chastity if someone else keep the key. So you know you have to wait and try to avoid thinking about sex meanwhile time.

Absolutely and that why it's psychological castration I think. A mental preparation to what may come in a more complete state of mind (without T).

[Patrick1962]

Je suis un adepte des cages de chasteté, j'en possède quelques modèles que je porte de temps en temps, le plus long que je l'ai portée c'est pendant 60 jours consécutifs en la retirant tous les 3 jours pour un nettoyage alors que j'aurais pus la laisser en permanence.
Je possède aussi une cage commandée à distance pour le verrouillage et le déverrouillage et pour des séances de décharges électriques sur le pénis. La comnande se fait au moyen d'une application et peut se faire dans le monde entier.

Le fait de porter une cage, me procure une sorte de soumission envers mon Maître et de mon partenaire. Pour le moment je ne la porte pas, je laisse un moment avant de remettre ma queue en cage.

Au plaisir de continuer à vous lire.
Amitiés
Patrick
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I'm a fan of chastity cages, I own a few models that I wear from time to time, the longest I've worn it was for 60 consecutive days removing it every 3 days for cleaning when I could have left it on permanently.
I also have a remote-controlled cage for locking and unlocking and for electric shock sessions on the penis. Ordering is done via an app and can be done anywhere in the world.

Wearing a cage gives me a kind of submission towards my Master and my partner. For the moment I'm not wearing it, I'll leave it on for a while before putting my cock back in the cage.

I look forward to continuing to read you.
Best regards
Patrick

[Bibiballs]

2 months in cage is a long time.
Did you take advantage of the cleaning time to masturbate your dick ?
Did you keeping the cage while sleeping ?

[Patrick1962]

Oui ce fût long, mais je l'ai très bien supportée, et lors du nettoyage de la cage, je n'avais pas le droit de me masturber.

Je la gardais pour dormir et lors des périodes de travail.
Certaines fois, j'ai changé de cage pour mettre la cage commandée à distance.
Merci pour vos commentaires et vos remarques.
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Yes, it took a long time, but I put up with it very well, and when cleaning the cage, I wasn't allowed to masturbate.

I kept it for sleeping and when I was working.
On some occasions, I switched to the remote-controlled cage.
Thank you for your comments and feedback.

[Bibiballs]

Peux tu décrire la progression de ton ressenti durant ces deux mois ? Dirais-tu qu'à un certain moment c'était une castration psychologique au point de ne plus penser au sexe ?

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Can you describe the progression of your feelings during these two months? Would you say that at a certain point it was a psychological castration to the point of no longer thinking about sex?

[Patrick1962]

Il est vrai que quand j'ai proposé à mon partenaire/Maître de me mettre en cage, j'avais envie de rester le plus longtemps en cage et de ne pas pouvoir me branler et de ne pas pouvoir me masturber.
Il est vrai que par moment j'ai eu des envies de me masturber et de retirer la cage. Il faut dire aussi que j'avais une clé pour pouvoir la retirer à tout moment si devait arriver un problème.
Il est vrai que c'est une sorte de castration psychologique, il m'arrivait aussi de ne plus penser à la cage et à mon pénis emprisonné.
Si je n'avais pas eu de problèmes d'irritations de la peau, je serai peut-être encore en cage à ce moment.
Mais je remettrai mon pénis en cage et je vais essayer de la garder le plus longtemps possible, tout en faisant la toilette et le nettoyage de la cage.
Merci pour vos commentaires.
Amitiés
Patrick

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It's true that when I proposed to my partner/Master to put me in a cage, I wanted to stay in the cage as long as possible and not be able to jerk off and not be able to masturbate.
It's true that at times I had the urge to masturbate and remove the cage. It's also true that I had a key so I could remove it at any time if anything went wrong.
It's true that it's a kind of psychological castration, and I sometimes stopped thinking about the cage and my imprisoned penis.
If I hadn't had problems with skin irritations, I might still be in the cage at this point.
But I will put my penis back in the cage and I will try to keep it there as long as possible, while doing the grooming and cleaning of the cage.
Thank you for your comments.
Best regards
Patrick

[no-balls]

Have a look at Sierra Parker on the web, see my other post for the title. Also the blog of Sara Jameson. Sierra is more on the psychological side of the couple dynamics while Sara is more on the D/s relationship. For myself I prefer Sierra parker.

I'll do that. Thanks for the advice. While chastity is not something I'm capable of submitting to, understanding the dynamics of denial help me understand the path I've taken to genital nullification. Curiously, having another person responsible for the key to my cock was something that gave me peace. I wasn't supposed to be male unless he allowed me to be male brought me to the acceptance that I didn't want to be male.

Please no-balls clarify this or I misunderstood. You said not capable of submitting but having your cock under key gave you peace. You did it or not? Or you did it without any submission (?) Which could then be similar to my situation. If it's the case I thank you very much for your comments, it enlighten me on my difficulty to express what I feel. It's four days now that I kept my cage closed even for cleanup with the power shower. It's the first time of my life that I didn't see my dick or touch it for that long. Still this morning I woke up with a smile thinking that I have no access to the noodle. Form what you said, from what I feel it seams that wearing a chastity device is like a practice of castration, a kind of "act as if..." If I feel good without seeing and touching my cock, and for a much longer period, it could be a signal that I'm in a good mood or in a serious journey toward castration. Could that be right? Was it the case for you?

I can't submit to chastity anymore because you can't cage something that isn't there.

When I still had junk, I told my then-partner I'd like to try long-term chastity. After a couple of failure cages, we chose an inverted cage that pushed my cock into my abdomen, flat against my crotch. It had a short tube in my urethra which allowed me to pee without making a mess. The tube also made it impossible to remove without unlocking it. I wore it for months at a time. Because denial works best when you don't have a choice, I had him keep the key.

The chastity we practiced wasn't enough complete as I had exposed balls. It did, upon reflection, give me a test drive. I didn't feel denied. I felt peace. I felt comfortable. I had a cock... but I didn't. We had a great sex life. He had a big cock and I had a hole.

At the time, my partner probably understood better that I'd be better off without junk.

Many years later, still ambivalent about my junk, I took to destroying my balls with injections. Once they were shriveled, irregular and hard, I presented to a urologist and was castrated. Later I went back to the same urologist and explained I still didn't feel complete. He referred me to a therapist and I had psych letter one that same afternoon. I worked longer with a second therapist to better understand myself. I had psych letter two that permitted me to proceed to surgery to be nullified.

[Jon246]

An interesting topic and something that I hadn’t thought about before. I too was locked up from time to time before my my own castration, as part of BDSM. I always just associated it with denial, control (by the other party) and submission - or more generally BDSM. Obviously since I was “fixed” it’s both unnecessary and impossible to use these devices - you do need balls after all for them to stay in place.